fuckfriends... do you buy them stuff?
 

my question is, if you have girls that you fool around with, but nothing serious

would you go and buy them shoes or perfume or something to make them happy? or just let them be?

discuss...

I buy them the pill

Why dont you buy me something nice??

MAYBE-- but nothin nearly as costly as shoes or perfume :eek7

drinks once in a while

if you start buying them shit they'll get the wrong idea

bastard.

you beat me to it.

Of course you do. A happy lady gives it up more easily. Spend the money, bro.

a friend is a friend, whether in bed or not. If you wouldn't buy the thing for your buds, then you don't buy it for the bed buds either.

You're doing something wrong if they're not getting YOU shit.

that's the way I see it, I just wanted others opinions as well :)

fuckfriends usually need to be kept on the downlow, so the fewer associations, the better.....besides, if you start buying them stuff they might think they've moved up from fuckfriend status to girlfriend status and that could upset the balance with your current girlfriend and/or wife...

buy her dildos, thongs and stuff like that :)

& sykkboy is right with his "keep it low" theory.

what if we both know that we are only doing it for the fun? that there isint really any emotion involved?

Exactly.

LOL! You beat me to it too:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :Graucho

all the more reason to not buy anything...and aren't most fuckbuddies just there for both of you to get off anyways? ;-)

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Exactly. If they are your fuckbuddy then they get the same thing out of the deal you do. They get laid.

I would buy the girls drinks and dinner here and there...

If you start buying gifts, the girls make get the wrong impression and think you are on a road to a relationship.

No way.. you start down that road and they become girlfriends and then whats the damn point?

i buy them condoms maybe dinner if they happen to come by and i'm ordering something. gifts are for people i give a rats ass about, if you're a bootycall then chances are i dont care enough to consider you worthy of gift

i usually just take them out to dinner or lunch every so often



depends on if my g/f is around or not :Graucho

no sex until marriage :warning

yes and things will get worst then... :pimp

wha.. I gotta start being nice to them
EVEN after I had my fun?? :disgust

Why would you buy them anything? (Other than food maybe)

very good theory :thumbsup

If you can afford it, do it. It's all chump change in the long run. But it's better to give gifts AFTER you had some pussy.

I like his answer better so screw what I just said.

no way man or you will never get rid of her

Only buy them stuff if not buying them stuff will mean the end of your fun!

sex toys, food, drinks. no more :)

If you feel moved to, buy gifts that are thoughtful and maybe sexy, but not romantic.

I'd say only lingerie to be honest. Then they look good for you :)

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Why buy the cow when you're getting the milk for free? :upsidedow

Buy her flowers...

Yes buy her something if you want her to think that you are falling in love with her. She should be buying you things.

Bump?

What bump?

No I don't buy them anything. Why oh why would you want to confuse the situation? Women aren't like guys at all in their thought processess.. if you buy them stuff they think you have feelings for them.

If you want to buy her stuff then make a real relationship out of it.

Thats my line of thinking too.
If you would buy for your buds, you can buy for your bed bud too.

i would get her some tittie tassles and a bottle of vodka.

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Buy them stuff related to the booty calls otherwise you are asking for trouble... or a relationship...