Is porn moral or immoral??
 

I had dinner with my brothers new girlfriend tonight in the city. He is OS and she asked me out for dinner (not as a date). My brother told me she was a cathlic but I didn't want to blu out what I do for a living, so I gently told her. Man, she freaked infront of everyone with a loud voice.

- Your poisoning the internet.
- Porn kills.
- Porn pulls family's apart.
- Your support people who do child porn.
- It's immoral and wrong.
- Your driving the world closer to sex slavery.
- Sex on the internet should be banned!
- Everyone that does this is sick and should be sent to jail.

I know most of you love her already. I was about to bitch slap this girl. Seriously, are some people this stupid that they can brand others without knowing the full facts?

I love my brother, but when it goes to the wire, I hope this happness doesn't end with this girl.

What are your thoughts?

knee jerk reaction from her...maybe she will calm down


maybe not..lol

Give her a one-way ticket to Saudi Arabia.

Porn is good for you:thumbsup

tell your bro to kick her out the door

He loves her. But she did tell me that if she even found a single adult picture on this computer -- she was gone.

Tell her to Go fuck herself. Honestly bro.

She´s full of shit. Porn is a natural thing. Its what drives the world. Well, at least thats what drives men. :thumbsup

Catholic girls are the best...they may seem all shocked and offended on the outside but deep down, all she wants is some double anal action :)

That's ridiculous. In my opinion there are two types of people, those who are sexually active and those that wish they were sexually active, and are probably jealous of those that are. It's quite easy to sopt one from the other. Sounds like this girl might be in the latter category. :2 cents:

She's an idiot. He needs to have anal sex with her, pee on her leg in the shower and then dump her.

Brad

If all girls could be as cool as yours Zoic, the world would be a much better place to date.

:1orglaugh

Thanks buddy - much appreciated :)

We're both looking forward to seeing you up here in July. First round is on me :glugglug

this girl needs to chill out... she fears what she doesn't understand, classic case.

Looking forward to the AAI in July Zoic. Second round is on me. :)

If I got all that abuse from her from running just 1 banner, image what she would do if she knew I would about to start doing photo shoots and had 200+ domains.

I told her that even if I stopped promoting porn it's not going to stop everyone else. Which is so true, if I stop someone else is going to make that money somewhere along the track, why not let it be me.

She probably likes it rough...and swallows enough vitamin e laced paste to cure skin cancer.

Ask her if she ever goes to the movies to watch Arnold killing people all over the world.. or a terminator doing nothing but killing. Ask her whats better, sex or people being murdered on the big screen.

It's an old case of that old Catholic guilt - "Sex is for procreation only" - that's the shit I had to grow up with - well the point is that porn and sex are part of life and if she doesn't like what you do then she does have to look at it. I am Catholic myself and have always thought of the hypocracy of the church - who by the way is still one of the largest land owners and wealth holders in the world and still asks its people to donate to charity? Fucked up!

We support childporn?`

If someone told me that I woiuld fucking come down on that person like lightning....fists and all :)

Thats just fucking lame trying to pull the child porn angle to this bizz to kind of find something to blaim...

Some xtrians are very judgemental and intolerent.

Fuck 'em.

:rasta

And God is Brazilian and He likes porn!

Your story just gave me a great idea on how to use ethicalporn.com

LMFAO

I think the best thing you can do is tell your brother how she freaked out on you, and that even though he loves her, you just want to warn him before he falls harder for her.

Whatever her opinion, she had no right to go off on you. To me, that just shows how immature she is, and how she has no respect for her boyfreind's family.(you)

I want copyrights on this idea of yours. :D

And I want a business partner. :1orglaugh

Force her to read GFY..and if she doesnt change her mind,

then knee her in the face:1orglaugh

no but honestly porn is everywhere and I dont understand people reaction (especially younger ppl) .. like wake the fuck up online porn is the shit you know it ..

All we do is feed porn to people... wtf is wrong with that??


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The weird part was after the yelling match about the subject died she was back to that "lovey dovey" mode. Like nothing even happened. Then she sms's me on her way home. "I had a great time tonight, she should do this again in a few weeks when your bother gets back, see ya later".

I'm thinking to myself, WTF is wrong with this picture.

Split personalities, suggest counceling.

Fuck that... you shoulda bitch slapped her.







Or checked her computer at home for porn.





Jus kidding, I would never advocate hitting a girl but would your brother have minded a mild choking?

http://www.freakmanor.com/smilies/haha.gif

She doesn't even have the internet at home, it's only what she doesn't know that makes her think like this.

I liked her until she freaked then went back to plesent mode.

She's got some serious issues. Better get them checked out before your bro gets attacked late at night cuz she finds him... agahst... masturbating!!!

I agree that this was probably a knee jerk reaction. She is also very religious. religious people typically thrive on their own personal ignorance. They tend to be a bit more judgemental of other ways of life. I think that organized religion has done much more damage to our planet and our humanity than porn could possibly ever do. Even if Porn began to actively and intentionally cause damge to others, it would pale in comparison to the insane, illogical, fanatical, and blind actions taken by many religious zealots. Organised religion disgusts me. Christianity is the worlds first pyramid marketing plan ever devised. Traditional pyramid plans, or multi level marketing, actually does pay people hard tangible cash for their sales production. Christianity simply makes promises of ever-lasting bliss in heaven, which may or may not exist. What a waste of human resources and time. If we took all the money collected by the vatican from the blind christian sheep and invested it in things like medical research, space exploration, and better schools the world would be a much better place. But that would mean the Pope, the greatest con artist to ever live, would have to get a real job. He should try multi level marketing of a real product like vitamins or legal services instead of conning people out of their money with empty promises of ever lasting life! What a fucking crock. I really don't have much of a problem with religion and religious people, but it just pisses me off that so many people think they have to support an old fucker who does nothing by sending him money. If God really does exist, my guess is that he doesn't require monetary donations to get his attention. If God is in every one of us, then why the hell would you need to seek out a middle man, ie. prists, to pass on your message? Cut out the middle man and go straight to the source and ask God in your prayers exactly what you'd like. This way your message doesn't get screwed up by someone else. The catholic church and the vatican is the single biggest money scam the world has ever seen and it thrives on the ignorance of the masses. Porn is fun and entertaining. Organized Religion is fucking BULLSHIT!!!!

I agree with that, but I definitely advocate having a girlfriend kick her fucking ass. Just kidding violence is never the answer.

What a coincidence. I was just chatting with this girl in IM and she tried to fucking imply that I'm using children. I was HEATED:

Dumb Bitch: so from pornography, u make enough $ to support your family and yourself?
Dumb Bitch's status is now "GO RED SOX !" (4/30/2004 10:59 AM)
BVF: yes
Dumb Bitch: thats disturbing
BVF: why?
Dumb Bitch: because more people will see this and the world will become sodom and gomorrah.. children are already exploited by pornographers.. as i read on ur blog.. its scares me.. but he world is vicious. .. i guess people just need to teach their kids
BVF: yawn
BVF: nobody is exploiting anybody...they do it of their own free will
BVF: the world can't BECOME sodom and gomorrah because it already happened
BVF: it already IS
Dumb Bitch: how can children do things on their free will
BVF: what children?
BVF: what children am I exploiting? tell me
Dumb Bitch: like a 15 yr old is like damn i need money.. lemme pose for dude.. thats wild to me.. maybe im crazy
BVF: WHY IN THE FUCK WOULD I PUT A 15 YEAR OLD ON MY PORN SITE?
Dumb Bitch: whoah now
Dumb Bitch: i hit a nerve
BVF: don't even put kids in it
BVF: cause you don't know what you're talking about...porn does NOT mean child porn
BVF: don't even try to link the two
BVF: that's what the ignorant media tries to do
BVF: how dare you accuse me of child pornography
BVF: you would get straight cussed the hell out if you said that to me in person
BVF: don't ever in your life even THINK of accusing someone of that heinous crime without proof ever again
Dumb Bitch: i was talking about the young girl in ur blog who u picked up that may have been homeless.. for somereason i dont believe people care whether or not these kids are 18.. just saying they are 18 is enough..
Dumb Bitch: like you called them young and tenders implying that they look like children
Dumb Bitch: i am not accusing you of anything
BVF: you gotta get ID
BVF: and i said that also
BVF: read the whole thing
BVF: don't pick out parts of it
Dumb Bitch: i did read the whole thing
Dumb Bitch: im not implying anything
BVF: then if you did you wouldn't say that
BVF: cause it's the LAW to get ID
BVF: and i EXPLICITLY stated that
Dumb Bitch: im just saying that callying people young and tenders and being happy becaus ethey look so young is kind of wierd..
BVF: so?
Dumb Bitch: but thats all u
BVF: what's wrong with saying young?
BVF: i'm 32...to me, 20 is young
BVF: to a 60 year old, 32 is young
BVF: young don't mean CHILD
Dumb Bitch: im really sorry that this subject has made you crazy..
BVF: and I put 40 year old women up on the same site
BVF: you don't accuse or even HINT that someone does child porn
BVF: when you don't know the facts...saying YOUNG don't mean shit

She does anal doesn't she?

No, but she is sure anal. :)

Dude do you see the button on your keyboard that reads "Enter" or might also be a <-- arrow....

Try and press that from time to time.

I promise it will make your stuff alot more easy to read :thumbsup

Sounds like she's been reading the WatchTower a little too much. Let her simmer down, then she if she brings it up again. If she doesn't, then let her have her little mental block. If she does, then that's between her and her man to deal with.

:2 cents:

yea being a porn webmaster doesnt come across to well with other people, they all think your promoting beastily,cp,animal rape etc. Best thing to do is just educate them and give them the facts and tell them they shouldnt stereotype people

Disown your brother for living with someone who wants to see you put in jail.

I would.

Id never let blood mingle with the archaic minds of the right wing christians, i would have sput in her food when she excuseed herself or something.

there is no negotiating with christians, they used to burn people like us alive.

you think theyd have it any other way today if they could?

get them back as often as you can is how I live.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

porn, erotica, sexuality, and morality are all different things.

1. porn can be "immoral" but it has nothing to do with the sexuality aspects of it---it becomes immoral or morally repugnant when people are abused or victimized in it's production. that is not a sexual issue.

2. consensual adult sexuality is uplifting to the human spirit---this is not a morality issue.

3. same for "erotica".

"porn" in it's usual definition is simply masturbatory "erotica".

"erotica" in it's usual definition is porn with some aesthetic sense.

class dismissed.

Sounds to me like a bit of ignorance and poor control of her emotions. :glugglug