How many of you feel the need to be MARRIED by a certain age?
 

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my gf does :P

I dont think it makes any difference at all...

its all about what makes you happy etc...

Marriage?

Been there done that twice.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I think women worry more about it than men.I sure as hell don't want to get married..I seen buddies lives destroyed after those bitches took them for half of everything..fuck that shit :glugglug

I always thought by 30 I would do it... 30 Came and went, too early for marriage, now its 35 ...

im single

:(

trust me juicy, it's the wrong feeling to have. It takes guts but trust in yourself and you will KNOW when the time is right and when it's the right person. Worry about the person you're going to be with and not the time frame that you have to be married by or you could wind up meeting your soul mate several years later and be married to someone you're ok with but not really in love with.

Naaa not at all.

I know mna, I am in no rush trust me , be it my time will be in 2 yrs or 20 yrs I wont do it unless i know it is the "right" time

Every woman when they turn 26, some alarm goes off in their heads and they need to get married.

Women tend to be pressured alot from their moms and family.

Fuck if my dad was on my case about marriage i would kill myself

which makes them easier to get in bed... :Graucho

I know my parents want grandchildren before they get too old. But I made it quite clear that if they want a future generation to back off from pressuring me or our family ends with me :)

WG

I'm 36 and i'm going to get married. but i never felt i should before

the are a lot of downsides to marriage, and the upsides [if any] are limited...

mid 40's i don't wanna be the old guy in the club.

anyone wants to marry me ? :1orglaugh

gotta pic ? :winkwink:

I got married for good health insurance :1orglaugh

I was with hubby for 7 years before we got married.. I told him if I had to listen to my parents one more year about getting married I was going to kick his ass..so we had a quickie cheapo wedding in the backyard and a big ass party afterwards...now I own half of everything... too bad I paid for most of everything.. :1orglaugh

I didn't feel the need to be married by a certain age... but I married when I was 21 (last year).

Age doesn't matter.

well said

hrrmmm I don't feel the need to get married by any age..but do think about it:Graucho

I don't see the difference between marriage and a long term relationship... except for that marriage brings the law into things. And that's once place I don't think the law belongs.

If i did get married, i'd have a prenuptial agreement.

I think women are more concerned about it because society says after a certain age, they're not attractive enough to find a mate any longer. Female youth is prized.

Statistically men have a far greater chance of getting married at just about any age and getting re-married after a divorce. Maybe this will change in the next generation as women continue to gain more financial power and outdated taboos of younger men with older women continue to be broken.

Hehe I went to a "buck and doe" that we held for my best friend last night.

A buck and doe is a party we throw and we invite all the friends of the bride and the groom and their families. It's basically like a fundraiser to help the couple pay for at least part of their wedding. I was working the cash last night and I think I sold a few thousand in drink tickets alone. I think I drank about $100 worth of booze myself :)

All my friends seem to be married now or in the midst or getting married. We're 27-29 which seems to be the average age now of people around here. I say get married when you are ready and you know you have the right person. I just always recommend that you go out and get wild and crazy for a couple of years before you decide to settle down. Too many of my buddies married their high school sweethearts and never had the chance to play the field. Then 5 years later they are bored as shit...

Anyways I've found the right person and I am taking the plunge. Wish me luck! :)

DH

where's my invite?

I don't have that fell....i supose i will know when it is right time:winkwink:

Congrats bro :thumbsup

My cousin (a guy) is pushing 30 and is feeling huge pressure from his mom, not only for getting married but getting married to someone of the same culture (Jordanian/middle eastern).

I'm already married so I don't have this problem but my sister is 20 now and I feel like she needs to be married by 25 because it seems to get harder to find someone after that

I think I will get married when donkeys sprout wings and start speaking spanish, untill then I will just be happy being single :winkwink:

My girl wants to get married, she's 20.
I have no plans to marry before I turn 30, no way.. no how.

i dont.

been with my man (and living together for) 6 yrs. now. at this point, it would be more of a benefit us to get married for several reasons. (cars, loans, a house, taxes, etc etc)

:glugglug

In Russia, they say that if you dont get married before 20, there is good chances you will never.

I dont see why is it such a problem. It always scares me to see married girls from my age...

I,ll probably only get a fiancé and never marry him...and we'll stay happy forever.

marriage doesn't mean shit, the age at which you have children if any is far more important.

In my 30s mid 30s

I married the right girl at the right time! :thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup

married hmm maybe never but maybe if I find a girl worth marrying
I don't have a reason to hurry into it.

:1orglaugh You da man :thumbsup

marriage from what i have seen and heard is a separate job in and of it self that can fluctuate per second. i have too much going on in my life to where i could not, nor do i want to, dedicate that much time to a person. it wouldn't be fair to either party.

then you have divorce which is too easy to obtain and lest not forget the financial problems that occur with a divorce. no thanks...i have worked too hard to share what i have earned.

therefore, unless the concept of marriage goes back to that sacred meaning as it once held and i become less selfish, no age is good enough for me to marry.

Before I loose my hair :)

Did you have a particular age - time in mind Juicy?! lol Some have had more than one! :1orglaugh