BJ tips!
 

Okay, im determined to make my boyfriend cum from a blow job. He claims its very hard for him to do that, only two girls have been able to do it before.

So, Tips Tips Tips! I need good tips that can help me out!

i used to use that line on chicks. no offense meant....but i did it because they always seemed MORE eager to be the one that made it happen.

that has to be a false statement from him!!!:2 cents:

ALL guys can cum from blowjobs.....:)

^--- What he said.

Never said he couldnt, he just hasnt with me yet :-)

Probably because im a bit eager to get to the main course :-) But, its a challenge (one that hes looking forward to :-)

only 2 out of how many?

If he's had 2 blowjobs then maybe there isn't any problem.

Take your time...

Dont try to make him cum. Dont make it an obsession...
Just keep up the job and show the amount of fun you are having while sucking him.

Maybe you shouldnt bite while blowing

That's true but for some guys it takes a mighty long time to cum. I could make my ex bf cum within 2 minutes. And this one I can give a bf for half an hour and he's still holding back the goodies. Grrrr....


I would sugest making you hand wet, and stoke him while sucking him. Lot's of guys like that. And don't rush it. Make him hot, suck his balls while doing it , use your hands ect.


Hope this is any help

I'm sure there are a lot of other women on this board that can give you more pointers..:winkwink:

Xox

Bo

Tie him up, and enjoy having your way with him....

:rasta

I don't cum from blowjobs... dunno why. Nothing wrong with the head my girl gives.

I thought I was the only one that used that line. I have used it since high school and it's still effective over 10 years later. :thumbsup

I can't describe in words how to give a good blowjob but I saw a couple of movie galleries that are my definition of a good blowjob:

Gallery One

Gallery Two

Check out the technique, the cock-loving attitude . . . great stuff.

BTW if anyone knows who that girl is or where I could see more of her, let me know.

It helps when the girl looks like that.

That would suck big time - at least I would complain, because then it would be a handjob and not a blowjob. Good BJs are always hands free and hands are much better used to massage and scratch in inner thights, balls, ass, back, etc. while sucking.

Deep Throat How To


Here for the first time ever are simple and explicit instructions on how to deep throat a penis. Position is important; you'll want to in position where you can extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back. This helps line up your throat with your mouth allowing the penis to slide in deep. The best position for beginners is with the receiver lying on his back with the giver lying on the stomach along side.
You can prop yourself up on your elbows.

The penis must be THOROUGHLY LUBRICATED! I can't stress this enough. An erect penis will slide much easier along the tongue and into the throat if it is well lubricated. Once you're in position, slightly tilt your head back and extend the tip of your tongue just past your bottom lip. Flatten the back of your tongue just as you
would if a doctor were using a tongue depressor to look in your throat. (Extending your tongue helps flatten the back of your tongue. Force your throat open as you would if you were yawning. (contrary to popular belief, you don't 'relax' your throat muscles to perform deep throat. Forcing the back of your tongue down and your
throat open will counter the gag reflex and create a larger opening for the penis to enter).

Now, take a deep breath and slowly slide the length of the penis into your mouth and along your tongue. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the penis there as long as possible then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as you can. Eventually you'll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until you can take the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat.

One thing to remember is when you get to the point where the head actually enters the throat, you may feel a little resistance and will need to give a little extra 'push' to get the penis fully in. It may help to use your tongue to pull the penis in deeper. When you reach the point where you feel the gag reflex, pause for a moment, then, without removing the penis from you mouth, extend your tongue out a little further, then pull your tongue back in your mouth, pulling the penis along with it.

You contact lens wearers will no doubt remember the difficulty you had overcoming the involuntary urge to blink the first few times you tried to put in your lenses, but with practice and patience it became very easy to do. The same applies to deep throating! Be patient and practice the technique as often as possible.

After you've learned to take in the entire length, you can begin working on some 'advanced techniques' that will add even more pleasure. Some of these techniques are letting you partner ejaculate with the entire length of his penis in your throat. If you don't like the taste of cum, this is a great technique because the head of his penis will be well past the taste buds on the back of you tongue when he ejaculates.

You'll also be able to perform a "throat massage" on his penis while it's in your throat. This technique will drive your partner wild with passion as your throat muscles massage his penis. This is accomplished by actually making a swallowing motion while the entire length if his penis is deep in your throat. You'll also be able to lick his balls while he's in your throat.

If you've never been deep throated, you're probably wondering what it really feels like. Most men report that they feel a "pleasurable ring of tightness" around the circumference of the penis just below the head with the most pleasurable sensation focused on the underside of the penis where the head joins the shaft.

Remember: lubrication, extend tongue, flatten back of tongue, force throat muscles open, go slow and be patient! While learning deep throat, it's better that the giver maintain the "superior" position, i.e. where the giver controls the depth and frequency of penetration. After you've become very comfortable with taking a penis deep in your throat, you'll be able to accept a more passive roll and let your partner control the depth. An excellent position for this is you lying on your back with your head hanging off the edge of the bed. Your partner will be able to put his penis in as deeply as he wishes in this position. This position provides an excellent view of your neck and throat for your partner. On of the most exciting visual aspects of deep throat is your partner can watch your neck and throat expand and bulge as the penis slides in deep.

While learning to perform deep throat, it's best of you are fully relaxed before starting. Take a nice, long, hot, bath. Listen to some soft music. Drink a glass of wine. Have you partner give you a long sensual body massage .... or do whatever relaxes you the best. The more relaxed you are when you begin, the easier it will be to learn the deep throat technique.

As related earlier, lubrication is extremely important. Saliva will do, but there are other lubricants you can buy that are slicker and will last longer. The best I've found is, believe it or not, Albolene, a makeup remover! It's completely odorless and tasteless and in non toxic. It has been used in the adult film industry for years as a sexual lubricant. It can be purchased at any large drugstore. Another trick the adult film stars who perform deep throat use is spraying a topical anesthetic on the back of the tongue and throat to deaden it. The most commonly used is Lidocaine spray. Lidocaine is available by prescription only! Lidocaine is what a physician uses to deaden the tongue and throat when they use an endoscope to look in to your stomach. Lidocaine is also prescribed for people with very sore throats and those with canker sores in the mouth. An over the counter equivalent is Axon, a type of aerosol sore throat spray. I hope this information is helpful.

Source:

http://www.fantasyeyes.com/deepthroat.html

Don't use your teeth:thumbsup

Um that is a bullshit statment... I normaly cant get off just from a blow job, after 10 or so mins I have to either get off by fucking them or do something like fuck their feet *shrugs* Ive been like this along time

Keep a rhythm and don't stop...if he doesn't cum, then keep going!

Nope not true

For me its always been common place like that... most girls could never get me off from a blowjob, and it was all technique, some girl tried 30-40 minutes and nothing other girls less then 5 minutes and pop. Its all in the technique... everyone has tons of advice on technique and tricks which is great listen to them all (with a grain of salt).

my key advice isn't specifics of technique... its monitoring your technique... pay attention to what you do and how he reacts... not the whopping moans, I mean the subtle things. what are you doing when his muscle tense a little, what does he respond to and how. what makes his breathing stop or increase. this is what you watch to learn what its gonna take to get him off...

side note... guys works the same on women... not a girl yet I can't make cum in under 2 minutes from going down on her... few quick check figure out where her buttons are (and no not just the one button) an bam shake shudder scream relax...

Suck your cheeks in deep so it makes you pucker (kind of a Juicy pose:1orglaugh) which envelopes the cock with with the inside of the cheeks and keep a "vacuum" as you go up and down. Also coordinate your hand around any part coming out of mouth so there is always full length contact. Never had a guy last more than a minute or 2 when I do that.

Yeah depend on the guy I guess. :winkwink:

Damn I'm gonna try that one tonight....:winkwink:

I only came from 1 bj in my life and it was a few months ago, fat girl

Dayum, don't know what she did but I was like "Ooohhhhh" right as she started sucking it

Instanty felt it worknig up

Godd trick of him.:thumbsup

LICK LICK LICK!

Lick everything, the shaft, the head, his balls! Pretend he's a big ice cream cone and lick away. Be sure to run your tongue up his shaft and around the rim of the head. And the #1 thing to do is take your time. You really don't have to bob up and down like a heavy metal thrasher like the girls do in the movies, slow works for me better than drilling away on it.

Once you actually get to the sucking part, If you aren't into deep throating his kielbasa, be sure to keep gentle but firm pressure on the parts your mouth can't reach. Wrap your hand around the shaft and tug just a little as your mouth slides up the shaft. Again, take your time. Don't neglect the balls either. Experiment with what he likes. Drive him nuts. Get him to the point where he wants to just put his hand on your head and fuck your mouth! lol

Oh and, I'd deffinately make sure you have your top off so he can do something extra like cum all over your big titties. ;)

Good luck hon! *hugs*

Not me. Never been able to.

I have told every girl one sentence that will make her an expert in that department.....

"Sweetness....don't swallow until I tell you to"


--T

Most girls give sloppy blow jobs... The better looking ones are the worse ... but hey, we guys need visual stimulation more than ANYTHING, right?

Keep doing it for 1 hour

Stick a finger up his ass.

All guys are different. It's great to see a few guys here educating the other ones that not every guy is the same. People respond to different things.

Maybe this guy would prefer you suck his dick because YOU enjoy it, and bring him to orgasm in one of his preferred methods. I think it's frustrating to guys who don't cum (or don't cum easily) from blowjobs to have a girl sitting there trying to prove she's a BJ queen and better than all the rest. The harder you try, the more pressure he is going to feel -- what a turn off!

this is my first time please fuck me hard.

actually i've had girls who were so bad at i couldn't cum. it was sad. if you're a woman and you can't suck dick you're useless.

LOL..

okay,

I like it when a girls strokes me and sucks me at the same time. + I like it when she looks me in the eyes while she's sucking! And yeah she better go deep! One more thing allow me to face-fuck her! hahahha

I do enjoy sucking his dick, and he knows that. Hell, sitting in the living room watching TV, i'll go down on him (he laughed at that, hes never had a girlfriend that would do that)

It is a little about determination, but of course, i'll be having fun the whole way :-)