Nice guys finish last
 

Do nice guys really finish last? I think yes.


Girls, what do you think about nice guys? I like nice girls personally. And pizza.

Yeah I reckon they do to a certain extent, that's just one of the unfortunate realities of the world... although there's a difference between being a nice guy and a push over.

law of the jungle, survival of the fittest :glugglug

Very true. That definately is a factor in whether or not you get fucked over or not. :2 cents:

I agree, there is a difference between kindness and weakness! :)

i like nice guys but it's gotta be genuine
not just nice so they get laid

they gotta at least offer to make breakfast too

I don't think so.... Nice guys take getting used to, though.

I made two consecutive and equally stupid male decisions... each lasted 4 years and both were pricks.

I didn't date or see anyone for over a year, almost two, and when I did... I decided to try something new... if I met a guy that I didn't find immediately attractive and went against the grain of my usual taste, then I'd go out with him.

After 8 years of crap, I had to learn to believe in nice guys...that they were nice without an ulterior motive and genuine... so I had some nice guy therapy, and it worked out great :)

I absolutely love nice guys :)

Fyrflygrl

I usually finish first, and I think I am a nice guy. So I agree to disagree

Hova... I totally thought you were a girrrrrl :girl

Fyrflygrl

hehe, I noticed that. I was because I made one gay remark about something being "sweet". But I forgive you

heehee...we have so much in common. I like nice girls and pizza too - not necessarily in that order

Its quite simple really. Nice guys finish last because nice guys are usually shy, unattractive, dorks.

The attractive outgoing types are not nice becuase they dont have to be. The girls are all over them anyway no matter how they treat them.

Its works the other way to. The more attractive a girl is, the more likly she is to be a crazy bitch. Becuase they know guys will put up with it for a hot piece of ass.


Simple human nature. All people are shallow. Some just wont admit it.

Atrractive > Nice everytime

Nice guys give up before they've even begun to fight for a girl

Cool :winkwink: Sorry, dude :)

Fyrflygrl <--- 100% grrrrl :girl

Being one of those 'nice guys' I'd have to say we often do finish last. Why? That's one of the age old questions that doesn't have an answer.

Here's a little brain dump of what I think about this though...

Some say they like a 'challenge' and a nice guy isn't. Even disregarding a pushover, because that I'm not, I'm not into the game of control, which for some reason I think a majority of women like/want.

I'm not jealous of anyone or anything, including my lady talking to another man. Again, I think this is a turnoff to a lot of women. I have an insane amount of confidence and an extreme distaste of unfaithfulness. If you want to talk to some other man, I'm going to look at it as your loss, not mine.

I'm a little atypical of alot of 'nice guys' in the fact that I'm outgoing, and actually pretty popular among the ladies at the places I frequent... but I, as most nice guys, suffer from the infamous "friend syndrome." Caring is a crime in the singles game it seems. If you're curious about how a woman's day went, how she's feeling, what's going on with her, or if she asks you about something that's going on her life and you actually give a shit.. you're instantly removed from the potential dating pool to the pool reserved for cool guy friends.

The few things listed I think are fairly typical of 'nice guys' and that's why I wrote them. I'm not trying to single myself out, I'm just being a pretend nice guy spokesman. :2 cents:

Comments..

nice guys are just toys to most women..

i swear even back in high school it seems like the girls always want to go out with the guys that were badasses, and had been to juvenille hall, etc..

then the nice guys in the corner that can actually respect them, etc, just get used for rides, money, the list goes on..

ces't la vie, whatcha gonna do..

Nice guys finish together.

http://www.furnation.com/teiran/Comm...f%20mating.jpg

You're gay if you let women walk over you.

Completely true!

So you are a girl, I never would have known :glugglug

I agree

All the time

I will take a nice guy! It seems that the ASSMONKEYS always seem to come after me ,it is a chalange for a while then it is just trouble.
Find me a nice guy and I am ready to reward him! If he brings pizza i am his for life.

Yeah,we always finish last:(

Got pics?? I'm a nice guy, and I'll even bring you a pizza

sorry no pics I am in my office....does a nice guy care what I look like? it is what is inside right? yeah sure