Hypothetically speaking.......
 

Let's pretend that your best friend falsly accuses you of selling him out and then refuses to have any sort of mature discussion about the ordeal........

Compound that by what appears to be overwhelming evidence that you did in fact sell him out.......

Now...If you did not do what you are being accused of...How far would you push the issue to try to regain your lost friendship?

Personally....I would go to the end off the earth and back again.

Your thoughts?

send flowers, possibly chocolates

if this is true friendship I'd do anything... it's worth it

fuck!
i want to know what has been happening? this is some serious shit!

Or at least maui huh.


I think you are doing the right thing bro really good and true friends only come allong a few times in your life. If you are even that lucky.:2 cents:

i'd do pretty much the same thing, except my best friend lives a few blocks away from me.

There is only so much you can do before you just have to let the issue fall to the wayside for the other party to pick it back up again.

In all honesty, I don't know either of you personally, but I am familiar with the situation occuring in my own life. I'm sure Amp will come around. I don't know jack shit about what's going on, but if it's worth all the bullshit you're going through at the moment, Amp's going to see the same worth after some time.

God I am tired, did that make any sense?

I'm going to bed.

for a true friend I would do anything

I thought this was all a joke :helpme

id try to make my case, if they wanna act like a bitch about it even after you proved you case then fuck em, maybe they weren't the friend you thought they were

True friends don't come often. I agree with you, push as hard as you have to. I don't know what this drama is about and I don't really care as it isn't my business but I wish you all the best in getting it sorted out. :2 cents:

That's a staunch attitude Aaron :thumbsup

You can be my friend anytime :glugglug

My old man always said to me that a true friend is one you can ring at 4am in the morning and ask if he will come down to the station and bail you out.

I figure your plane ticket says much the same thing - though I don't pretend to know shit about yours and Amp's situation or history... actions ALWAYS speak louder than words IMHO.

:thumbsup

That thought has crossed my mind more than once.

In the end, if the friendship was/is really strong, it will pull through.

Also, take into consideration, that not everyone knows what really went down between the both of you. (as it should remain!)


Take this off the board; Amp, just talk to him. Even if you dont want the friendship to continue, talk it out and move on either way. With or without each other. But both of you need to tell each other whats up. Get it out in the open (OFF THE BOARD!!!)

Come on now, you know theres some peeps in here that thrive on this kinda drama....dont start a fire guys :)

I wouldn't yell about it endlessly in the town square.

I wouldn't consider someone that close a friend if they turned on me that easy, but that's just me.

Good god what has GFY turned into?

Same here!

Personally Aaron.. I met you and you seem like a pretty genuine guy..

My whole take on this is if Amp does not believe you, that shows a lack of trust in your word, and your worth.. Word is bond, and word is worth more than gold..

If he cannot trust in the fact that you did not reveal any details, then there is a trust issue in the friendship that may make it not as strong as you both imagined it to be..

However.. I understand where he comes from on feeling violated.. We've all been there.. It might take some time to heal, it might never heal.. Who knows..

But for right now, if he cannot say to you "Fuck it, Your my friend and I trust your word on this" then thats it, friendship over for now..

I wouldnt adgitate the issue to stack more straw on the camels back..

just my :2 cents:

If it were me and my best friend were acting like a bitch and wouldn't hear me out then I'd MAKE him hear me out. I have 2 VERY VERY good friends in life, the others are just good friends.

One of my very very good friends I have known for 15 years, I'm only 20 years old, so I regard him as family. I'd do anything to make him see I didn't do what I was being accused of. I'd maybe wait a couple of days after the incident to let him cool down and possibly see things from a different perspective.

Agree 100%

I'd say fuck em' then....

to be honest, I have never been in the situation where a true friend thought I sold them out, but have had a couple instances when someone I thought was a friend did fuck me over.

The solution was simple, I realized they were, in fact, not the friend I thought they were, and I moved on with my life.

Amp seems like he's got a hot head, and once he's pissed for the night, there's no talking to him reasonably about it. Any attempt at it will just turn into a thread-locking-amp-resigning rampage. just let him chill til you show up on his front door. then either he'll kick your ass, get over it and be your friend again... or he'll just get over it and be your friend again. if that doesn't work, then fuck it. but honestly, who would still hate someone who dropped almost $600 on airfare just to end a fight?

check refund on airfare or price of beach hammock

I have spent triple that to START a fight, and that is a WHOLE other story, but your point is well taken.

Either to end or to start it sure proves commitment !!

Actions vs Words etc etc

:2 cents:

lol

maybe someone could point me to the thread that this is all pertaining to, or Aaron could turn on his ICQ for a minute

i have. had my two best friends telling me two differnet storys, i believed the one and not the other . Turns out that the one i DID belive was the trader.

A year later, finally talked about it, and now, Me and my ONE best friend are even closer than before....sisters almost :glugglug

especially words of gfy... half of what anyone says here is bullshit. showing up in maui is worth way more than any thread.

but just in case aaron, i'd book hotel reservations with that flight :2 cents:

What this is pertaining to is nobodies fucking business but AMP and myself. He seems to think I made it Trey's business though...That's pretty much what it all boils down to.

Trey still has no clue as to the real issue at hand...He knows what thread started the problem but has zero details on the situation.

I'm going to bed.

how incestuous :)

ALMOST like sisters :winkwink: lol

You're making it EVERYBODY'S business by starting thread after thread about it, dude. And quite frankly, if I were in Amp's shoes I'd get more pissed off with every thread, because basically you're criticising him in public.
:2 cents: