Advice needed...
 

If your 16 (soon to be 17) year old sister was going out with a 19 year old (yes this is wrong already I think) had her friend LIE about staying over night at her place and actually was staying at a hotel with this guy..

Would you:
a) Crush his skull
b) Crush his skull slowly so he can feel death coming
c) Crush both of their skulls
d) Keep cool, and just beat the shit out of the guy
e) Do not resort to physical violence (mommy said nothing should ever come to that)

I feel like I should talk to the guy before I kill him, to at least get his side of the story. But death is innevitable simply because she will run to him if we forsake them seeing each other.

So... what shall I do?

D.

She is at that age.

Either get used to the idea of prison time.

Get a bigger backyard for all the bodies.

Start raising beatles now, they really fuck with foriensics.

Or just make sure she is doing it safely.

I'm thinking she's done this before...

Heck I know that I've done it...

What the real problem?
I know its all illegal and crap well depends on the state really and all that age of cosent is all debatable...

I mean if this guy is a loser beyond all reason...
then crush in his skull

other than that...whether its him or someone else...
give her condoms

i wont reply to this thread unless you create a poll where i can click the answer anonomisly

He's a loser. Lives in a trailer park and is a real dumb shit.
If he was a respectable person I could understand- but he's going to ammount to nothing and I wont stand for it.

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sorry man, I wont do it again I swear

Is it illegal there? Then call the cops.

If not, then stay out of it, unless you think something illegal is going on.

Otherwise you will be getting intimately acquainted with a guy named Butch.

isnt that kinda an oxymoronic statment? I do not think you would think anyone banging your sister is respectable.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

you too?

Okay okay I guess you have a point there.

Yo bro..... Been there done that with my sister.... It never worked out and my sister is still a hahahaha to this day... Wasnt worth the time... No matter how matter guys I got rid of there were always more....

Its a waste of time.....

Ahh take her to a trailer park and show her how life will be in 5 years...

Question is, if you were 19 again would you not bang a soon to be 17yr old?

I am 19. And no, I wouldn't. :)

hmmm still say go with the make sure she is safe version.

if she had a better upbringing, she probalby wouldnt be in that situation

She's had one of the best. But she's always been a dipshit since she was 2.

I turned out good.

Id kick his ass, then talk to my sis when and then depending on what she says Id probably kick his ass some more

If she really cares about the guy, that type of response could push her away from you. It is normal to feel protective of a younger sister, but at some point, it has to stop, unless she asks you for assistance. If she turns 17, then it is no longer illegal for her to have sexual relations with him, and you could find yourself with an assault and battery charge.
On the other hand, some girls will go out with older, reckless guys and try to get the attention of their father, brother, or other parental figure to "charge" them up and get a response. It is a way of confirming that you still care about them and their well being and will protect them.
It is important to find out before hand which one it is.....

Eve

which is why he is in the porn industry :1orglaugh just fuckin with ya bro

give her a talk and see how she feels about the guy -- she prolly say that she loves him blah blah blah, its prolly just fucking puppy love anyway


oh and kick his ass :thumbsup

Tell her she should have a little more respect for your family and her friend and not have to resort to lies. Tell her that you will have a talk with him.

A good talk with disappointment rather than anger showing, would probably get her to decide 'it's not a good idea' to do this again and when he starts pressuring her, maybe she'll also see the light that he's a loser.

Emphasize that having others lie for her to back-up their story + lieing to your family is what pissed everyone off - let her know that if she decides this guy who took her to a 'cheesy' hotel/motel for one night and had her lie to her family and had her friends back her up is the type of guy she wants as a partner, then you had her figured out differently. Tell her you still love her but don't appreciate being lied to.

As for the guy - tell him he better be treating your sister with the outmost respect, that he better be taking measures of protection and that he better not transmit any disease or get her pregnant. Inquire what he's studying or where he is working and then ask him how he plans to support your sister if by chance something happens and she gets pregnant......That should do the trick - he'll be running in no time.

lol... no me in the porn industry is a paradox without a doubt.

i lived in a trailer at 19. Had a hell of a lot of fun too. Then I got a job and got a real place to live.

You probably won't be able to talk to her about it and have it stick. At that age,
let them make their mistakes. You aren't going to be around to take care of her all the time, and she needs to grow up. If it ends up with her pregnant and him nowhere to be found, you still have the moral high ground:)

Kicking the shit out of him will only end up with you in trouble, and you'll end up with an ankle braclet or county fuck you in the ass jail. Not worth it.

my :2 cents:

Brad, out of curiosity (and you don't have to answer if you don't want) but is your father always around? Was he around during her childhood? Did you just move out?

Hitting is out of the question you are a adult not in high school and you have assets that can be lost. What are you going to talk to him about why did you want to fuck my sister ? lol Also where are her parents?

ouch, interesting line. I think I know where you're going with that...ouch....

He used to work a lot, and then had an affair on my mom about 8 years ago. She never forgave him for that I don't think.
I moved out about 6 months ago and had to move back in (financial reasons).

I don't doubt it is probably a bit of getting back at us. But I also think she is blinded by "retard" love. She has no idea what she's doing.

b) Crush his skull slowly so he can feel death coming !!!! :thumbsup

You can't force someone to see a mistake while they are making it. It is only after the fact, that someone that young can look back and say" maybe that wasn't such a good idea".
Sad as it is, it might take a pregnancy or an STD for someone to realize this.

Wait I forgot to ask is your sister hot or does she fall into that always acceptable "bbw" category.

Actually Brad - your sister is not fucked up, she's a teenager trying to find a male figure that she can trust and love -
Lack of experience, the sense of betrayal from your father, you moving out probably allowed her to have more 'air time' from your parents - you moving back in = her having to share them with you again - it's all got alot to do with it. Give her a good talk - remember to tell her you lover her and that you don't resent her - I guarantee she needs a good hug and a good cry session.

Then tell her you'll trust that she makes more thought-out decisions and that if she wants to do adult things, she should be responsible enough to 1) protect herself 2) have self-respect 3) be full aware that her decisions today may affect her tomorrow. This is life, and winging it 'sometimes' doesn't come without consequence.

call the cops and get him put in jail for stat rape.. then he will be a registered sex offender....

Look man she said she was 18. If you feel that strong about it, then I will break up with her.

But tell her I want my £60 for the cocaine I sold her, and that film she did with the two goats is still mine.

My sister is bbw. Don't go there man.

Also you're very right Trixxxia.

Actually my dad got home and had a good talk with the guy. Guaranteed he wont be doing that again.