My girlfriend of 6 years dumped me...
 

What would you do?

:(

breathe a sigh of relief and crack open a beer

Shitty man...what was the reason?

YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE!! SHE WAS 6 YEARS OLD?!?!?!?

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That sucks. :(

I have a lot of vodka in me right now and I quit drinking a month ago...

Get a whore and have a good time :thumbsup

That's really sad. I hope you will be ok.

first of all...you DONT post on GFY about it unless you want to hear ridiculous answers to your problem

You know as much as I do man....Not doing well...

Sorry to hear that man....

go to a club and get drunk...

That worked and is working for me. :)

I have been around long enough to block out the retard comments...


I have a lot of friends online that have REAL things to say....

need a hug homey? reacharound? I'm here for ya man

Thank you.

No way around it man. Its gonna suck for a while. You can either think about it and slowly move on or just keep yourself busy.

That does suck and the only thing you can do is work through it. You need to grieve the loss of your girlfriend and just feel the pain for a while. The only good thing I can say is...it does get better, but it takes time. There is no instant relief for a broken heart....Good Luck and hang in there. :)

Love you.

well maybe that girl wasnt for you it wasnt meant to be

Question: do you want her back?


If so, there is only one way to go about it....... that is, get on with your life. Okay, take a few days to feel shitty and all that, but after that... get back in the game. Even if you don't feel like it, go on a few dates anyway. Be seen with other girls. That's the one thing that makes ex-girlfriends rethink their position and want to get you back. Sitting around moping and waiting like a lost puppy sure as hell doesn't work.


I know this from experience.

The radio Station i listen to Had a great contest and a great idea. it was called Fuck over your ex. Basically rent a helicopter get some chick and Fucker her over your ex's house . Just an idea

You're actually giving him hope and that's not good for him.

I would have to agree here. This worked well with me the last time me and my ex broke up, but I doubt it'll work this time. :(

1)buy some weed

2)see sig

3)smoke a fatty

i hope you didn't get her something for Valentine

Insane, here are a few questions that you need to ask yourself that will ultimatley make you feel better, or worse..

How old are you? How old were you when you started dating? How many girls did you date before her? Were you planning on getting married some time soon, or was it just a long fling? Did you think it was going to last forever?

If you're a young guy, and she was only the third or fourth person you ever dated, be happy! Time heals ALL wounds... You will find yourself in a few weeks, maybe months, dating other people and expierencing things that you never knew were possible.

Relationships only restrict people...if that is the way you want to live your life(a family man who is dedicated to making one woman in your life happy, even if it means sacrificing things that you love to do), then I'm sorry for your loss. But understand this: After being in a relationship for so long, once you come out, you feel lost and out of place.

What you need to do is put down the damn Vodka and go out with some friends. Vodka or weed or any shit like that is only going to make you feel worse. It's not going to take the pain away.

Don't go out on the rebound right away. Don't go get a hooker. Have a 'boys night out'.... Go to the club, but not with intentions of picking up on other girls. And for god sake, stay away from anything that will remind you of her.

Live your life as it comes to you. Don't wait for things to happen. Go on about your business. You never know what will come along. It may have been for the best.

Just my :2 cents:

sorry to hear that dude.
Girls are always the best and worst things for us.

Thanks CD and the rest, but my position now is to numb the pain as much as possible and actually just be nice to her, just show her how I am without her and that I can live my life without her. Maybe she will see she made a mistake, if not, fine, we shouldn't be together. But whatever, it's a fucked up situation...

Kind of a dumb comment. There is always hope. And even if she doesn't come back, at least by my suggestion he's on the road to getting back on track faster than he would by just sitting around drinking and lamenting the past.


Think positive, no matter what happens.

When me and my bf of 2 years broke up I was torn apart...
I didn't know what to do and I thought night after night that I wasn't gonna get over him...

its wasn't long before I saw the good and the bad of the relationship and realized that I was much better off without him
and no I'm not just saying that... yeah it was painful for a month or so... but then I realized haha there are so many guys that were better for me... actually lots of them!

It'll suck for awhile and why wouldn't it you know...

but it will pass, it always does...

Good Luck

One of the secrets to happiness and keeping your inner peace of mind strong and vibrant I've found is that you must accept that fact that everything in your life will have a beginning and everything will have an ending.

Nothing is forever. Its hard to deal with that, but we must or else we'd all go insane.

And remember when one door closes its usually because its time for a new door to open.

"We're all just dust in the wind. All we are is dust in the wind."

Just go out and get laid as fast as possible just in case she returns

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I hear you. One such girlfriend broke up with me back in the mid-80's, I was totally devastated. I stayed in bed for a week, couldn't eat for 3 weeks, lost over 20 lbs and was just sick inside that I'd lost her. I wish that I could go back in time and tell my old self what I know now. It would have helped greatly.

It's not a dumb comment. You're telling him that it's possible she might want him back. You don't even know the situation. Maybe it's really over in her mind. You're giving him hope based on nothing. Maybe it's healthier for him that the relationship ended.

Giving hope with this kind of situation is not responsible. Think before you give advice.

I work out 3-4 hours a day because the pain from working out feels better than the pain of thinking about her. My chest really hurts all the time. peopl tell me to go get drugs from doctors, but I don't really believe in drugs or doctors much.....

I would never get sad over a woman LEAVING. It's when they stay that I get annoyed.

Maybe you should go out with her best friend.

Newsflash: lots of chicks in this situation come back. Some just need a break. Why not give your own advice then instead of knocking mine, which I know to be true and time-tested.


Go fucking argue with someone else man. You're losing it.

Well, working out is good therapy too.... do you go to a gym?


If your chest hurts you don't "go get drugs from doctors" man..... you go see your doctor and tell him your chest hurts. They do a few quick tests like an EKG, chest X-ray, and take your BP to see if anything is up, hopefully it's nothing.

Go get that checked.

Kansas?

Sorry to hear that. The best thing to do is take time to yourself (meaning don't get into another relationship) and keep yourself busy and active.

You will get through it, everyone always does! =)

~Taylor

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thanks everyone...

Hahahaha... Mr. Love advice. You should start your own articles in the local newspaper.

Seriously, he doesn't need advice at all. The last thing he needs is "do this and she will come back".

What next? It's gonna take time to heal? :1orglaugh

It's going to be painful, it's gonna hurt. Some people need 6 months, other 6 days.

But the "She might come back" bullshit will not help him at all. Even if you had the most sincere intention by telling him that.

Every other city we go I see the same hoes


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