What the fuck? What is it so hard to pay your woman attention?
 

UGH!!!!!!!!

Cause she's always on GFY talking about shoes.

I swear...i think its time for me to turn lezbo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

My girlfriend complains about the same... I only listen to half of what she says and she always get pissed off about it.

She should talk half as much, then I'd follow. :helpme

i never said a thing about shoes..aaron did. I didnt even know what it meant at first. Besides, this has nothing to do with that. This has been an on going thing. All day he plays video games and then he goes to bed.

Wow what a way to may be feel special, or attractive even.

I can make you feel special every other day probably if you're down.

:winkwink:

if you're horny i'll come over and fuck you senseless. no commitment - just casual sex.

See that I can understand. But I dont talk a lot with him. Only causse he's busy, and when I do try, he ignores me. Is there something wrong with me??

How much dick can you handle?

How long have you been together and what kind of commitment is it?

thanks for the offer guys but its not like that. Its not a sex thing (even though its been like a month). Its just that every human being needs love and attention. I dont ask for much. Apparently for him thats to much.

Sounds like there's something wrong with him.

typical relationship pains, relax

You seem waaay too uptight.

I never offered you sex, I just said I would make you feel special, stop being a dirty girl for a minute.

:winkwink:

casual sex is a good substitute for love and attention.

We've known each other since 7th grade (yeah a REALLY long time) but we've been living together for 2 years. Very serious relationship. Even engaged to be married.

I just cant take being ignored. Oh..and he's such a friggin cry baby. If his stomach hurts he bitches, but i had surgery last year and did I say anything?? NO!! I came home and cleaned the house, just an hour after surgery. go figure.

You need some NY cock in you babe

Id agree with you if this was a once in a while thing but its every friggin day.

he's probally fucking someone else.


happens in a lot of relationships. why not get even with him and fuck me. it'll be fun, hell I'll hug you and kiss you and make you scream in delight for at least an hour. you'll fell like a new woman.

PLease juicy. Im laying my feelings on the line. Its not about sex. Im looking for someone who can help me understand this.

He's used to you and taking you for granted. Try talking to him about it first.. if it does nothing, try ignoring him and if he doesn't get the hint, don't waste your life on trash.

i can swear on my life that its not that. He NEVER leaves my side (maybe thats the problem). We're together 24/7. Even when it comes to getting a pack of ciggs. We area always together. You'd think if we were together he'd wanna spend time with me. All I ask from him is attention. Not that hard....he doesnt even work outside of the house. We work together online....

Thats the prob .you BOTH need breathing roooooooooom

I tried but I'm getting ignored.

:(

Maybe pay him more attention..

make him a nice meal... rub his back... iron his clothes...

basically be a good woman to him:2 cents:

I bitch about my stomach too when it hurts, men bitch more often about pain than women I've noticed

Men aren't mindreaders though, tell him this stuff.. Instead of asking us, have a good talk with your man and if he isn't cooperative, maybe he's not fit to be with.

my 2 cents of relationship advice.

thanks lady..your right. Unfortunatly I do try talking to him and then he gets pissy, like he's on his period. He says "i do pay attention to you..you just work to much". I can understand that, but we work together lol. Actually I do 90% of the work but still...

He used to be hte most romantic guy ever. The kids absolutely adore him, as do I, but I dont like this anamosity. Its driving me bananas

that's the problem. you need some time appart. he needs to long for you to show love for you. without apsence you're just there - nothing special.

go spend a weekend with your parents or friends or something - he;ll be all over you when you get home, or be fucking someone else...one or the other...

Yep.. most definitely TOO used to you and you have made the mistake of getting into a routine of doing for him constantly. Maybe a few days away.. Tell him you want some personal time.. spend a weekend witha girlfriend or something. He will miss you a lot, might shake him out of it. It happens sometimes.

Dear Heather,

some men simply don't get it. Some do. Your job is to stop choosing a guy that doesn't get it, and start giving nicer guys a chance with you.


Why do women say they like nice guys, then choose detached otherwise occupied uncaring bad boy assholes, then cry about it when they don't get the "attention" they crave? I've often pondered this, one of life's crazy mysteries.


Your friend,

Definitely time for a break :) Take the weekend off :)

Thats the thing. I have told him this. Im a very independent woman, sometimes I need a shoulder to cry on.....or someone to just talk to. Believe me...this isnt exactly my first choise (asking GFY) its a last resort. I really need honest opinions...

I think you gotta start thinking of moving on or at least taking a break from each other. My gf and me are best of friends.

wanna laugh???? he IS the nice guy. We've known each other for almost 10 years He's always ben loving, gentle and sincere. Lately though he's been different. He just thinks about himself and thats it. Plud he always finds a way to bitch about everything. Shit...life isnt perfect, you just get used to it.

While you're on the internet diddling yourself for guys? :winkwink:

I wish it was that easy. We live together. He'd not only have no place to go, but I would have no help with the kids. I have a 6 year old and a 4 year old. Plus I am going to school to get my law degree. I cant do everything alone.

He is fucking some other chcik

diddling? you obviously didnt read the posts. Its a friggin computer. You cant take shit seriously on here...especially on GFY.

Like I said though..that has nothing to do with it. He isnt a jealous guy, plus he sees everything i post (except right now)

Sounds to me he may be tring to tell you something. Lots of people can't comunicate!!

Xanax

I wish that were th case, cause then it would make sense, but I know that isnt true. He hasnt left my side in almost 2 years. I mean 24/7....SERIOUSLY!!!

alreay on it...as well as lexapro..not helping. i dont like drugs. I dotn think drugs help a person, all they do is surpress the problem

whats there to tell me? I pay his bills, he lives in my house, I do what he asks...no man has ever had it better.

That Bermuda trip I mentioned today....who do you think is paying for it???

I love taking care of everything..thats not the issue..the issue is the attention. i dont expect him to sweat me, but he could atleast notice me

heather - you're an open minded woman, why not have a female friend or escort come over and surprise him with a threesome.

he'll do ANYTHING for you after an experience like that

I take Effexor for my anxiety attacks and have Xanax for emergencies Doc wouldnt give me more than 30 of them

I was on paxil initially . Problem is that i am hooked on this shit. If i stop taking effexor i get dizzzzy and shit FUCK YOU DOC :mad:

ya know ive thought about that, but thats not something you do in a relationship that is having issues. All it will do is cause more issues.

I love him with all of my heart.

Ive been through some REALLY hard times in my life and he was always there for me....until recently..like the past 6 months. Whenever I ask whats wrong he always says "i just dont fell good" what is that about?

Everything is relative. A woman who's husband was stoned all day and sleeping with every whore on the streets he could find at night might envy your wedded blyss.

I'm still working at it myself but I try to count his good points instead of his faults.

Yesterday I might have said he is a slob, he ignores me, steals all the covers in bed and is not exactly pleasant in the mornings.

Today I'm trying to remember that covers or not it is me he is laying beside...his clothes on the floor means he is actually home when he gets undressed...and he is usually ignoring me because he is working his ass off trying to pay the bills.

Wouldn't trade the grouchy bastard for anything in the world.

actually you're sounding more and more incredible heather.

you're smoking hot, you pay the bills,you run your own business which means you have a brain, you pay for the vacations, and all you want is a little attention.

lets swap spouses!!!!! permanently

How is Lexapro?