Is cybersex cheating?
 

What are your thoughts?

Nope. Not at all.

You haven't actually fucked someone else.....

absolutely, cheating is not limited to physical relations by any means

Maybe if you have an internet girlfriend. :1orglaugh

No not really its the internet now if you meet that person outside the internet and get together now thats cheating

bet your ass it is

that does not excuse it, "mental" cheating is as bad if not worse then "physical" cheating..

This question is a paradox in itself. If you actually had a woman why would you use virtual communication as means for cumming.

Anyway, short answer: Of course not.

That's how I feel about it. When I was pregnant with my first child his father was having an online "fling". It totally killed my spirit. It took time away from me and it made me very upset, just like an offline relationship would have. Of course, if he'd been having cybersex with someone that he would have never talked to again AND he'd let me know about it before hand, then I probably wouldn't have cared.

I guess it does depend on the context. An online fling with someone you never talk to again isn't that bad, but an ongoing thing is, in my opinion.

IT IS TOTALLY CHEATING!!!!!

It is more of mental attraction than physical attraction. They are both there, but you can start to develop a longing for the other person, a deep desire. That would scar me more than just a physical one night stand. When you meet on a computer you share things more than you would if you met face to face.

Ask yourself this question, would the person you love be hurt if they knew what you were doing? If the answer is yes then it is betrayal.

Anytime you lie about intimacy with another, it is cheating.

It is not the physical act that is cheating (swingers aren't cheating), it is the deceit.:2 cents:

In that case then:

Is flirting with a girl cheating?? Its basically the same, all the same intentions are there. You'd like to do it but you have a girlfriend. Its all a lot of shit. Its not cheating but I can see why it would upset some people.

I see no reason any self respectale person would want to have cyber sex anyway! Anyone who says she is 21 and has long blonde hair and big boobs is really a middle aged guy with a problem or someone who is messing around.

I agree words can be powerful... more so than actions.

So true....

Of course it's cheating, what the hell kind of question is this?

Is having phone sex with someone else cheating? How about meeting them in person and telling them you want to fuck them?

Why, Angel catching on to us?

by that logic then flirting would be cheating, if it made the person you're with jealous as it usually does if even for a second. Or even LOOKING at someone else lustfully if even for a second as that always makes the other person in a couple feel inadequate if only for a moment.

real fact is cheating is what a couple DECIDES it is before hand. If you're not DEAD then you have entertained the idea of having sex with someone else other than your partner in your head at some point. The second you flirt, be it just a little glance, you've acted on that. No reasonable couple would call that cheating in our society, but the real question lies in where we draw the line. That line is a PERSONAL choice and not a fixed in stone absolute. One person might think going to lunch with a member of the opposite sex is cheating, another may not. One may think cybersex is cheating, another may not.

Many Swinging couples deeply love each other and don't consider fucking someone else cheating.

i think it can lead to cheating...but if you're in a happy, healthy relationship why would you even want to spend time online with someone else? thus, in my opinion, people who are having cybersex online already have an unresolved issue in their relationship and they are having sex online because they aren't 100% happy

Hello Mr Clinton, welcome to GFY. :321GFY

what kind of idiot would waste their time having cybersex if they already have a significant other?

Please introduce me to your girlfriend in Cancun. I'd like to make-out with her and grab that sweet tushy!

That is the bottom line right there. Period.




If your partner wouldn't like you doing it, if it would hurt your partner, then what you are doing is wrong. And comparing cybersex to flirting is retarded. Cybersex and phone sex are "sexual" in nature. Flirting is.... flirting. The best thing to do is find out where your partner draws the line and then if you have any real love and respect for your partner you won't cross that line.

Yes, it is, but only if you have a girlfriend :Graucho

Good god, go into a yahoo chat sometime and it won't take long. You'll talk to tons of people who are married or in relationships but are still looking. I've talked to a few idiots years ago that were actually sitting at the computer trying to get me to cyber with them while their husbands were upstairs sleeping after working all day. Can you believe it? It's true. I asked if hubby knew what they were doing, the answer was no.


The world is packed full of cheating assholes, both men and women.

how sad :(

I agree with that, its all relative to the relationship you're involved in.

WG

who is CyberSex and what program did he try to cheat? hehhe

IMHO, It's what you & your girlfriend think. If she's cool with it its not, if she isn't, it is! But I've never ran into that problem!

jDoG

If someone is in a relationship with a person who is always jealous then that person has a self-esteem problem and that is a totally different issue.

I have always stuck to the rule of if my man was in the room would he be hurt by my actions. Now if I am in a relationship where we enjoy sex with other people then I would not be hurting him and it would not be considered cheating!!! Of course there are lines of respect in that type of situation too.

I agree it is different for every couple. But a chick who thinks she is lower than every girl that walks by and is jealous of her man looking, is keeping a man in a cage and is being immature and ridiculous. IMO (Same for a man doing it to a woman.)

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Depends on your GF, if she knows about it and shes kewl with it, then it would be no.

only if its with females..

i only cyber with old men..

yes it is of course!

i would smack my g/f if she did, although she wouldnt.

cybering is for complete nerds who have not seen sunlight in their lifetime. i mean how dam hurt are to get turned on by a font on a screen? pathetic losers are funny as hell.

omg this font is so much sexier ya baby type it ya baby type it.

???

losers.

maybe -

i can't explain why i feel this way, but if my bfriend were watching a cam girl performing in a chat room, that would not bother me. but if he were typying to her/on the phone with her, that would bother me. i guess it's there personal one-on-one interaction that, to me, would be cheating. passively watching is okay.