Do you bail people out?
 

I don't mind helping a friend or relative out financially now and again and I don't expect them to ever pay me back. What I do mind is when they begin to expect it. Fucking leeches, I'm sick of it. I'm cutting everyone off. Fuckers.

I help people out ONLY if they don't ask for it. I don't like people assuming I'm gonna cover their ass when they fuck up.

I have heard that used as the defintion of a friend. The people on the list if you needed to be bailed.

I don't mind helping my friends. I do mind when they count me as part of their weekly income. Hell, I know what it is like to come up short for the car payment or rent or whatever but at some point you have to grow up and get over that kind of crap.

Word.

I dont give no one shit... I work hard for my money... when Im sitting and working my ass off they are watching tv or playing some bs game... I aint going to work for no one who wastes their time doing shit and than expect me to help them...fuck that!

the sad thing is that it seems like if you do it once, you'll always end up having to do it again. it's best not to start because it usually bites u in the butt later