Question for the married people on GFY
 

So is it true that when you get married all the shit changes ?

Such as the sweetheart pre marriage turns into the devil?


http://www.juicylinks.com/images/devil.jpg

I enjoy making my husband's life hell. He does too.

I'm not married but I've seen this happen tons of times!

jDoG

Once a woman gets a contract on you, she thinks that she can then do whatever the fuck they want.

Not for the wife and I. Of course, our trick is we never did that silly walking-down-the-aisle thing:winkwink:

You got a small penis.

Nah, its all good. Of course you have to work through fundamental issues when you start living together permanently, but thats just group dynamics.

Gets better and better.

mine is still a sweetheart after 8 years of marriage

Yes, it is 100% true.

Hell no. It only gets better. Sex every night without the games.

If you don't have what I have you made a bad choice for a spouse.

sex everynight? no sex is definitely not abundant anymore, for us being together for 3 years now.

with the kids and all, your are just too tired.

sex like 4 times a month if lucky. The novelty of sex wares off after a while, when your with someone so long.

but it's ok, the kids are great..its really all about them now

Depends on the woman - for us, it gets better. :thumbsup

Stop rubbing it in. :(

You and you wife should seek a marriage counselor :2 cents:

If you don't want your wife, we'll take her. She's dead sexy :)

Nice sig Juicy - thanks for not hotlinking it :thumbsup

how do you know, did you blow him?

More fun being with one person for years and trusting each other?no more double rubbers:winkwink:

Nothing changes...as long as you live together before you get married. That gives you a chance to learn about each other's quirks. So if you don't like them you can ditch 'em!

my hardon is now gone with all of this talk of marriage

I keep trying to give her away. I think she loves my cock too much to leave. It's an effect I have on most women, and it's how I get away with being a dick.

Well.... I personally think that .......

Oh shit.... here comes my wife..... Ill tell you later!!!! :Oh crap

Well let's just say, we celebrate 21 years together in a couple of months and I can honestly say I love spending time with him, holding his hand and just all around being in his presence. I adore him and he's my best friend, my soulmate and my everything....... so NO, things don't ALWAYS go bad after marriage. I adore my husband.

And if he says anything different? I am going to beat him to a bloody pulp with my fucking frying pan.... :1orglaugh

I've been married twice Juicy.

Yes, everything changes in your relationship. Some of it good some of it bad.

You are the last person I would suggest to get married. Don't even go there. Don't even get close. Your personality is not the type that will be able to deal with the day in and day out aspects of it.

The number one reason for failure is unrealistic expectations. People think its going to be this magical kingdom and it turns into Pirates of the Caribeean or the Haunted House.

Some people are lucky and its great. But those are far and few between.

On my last divorce, because we have a child you have to go to a 4 hour class required by state law down here to learn how to minimalize the impact of the process on your child or children.

There were about 100 people in my class. About 80 were women. I've never felt so much hostile energy in one place in my life.

When the teacher asked "How many of you would like to KILL your ex right now if you could get away with it?" Every female hand in the room shot into the air like a Gestapo salute. These women were filled with anger, hate, vengence, and who knows what else. They all had that psycho wife look.

I said to myself, I got to get the fuck out of here before some of these women start having Vietnam style flashbacks and think the guys in the rooms are their ex's.

Scary shit. I'll never forget it.

The worst part these were all women in my age range in the single market again. I walked thinking no way in hell will I hook up with a divorcee, especially one in their 40's.

I loved being married. My ex got burned out after being together for almost 15 years. She couldn't deal with the mother aspect of it and just wanted to be a free spirit again.

It drained me emotionally for 2 years while I tried every way I could to revive it. All to no avail in the long run.

But we're friends now and get along fine. So go figure.

But it would have to take someone very, very, very special to go down the aisle again.

I love being single now at this stage of my life.

input and i are happily married almost three years strong now and everyone has there hard times, but it's all what you make it

wow. it's really cool to see so many happy couples responding. living together for a long time before getting married might be the key. let's you know the person and get rid of any unrealistic expectations many people seem to have (though with all the divorced parents out there maybe the current expectation is divorce and not happy times *shrug*)

:321GFY

As someone currently going through my first divorce, I still can't say marriage sucks. Our's didn't last because we jumped in too soon, and we really weren't compatible AT ALL.

DON'T DO THAT!

My (soon to be ex) Wife and I are really good friends now, and I'm thankful for that, but we should have just let the infatuation run its course and left it at that.

I stopped being nice once she accepted the ring.

what? I don't need no contract to do that.