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pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 02:05 PM

Does pornography destroy women?
 
What is your take on this topic?

Do you think...

*Regular users of pornography are more likely to think of women in stereotype, (1) as "socially non-discriminating, as hysterically euphoric in response to just about any sexual or pseudosexual stimulation, and as eager to accommodate seemingly any and every sexual request." (2)

*Regular users of pornography are more likely to have sexually callous attitudes and accept the rape myth (that when a woman says "no," she means "yes.") (3)

*Regular users of pornography have increasingly hostile and aggressive sexual fantasies. (4)

*Regular users of pornography are less likely to convict for a rape, and less likely to give a harsh sentence to a rapist if in fact convicted. (5) Conversely, individuals who do not use pornography are more likely to convict an accused rapist. (6)

*Areas with pornography outlets and sexually oriented businesses experience significantly higher sexual offenses and property crimes than areas without such businesses. (7)

Some "adult" bookstores derive significant income from peep show booths, some with "glory holes" to provide anonymous sexual encounters. According to Dr. Stephen Joseph, former Health Commissioner of New York City, "The proprietors are essentially operating an AIDS breeding ground, with profit being the driving force." (8)

Clinical research shows that pornographic images create chemically encoded messages on the brain that can remain through adulthood. Human memory is formed in part by the release of the chemical epinephrine which, upon emotional arousal, leaves behind an imprint on the brain.

AvanteGuard 01-13-2004 02:18 PM

umm i don't agree with it. Also, what is a user of porn? That's like saying a user of cocaine...it makes porn sound like its a bad thing, and I guarantee the other 100000 people here would disagree with that

Roger 01-13-2004 02:22 PM

Here's a study on pornography

xxxdesign-net 01-13-2004 02:23 PM

weak... If I had the time and will I could explain why...

just a hint.. "more likely"!? I dont know if the people behind this know the expression.. "What came first.. the egg or the chicken?"

SetTheWorldonFire 01-13-2004 02:28 PM

no, women can only destroy thmeselves.

porn does'nt shoot ppl, ppl do :thumbsup

JDog 01-13-2004 02:29 PM

Actually I don't think that it effects all clients like that! It's just like a video game, kids (even some adults) think it's ok to go out and shoot people because they always do it in a game! But there is a chemical inbalance in their brain, so they don't figure the difference between right & wrong between the video game and the real world!

Same thing with clients of porn. Some have this disorder and they think, oh well I saw this movie where the girl said no, but really meant yes! And now he think's it's alright to go and do rape!

It's the same idea! Don't you agree!

jDoG

swami 01-13-2004 02:29 PM

I think this is a really good thread and worthy of sincere debate.i hope it doesn't drop to page 2 in a hurry.
To me there is more harn being done by people who are sexually repressed than people in touch with their sexuality. Appreciating erotica is as normal as enjoying nice tasty food.Its one of our pleasure senses that need stimulation and we need to stimulate all our senses to have a well balanced life.IMO.

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AvanteGuard
umm i don't agree with it. Also, what is a user of porn? That's like saying a user of cocaine...it makes porn sound like its a bad thing, and I guarantee the other 100000 people here would disagree with that
A user of porn is someone who uses porn..lol duh :winkwink:
Personally I think porn is just as addictive a cocain. Well you're not doing the funky chicken for porn like you would for cocain BUT,
in some instances like * some "users" of porn are selling their lives away just to feed their porn addiction. I have seen it personally.

When I was doing live cam shows I had this one guy that on his 1st day meeting me spent well over 1,000$ . Came back the next day and spent even more... then the day after and so on and so forth. I pretty much made a living off ONE guy for almost a year.

JDog 01-13-2004 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by swami
I think this is a really good thread and worthy of sincere debate.i hope it doesn't drop to page 2 in a hurry.
To me there is more harn being done by people who are sexually repressed than people in touch with their sexuality. Appreciating erotica is as normal as enjoying nice tasty food.Its one of our pleasure senses that need stimulation and we need to stimulate all our senses to have a well balanced life.IMO.

I agree, this is a good thread, and I hope it doesn't fall down in a hurry either!

jDoG

s9ann0 01-13-2004 02:32 PM

>> Does pornography destroy women?

yea especially GAY porn that fucks them right up

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 02:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by swami

To me there is more harn being done by people who are sexually repressed than people in touch with their sexuality. Appreciating erotica is as normal as enjoying nice tasty food.Its one of our pleasure senses that need stimulation and we need to stimulate all our senses to have a well balanced life.IMO.
I understand what you're saying...BUT..

Moderation is the key, over indulgence is destructive.

webseth 01-13-2004 02:34 PM

has anybody stopped to consider how it degrades males? how women take advantage of horny and lonely guys for their money?

JDog 01-13-2004 02:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle
Personally I think porn is just as addictive a cocain. Well you're not doing the funky chicken for porn like you would for cocain BUT,
in some instances like * some "users" of porn are selling their lives away just to feed their porn addiction. I have seen it personally.

When I was doing live cam shows I had this one guy that on his 1st day meeting me spent well over 1,000$ . Came back the next day and spent even more... then the day after and so on and so forth. I pretty much made a living off ONE guy for almost a year.

I agree, porn is just as addicting as drugs are! Some people just can't control it, and if there weren't these people, we wouldn't be making money and there wouldn 't be porn!

If there weren't people that were addicted to smokes, what would be the use of stores selling them! You always need somebody that "NEEDS" the product, otherwise you're not making money!

And companies find ways of making the customer "need" to come back to the site, "need" to buy another magizine, "need" to buy another movie!

Otherwise, we'd all be making a big 0!

jDoG

Matt M 01-13-2004 02:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by swami

To me there is more harn being done by people who are sexually repressed than people in touch with their sexuality. Appreciating erotica is as normal as enjoying nice tasty food.Its one of our pleasure senses that need stimulation and we need to stimulate all our senses to have a well balanced life.IMO.

I couldn't agree more. Great post.:thumbsup

machinegunkelly 01-13-2004 02:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by webseth
has anybody stopped to consider how it degrades males? how women take advantage of horny and lonely guys for their money?
Yet another good point .

but in this business its usually males using " pics" of females to get the lonely guys wallet .

ytcracker 01-13-2004 02:39 PM

man ive known some freaky chicks that would like seriously beg for you to cum on their face and shit, just like in pornos

women like this that like to get smacked and multifucked or whatever else kind of perpetuate the blurring of the fantasy/reality line

because chicks like this actually exist

JDog 01-13-2004 02:40 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by webseth
has anybody stopped to consider how it degrades males? how women take advantage of horny and lonely guys for their money?
But it's really not the women taking advantage of the horny guys! It's businesses! In a way it is degrading to the women & males at the same time! Unless it is just a single girl site, run by that girl ONLY!

jDoG

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 02:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JDog


I agree, porn is just as addicting as drugs are! Some people just can't control it, and if there weren't these people, we wouldn't be making money and there wouldn 't be porn!

If there weren't people that were addicted to smokes, what would be the use of stores selling them! You always need somebody that "NEEDS" the product, otherwise you're not making money!

And companies find ways of making the customer "need" to come back to the site, "need" to buy another magizine, "need" to buy another movie!

Otherwise, we'd all be making a big 0!

jDoG

I totally agree with you :thumbsup
Just wanted to know others take on this.

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 02:44 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by webseth
has anybody stopped to consider how it degrades males? how women take advantage of horny and lonely guys for their money?
I have many many times. One of the reasons why I stopped doing cam shows. I felt bad for them, and their partners, famlies etc...

CDSmith 01-13-2004 02:45 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle
A user of porn is someone who uses porn..lol duh :winkwink:
I would think porn is viewed, not used or consumed.



Viewers of porn would be more accurate.




And one could argue (and many have) that porn empowers women, although those people probably haven't seen any of Max Hardcore's productions. :D

JDog 01-13-2004 02:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CDSmith
I would think porn is viewed, not used or consumed.
This is true! Porn can't be used, but accessories can be used while viewing porn! Pocket pussies can be used at the same time of watching a porn! :thumbsup

jDoG

C_U_Next_Tuesday 01-13-2004 02:49 PM

I have noticed a serious change in attitude towards females from the younger generation. I think some of it is the callous attitude that all girls are sluts, and this attitude is consistantly shown on many webistes today.

hell, you can see it on this board on a daily basis.

Head 01-13-2004 02:49 PM

The one thing i like to point out is women have more or less the same sexual needs as man. But society has taught women not to behave the same as men. This must change.
A whole half of a population to market to! :Graucho

CDSmith 01-13-2004 02:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JDog
This is true! Porn can't be used, but accessories can be used while viewing porn! Pocket pussies can be used at the same time of watching a porn! :thumbsup

jDoG

So, users of sexual aids & accessories then. The accessories themselves are not porn though.

ie: The realdoll is not porn, but viewing a film of yourself banging the realdoll.... is.


Clarification is good. :thumbsup

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 02:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CDSmith

And one could argue (and many have) that porn empowers women, although those people probably haven't seen any of Max Hardcore's productions. :D [/B]
When I was doing cam shows I did feel empowered...very much so. I did what I wanted to do when I wanted to do it etc... I didn't give a shit how much money he was going to pay me to do something I didn't want to do. If he didn't like the way I did my shows he was welcome to go elsewhere.

I enjoy the feeling of having men by the balls :winkwink:

JDog 01-13-2004 02:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CDSmith
So, users of sexual aids & accessories then. The accessories themselves are not porn though.

ie: The realdoll is not porn, but viewing a film of yourself banging the realdoll.... is.


Clarification is good. :thumbsup

Yep this was what I was trying to get too! But even just using a pocket pussy while watching porn too! Not of yourself! There's has to be guys that are watching pornsites while using a accessory!

jDoG

JDog 01-13-2004 02:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Head
The one thing i like to point out is women have more or less the same sexual needs as man. But society has taught women not to behave the same as men. This must change.
A whole half of a population to market to! :Graucho

Women have been taught not to "SHOW" it. But they do have the sexual needs! Why do you think that 90% of women won't say that they like porn or they even say that they HATE it, when in reality, they LOVE it!

I've use to work at a place that had a good number of women subscribers, which is rare too see!

jDoG

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 02:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
I have noticed a serious change in attitude towards females from the younger generation. I think some of it is the callous attitude that all girls are sluts, and this attitude is consistantly shown on many webistes today.

hell, you can see it on this board on a daily basis.

Exactly. Many webmasters here think the girls they promote are sluts, whores etc... Well what would that make you then?

SleazyDream 01-13-2004 02:59 PM

i used to like pink when she took her cloths off and did hardcore scenes......

EscortBiz 01-13-2004 03:00 PM

Well say a guy watched a anal porn flick, the porn says the girl is a anal virgin and he sees how simple the cock goes in her ass.

He tries that with his girlfriend who is a REAL anal virgin and the rest ya know...

Yeah so it can destroy a women at least her asshole

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 03:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Head
The one thing i like to point out is women have more or less the same sexual needs as man. But society has taught women not to behave the same as men. This must change.
A whole half of a population to market to! :Graucho

Yes we have the same needs as a male but I'm pretty sure most women are not addicted to it. Yeah we need to cum or whatever too but males seems to take it a step or two further.

JDog 01-13-2004 03:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
I have noticed a serious change in attitude towards females from the younger generation. I think some of it is the callous attitude that all girls are sluts, and this attitude is consistantly shown on many webistes today.

hell, you can see it on this board on a daily basis.

Slut: A woman prostitute.
Prostitute: One who solicits and accepts payment for sex acts.

Technically they are sluts, but I don't say that, or call them that! I wouldn't have the heart to just say that to them in their face! And if I was doing videos, I would be considered a slut, which wouldn't bug me, because it would be the truth!

jDoG

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by EscortBiz
Well say a guy watched a anal porn flick, the porn says the girl is a anal virgin and he sees how simple the cock goes in her ass.

He tries that with his girlfriend who is a REAL anal virgin and the rest ya know...

Yeah so it can destroy a women at least her asshole

LMAO
Um....lol

I find that most men are dumb when it comes to porn...or maybe they know certain things but try and forget about it and live out a little fantasy in their heads.

Head 01-13-2004 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JDog


Women have been taught not to "SHOW" it. But they do have the sexual needs! Why do you think that 90% of women won't say that they like porn or they even say that they HATE it, when in reality, they LOVE it!

I've use to work at a place that had a good number of women subscribers, which is rare too see!

jDoG

Wow! I've never seen any women sign-ups. But far sure women look at porn!

JDog 01-13-2004 03:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle


Yes we have the same needs as a male but I'm pretty sure most women are not addicted to it. Yeah we need to cum or whatever too but males seems to take it a step or two further.

But I've known lots of women, once they had a real orgasm, and how it felt, they were adicts, not to porn but to sex! I also know a lot of women that masturbate, and love it, cuz they could get themselves off in a matter of 5 or so minutes!

jDoG

stocktrader23 01-13-2004 03:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
I have noticed a serious change in attitude towards females from the younger generation. I think some of it is the callous attitude that all girls are sluts, and this attitude is consistantly shown on many webistes today.

hell, you can see it on this board on a daily basis.

I'm only 24 but I agree that the attitude towards females from the younger generation is different. Same holds true for the attitude towards males though. ;) Look at all the pimp, player, etc. talk show subjects.

Also, does it matter that the actions of females are percieved as slutty because they are? Maybe girls are just as slutty as they were 40 years ago but it is at least more talked about now. Lots of girls that are proud to be sluts, strip at parties, etc. I would put more blame on these girls than on porn. Just look at what the kids wear to school and the mall these days. :glugglug

JDog 01-13-2004 03:06 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Head

Wow! I've never seen any women sign-ups. But far sure women look at porn!

Yea, they use to sign up and ask about the man in the movies and say that he looks like a good fuck! I was amazed by the numbe of women subscribers!

jDoG

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 03:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JDog


Slut: A woman prostitute.
Prostitute: One who solicits and accepts payment for sex acts.

Technically they are sluts, but I don't say that, or call them that! I wouldn't have the heart to just say that to them in their face! And if I was doing videos, I would be considered a slut, which wouldn't bug me, because it would be the truth!

jDoG

When there is a camera involved she's not a prostitute.
It is considered pornography.

Slut...well it's their business to act as a slut in pics,vids or whatever so yeah they act like sluts. But doesn't mean they're :2 cents:

Ironhorse 01-13-2004 03:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
I have noticed a serious change in attitude towards females from the younger generation. I think some of it is the callous attitude that all girls are sluts, and this attitude is consistantly shown on many webistes today.

hell, you can see it on this board on a daily basis.

Unfortunately I also see the young girls wearing less and less clothing, more and more piercings (especially genital), the 'come and fuck me' back tatoo is way too common nowadays.

I think it's unfair to always blame the guys for intense female sexuality.

theking 01-13-2004 03:09 PM

In answer to the topic title...yes...it has...it does...and will continue to adversely affect the lives of many...if not all women that do porn.

Number1Thumb 01-13-2004 03:10 PM

fuck that shit , what about the trannys?

Ironhorse 01-13-2004 03:11 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle


Exactly. Many webmasters here think the girls they promote are sluts, whores etc... Well what would that make you then?

Personally I think the big difference is most guys don't have a problem referring to themselves as sluts, whereas women will cut your dick off at the suggestion. Again, opposing attitudes.

Kamilla36D 01-13-2004 03:11 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by EscortBiz
Well say a guy watched a anal porn flick, the porn says the girl is a anal virgin and he sees how simple the cock goes in her ass.

He tries that with his girlfriend who is a REAL anal virgin and the rest ya know...

Yeah so it can destroy a women at least her asshole

I know Jon Yuma, producer of wetdreams movies and we were talking about the porn biz in general and he said a girl today who wants to become a pornstar has to do anal. He also told me that they use special painkiller cream before anal scenes that numbs the area so they can't feel anything.
So yeah, men will most likely get the wrong impression when it comes to anal sex lol Just bring out a dildo the size of his dick and tell him he goes first :Graucho

But over all if porno 'distroyes' women might be too harsh of a word, but I don't think porn makes men respect them more lol

Rich 01-13-2004 03:16 PM

No. Now suck my dick and make me a sandwich, bitch.

Rich 01-13-2004 03:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rich
No. Now suck my dick and make me a sandwich, bitch.
{satire}

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 03:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ironhorse


Personally I think the big difference is most guys don't have a problem referring to themselves as sluts, whereas women will cut your dick off at the suggestion. Again, opposing attitudes.

No when a male had bedded tons of girls he's considered a "stud". If a female has bedded the exact same amount of men she'd be a slut. Explain to me how this works.

I did cam shows..do I think I'm a slut , no. I NEVER did shows with anyone other then my husband. I never did anything I didn't want to do.

I've been called a slut when I have slept with one person. Didn't act like a slut either. How the heck could I be a slut?

Now a bitch is a whole diffrent story :winkwink: I have np if you or anyone even my hubby calls me a bitch, I know I am and I'm proud of it. I have a backbone, which is always good, especially in this biz.

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 03:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JDog


But I've known lots of women, once they had a real orgasm, and how it felt, they were adicts, not to porn but to sex! I also know a lot of women that masturbate, and love it, cuz they could get themselves off in a matter of 5 or so minutes!

jDoG

Being addicted to sex is diffrent then being addicted to porn :2 cents:

pink_in_the_middle 01-13-2004 03:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rich
No. Now suck my dick and make me a sandwich, bitch.
:1orglaugh Only in your dreams sweety

JDog 01-13-2004 03:22 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle


No when a male had bedded tons of girls he's considered a "stud". If a female has bedded the exact same amount of men she'd be a slut. Explain to me how this works.

I did cam shows..do I think I'm a slut , no. I NEVER did shows with anyone other then my husband. I never did anything I didn't want to do.

I've been called a slut when I have slept with one person. Didn't act like a slut either. How the heck could I be a slut?

Now a bitch is a whole diffrent story :winkwink: I have np if you or anyone even my hubby calls me a bitch, I know I am and I'm proud of it. I have a backbone, which is always good, especially in this biz.

I would not consider anybody a slut because they did a cam show with their husband! Now what I do consider a slut is my friend, she has sleep with like 13 people in the past year! Now that is what I consider a slut!

jDoG

Number1Thumb 01-13-2004 03:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JDog


I would not consider anybody a slut because they did a cam show with their husband! Now what I do consider a slut is my friend, she has sleep with like 13 people in the past year! Now that is what I consider a slut!

jDoG

:glugglug


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