Think I'm OVER reacting???
 

My roommate told my sister (which is her ex-husband), he asked her to pay a little rent since she's been here for just over a month, first off he hasn't told me this yet, so she's going to tell me how much she gave him so I could deduct 50% off my rent (considering she's sleeping on my couch, using my TV, nothing of his & it's our living room), the he has the guts to tell her, "Yea, I have to remember to ask James for rent, if I don't remind him, he'll spend all his money!" First off I'm making over 3 times more than him, AND i've never EVER been late on rent! That pisses me off! So I'm only paying like $450 this month, since she's gonna give him like $200, i'm going to deduct a $100 off mine then deduct the $100 I lent him and I want it back now!

And I have more money in the bank than he makes in a month and a half!

I took this shit personally, and I'v taken all my shit from the living room and put it in my room!

Is this over reacting?

jDoG

i wonder when the roomate was going to let you know he was charging your sister rent..

You're not overreacting too much..but a straigtening out is in order

good luck

Your sister is his x-wife? And you wonder why he wants to be a dope to her?

Tell your roommate and mention you are glad he did the dirty work with the freeloader. He will happy to split it with you then.

Nope, not overreacting.... but plan your strategy for handling this situation NOW because you know you won't be able to keep yer yap shut about it....

I couldn't keep my yap shut either.... :glugglug

But this guy is your roommate... you've liked something about him enough to share the same living space.... so probably better not to wait for the next available moment to say 'WTF??!!'

:2 cents:

Fyrflygrl

Having a roomie is too many times a bad idea for one reason or another..

If you make that much money, why not get your own place and not have to worry about anyone else...

My rules are simple. No matter what, however many heads are living in that house, rent gets divided by that number.

3 people... rent / 3. No exceptions.

Example: if my roommate wants some chick to move in, he is paying 2 parts of the rent.. not 1 :)

Move out. Get your own place free of roommates. You have nothing but problems with them anyway. You always have. Plus dont you hate Irvine?

Exactly, I just hope I could stay til this lease is up! I still have 5 months and it's hell.

I might break the lease!

jDoG

Hey you! Yes I hate Irvine, nothing but assholes here! Or 90% are assholes! But I'm moving out soon hopefully!

jDoG

Hahahaha, I used to do this too! When I lived with my roommate her bf and friends would always come over almost EVERY DAY with like 10-15 of their loser friends and use my stuff and get on my nerves. I even labelled all my food "Jackie's food- DO NOT EAT" or else they would eat all my stuff without even asking !!!!! :mad: . And I told them not to watch the cable channels because it's MY cable, in MY name and IIIII pay for it.
If you're not gonna pitch in for half the cable then don't watch it! lol

Straighten this shit out, you'll feel better in the long run. Dont let em run your place

Why anyone would want to live with roommates is beyond me.

Actually she offered about a month ago, but I said I don't care, and he didn't say anything! Considering this his son's mother, he hasn't been being a asshole! But the fact that he got in to my personal finances, when he doesn't make any where near as much as I do, and said that shit, pissed me off!

I told him a few months ago, "I don't need to you keep this place, and the only reason I'm moving in is to help you out! You're the one that needs me, I don't need you!"

And he takes everything, eats all my food, eats EVERYTHING, might explain why he's 400 pounds, then him and my nephew get pissed when I eat a fucking $0.25 cent Top Ramen, I'm like here, here's fucking 25 cents! Ever since then, I haven't taken him or my nephew to Outback Steakhouse or anywhere, we use to go out and I would drop $150 on dinner!

Fuck him, I'm movin out! I don't care if their living on the streets!

jDoG

I just did that too! I brought home a shit load of cookies my mother & grandmother made, and I had one so far. I went to get another one two days later, and their half gone! WTF? So I put a big piece of paper on the tuperware and put electrical type around the edges and wrote, "DO NOT TOUCH" on it! :1orglaugh :1orglaugh And I also put a number "24" for the number of cookies and fudge in the contaner! :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

jDoG

Dude, you're overreacting. People say all sorts of stupid things. If you take them all seriously you'd go nuts.

your first mistake was allowing some punk to fuck your sister.

second mistake was moving in with him.

sounds like some weird triangle

heh

:glugglug

I swear Jerry Springer gets some of his guests from surfing this board.

Well, I won't go on Jerry Springer! :1orglaugh

jDoG

But when people are talking shit about your finances, when they can't afford the rent on THEIR own like I can, and he's saying that shit.

Most likely it was just because he's jealous, but he fucked up! I tell everybody I'm the coolest person, I'll be cool and if you're in a bind, I'll help you out. But once you fuck me over or talk any type of shit, it's over, I'm the BIGGEST fucking asshole there is!

I've already got plans to move out in like a month! :1orglaugh

I can't wait til he's on the streets! :1orglaugh

jDoG

not sure i really understand the story

He basically got into my personal finances and talked shit about them, cuz I make over 2 times as much as him in 2 weeks as he does in a month!

jDoG

I cannot believe you do this too!!! I thought I was the only anal one who counted all my food! I even typed up on my pc what stuff was mine and taped it on my refrigerator! Everytime after my roommate's friends came over they would always eat all my bread, eggs, and salad. That is unbelievable ghetto, eating someone else's bread & eggs when I didn't even invite them, dude go buy some McDonalds or something! It is so disrespectufl, they have no respect for anyone!

And they were always so loud, the neighbours would complain. And they would not go home either! Sometimes when I woke up in the morning there would be a bunch of drunk ugly loser guys sleeping on the couch and floor, I wanted to kick them!

But no, I don't think you are overreacting, something like that would piss me off too, but I can be hard to get along with sometimes so I'm not sure if you should listen to me.

sounds like someone's jealous. it's hard to be a playa

Yea it's a thing I got from a roommate my mom had when I was 15, he did the same thing! :1orglaugh So I thought it would work great and nobodies touched it since! :1orglaugh

jDoG

Yea, I think so too! But my old roommates didn't have the problem at all! But I've made plans to move already, and I'm giving my 30 days tomorrow! :)

Fuck it I'm over it all, and I've got my nice TV & stereo in my room! :)

jDoG

FUCKEN BEAT THAT BITCH UP!!!

Beat my sister up or my ex brother in law?

jDOG