Years in the adult industry has made me a self-centered, greedy, sleazeball
 

Now that I'm out of the adult industry and back in the real world, everything is very strange. I'm not very talkative, and everyone sees me as a self-centered asshole who only cares about money.

I've enrolled in a community college, and I lie about most of the things I talk about (not wanting to reveal that I was a porn webmaster for several years). Some people have caught me in my lies, and won't talk to me.

Being in the adult industry for so long has changed me a lot, and I don't like socializing anymore, and I have a hard time meeting with women.

GET OUT OF THE BIZ WHILE YOU CAN, OR FIND GOD, OR JOIN SOME CLUBS. I spent the past couple of years hanging around my computer all day trying to make money, and now I'm just some isolated loser!

...................:thumbsup

OR just leave the house once in a while and maintain normal, healthy relationships.

How did people catch you in your lies? Tell me so I can avoid the same mistake. What did you say?

Sucks for you :thumbsup

Sounds like your a real loser

My porn income is what allows me to persue the things I really love.

Its all how you handle it bro.

I was a self-centered greedy sleezeball before I started porn anyway :321GFY

lol...yes..in fact i would like fries with that

Ladies and gentleman, we have a LOSER!

The adult industry didn't make you that way. You made yourself that way. The adult industry is now different than any other business. If you feel you need to hide that your in the adult industry, you should of never of been in it, in the first place. I don't care who knows I'm in the adult industry. I'm happy with the money I make and the lifestyle I live.

It's funny you should mention McDonalds, I was in Safeways the other day with Brad (now from XtremePay), and the chick behind the checkout was hitting on me...I didn't notice, but Brad said he was wondering how long it would take for her to jump the counter for me...

That got to us thinking about the next reality site that should be put together - someone has to have the money to buy a Safeway store though.

SafewaySluts.com

I'll leave it to your imaginations :1orglaugh

Why is it that people feel the need to "lie," about their involvement in this biz.

#1 It's nobodies fucking business what I do in life period.

If they ask what I do for a living then I tell them simply web design. That is all they need to know. They don't need to know my exact job description, how I spend my time, what sites I am working on.

If they feel the need to delve in deeper and I feel they can handle it I tell them that I would rather not let them know what sites I work on because they are for adult content.

They either get excited and interested or that shuts them the fuck up. If they don't wanna have anything to do with me after whichever way I handle this then fuck them...I don't care.

so let me guess: nobody here would put their porn experience on their cv? i'd be curious to know how people feel about this. do you think you'd get a fair chance if you're qualified for the job?

What's a "cv"?

People that do really well in this biz will not ever need apply for another job.

latin for resume

god forbid :) but lets make an assumption here

If you are concerned about people finding out you've worked in porn, or feel that you will have regrets later then you shouldn't be in this biz.

I think that's part of the problem with this biz to begin with. *this is not pointed at you* but there are too many college kids who don't see this as a "real job," and are only doing this for beer money until they get that "real job."

They have no vested interest in seeing that this biz continues which is why some have little interest in learning what true free speech is or feel it's okay to cheat and scam...things that will have definite outcomes on the future of our industry.

But for 37 year old guys like me who will hopefullly do this until I can retire comfortably..whether that's in 1 year or 30 I'm looking at the long term effects and not just the short term results.

Hey I've always been wanting to make more money. Yes I spend most of my hours a day trying to make more money, but I dont care! Hell, MONEY makes the world go around and ye with the most money wins! That's my motto. As for women, find a whore! :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

But I could tell you one thing, I'm not getting outta of this industry, this industry has shown me more money than any other industry and that's all I care about really! I've never worried about getting married or what not!

Plus it must be you, cause it's funny how people take it when I tell them that I'm a adult webmaster. They just ask me what site's I work for! :Graucho So it's not all that bad!

jDoG

OH MY GAWD, that was the best laugh all day. I think this guy has it figured out. :thumbsup

I would put my porn experience on a resume if I had to get a job for some reason. I wouldn't say I worked in the adult industry. Just want I did. Programming, marketing, etc..

I can't see myself having to ever get a regular job again, but I don't know my future either. Who knows, the internet might be gone in 5 years and I'm back to working at some dead end job.

ummmm, maybe the reason you couldn't make it in the adult biz was that you're an isolated loser...

I tried to contact GOD, but he was on another line and didnt return my calls !
So what is so different now? You started out as a self-centered asshole who only cares about money. The Porn didnt make you that way. Ashes to ashes ..........assholes to assholes,your life just done a cycyle, Enjoy if you get to talk to God, tell him I said Hello and Merry Xmas:thumbsup

...says the guy who lives in a town with population 83

Don't blame the Biz for your failures. You were a loser to begin with and tried (like so many others) to make a quick buck. You entered into a biz that you were ashamed to be in, and Failed, and now rather than accepting that you are and always will be a loser, you are blaming the biz for your lies and uselessness...:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

and hits 11 porn conventions a year.....

nice post.

your right... you bear no responsibility for who you are and what you have become. its someone else's or something else's fault.

Did you apply for your Chinese Communist Youth Card yet? The great followers of the blessed Chairman Mao can also protect you from the evil masses.

You were in this business?
I must have missed that 5 minutes.

Find GOD? LOL fuck god and fuck what other people think of me.. I've been doing this for 7 years and it has not ruined my life in any way whatsoever.

are you sure it was that long ?? :1orglaugh