What would you do with this?
 

My ex-girlfriend and I was together for about 5 months now. All was going good with her, and we were comfortable in all aspects of our lifes/relation.

5 days ago, I went on her place, and she told me that it was over with me... for some shitty reasons!

Yesterday, I spent the day with her, and all was going VERY good (that was just like if we were together, without any kiss or shit like that). Then at the end of the day, she told me that she leave me for another guy, and she already fucked him..!

I know that it was only a "trip" that she will regret VERY SOON. She told me so much shit yesterday night about me and her!

I love her for sure! I can't destroy 5 months of love in 1 day.. but I'm so frustrated about what she did to me.. I want to know what you guys (and girls for sure) think about that? Would I get back with her if she ask me when she'll see that her new "boyfriend" is only shit.. or should I forgive her and never speak back to her?

Gimme your opinion please!! I need some men and women advice on that! Thank!

stalk her till she has you arrested, then she'll feel bad and take you back
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ok the love doctor speaks. loyalty in a commited relationship, honesty and chivalry all around is a rare quality. however, let me put it this way... a cheater will most likely cheat again. a cheater that stays in the same relationship is almost definately going to do it again, especialy if they think they can get away with it. a cheater in one relationship is almost definately going to cheat in other relationships although the likelihood is less. If she had any dignity or respect for you or your relationship, she would have ended it before cheating... :2 cents:

My advice? Accept advice from a posters on an adult webmaster board.

Couldn't have said it better myself. :glugglug Move on. It may hurt like hell right now but don't take her back. Just get on with your life. They always cheat again.

5 months and you love her already????




Did you guys also celebrate your First month anniversary too???

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Yeah, okay! But she left me just before fuckin' with him.. So she didn't really cheat me.. but that's the same shit! Everybody think this way, it's like a drug seller who got arrested.. when he get out of jail, he'll probably be back on the street for selling more shit..

Maybe you are all right on this one..!

Your a fucking little bitch.. quit being such a pussy..

"I can't destroy 5 months of love in 1 day"

Thats like saying "Well ive been in jail for 6 months, i cant leave now and throw that all away"

shut up and grow up you pansy

Trust me, its over... even if you did get back together with her, you will be resentful til the day you die that she fucked that other guy.

in all honesty i hate being the bearer of bad news, but ive seen it too many times to say anything different. cheating is one of those things that i find a lowest of low in a relationship. if you aren't happy and are going elsewhere, at least have the balls to say so before you move on. especially if you do it then dont say anything... thats just one hell of an unspoken lie with the intent to get away with it. fuckit, if you're not happy say so... thats a complete water mark on your reputation in my mind if you dont.

edit AGAIN: my fiance and i of 3 years just broke up recently... and it was mutual, so no feelings hurt either way and we're both still good friends... but neither of us would have ever imagined cheating, even before we were engaged... thats just low... </rant>

Good call. I thought I was the only man on this board.

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WTF? You don't need to stay a complete year to say that you love her.. You mind is shitty :321GFY

Trash....


toss it. :2 cents:

BTW you can slap a big fat guarantee on the fact that she was seeing this other guy BEFORE she broke it off with you.

he allready said she admited to it... booked, weighed, measured and found severely lacking...

shes sucking some other dudes dick and you still want to be with her? man don't be a fucking panzy and move on. otherwise think about the way that other dudes dick tastes next time you want to kiss her.

take his advice. you deserve more than that, and besides, there still alot more loyalty girls out there waiting for you:thumbsup

No doubt. that will come out later but the "I fucked him after we broke up" routein is total bullshit. She fucked him way before then made the decision after. Shes is just trying to spare you some heart ache and trying not to make herself sound like a hoochie.

Move on. Sometimes you just gotta say Fuck It

move on or you will have more to regret

it does take another relationship to forget the past

regardless good luck

dude, women are a dime a dozen, let her go, chalk it up as an experience and move on. If she's willing to toss you aside after 5 months for someone else, what makes you think she won't do it again in another 5 months?

let her go, and when she comes crawling back, have your new, hotter girlfriend (who does all the freaky shit yer ex didn't) slam the door in her face

man, i hate being the young one to say this but in this day and age there are way too many of these types of people... chivalry is not dead, but it's getting pretty close

Yeah! That's my main point.. If I get back with her.. (probably not, each day I'm still thinking about that, and each more day I don't want her back anymore!).. I'll probably can't forgive that another dick was on her mouth .. I'll be tough to get back with her and forgive it all.. ARG

LOVE IS DAMN SHIT WHEN IT BROKE :feels-hot

well, better it happen now, 5 months in then happen 5 years and 5 months into the relationship...

She was doing anything! That's was one of those nice girl out there.. That's why I loved her so much!

But I'll try to convert some more girls to anal sex for sure! hahaha

well good luck to ya :thumbsup

most relationships end with regret

Get over it... Move on...You are destine to find another cheater:BangBang: Pussy:thumbsup

I was going to say about the exact that com said.. basically, she isn't worth it man. She cheated on you, and now she wants you back? Damn woman, think before you act!

I'd say you're too good for her now, you've been honest in the relationship, she hasn't.. i'd say :321GFY to her if she'd even have the balls to ask me to take her back

Ummm you've been dating for five months and you're in love?!!!
Hello? LOL
How old are you?

we're not even dating and you love me :Graucho

WTF.. I can't understand your state of mind..

Yeah I've been with her for 5 months.. and yes I was in love.. what's the fuck in this?

what do you what from her now????
i mean if u want her back, then shit take her back and MAKE sure the stunt she pulled the other day is a last. (u dont want her thinking she can walk all over you)
but if u dont want her back, then tell her to get the hell on, and that she lost someone who trully cared bout her. shit u might want to even stay matual friends. you never know somethng might spark up in the next couple of months.
i mean if she did it to you she will probably do to him.
well thats my :2 cents:

Fuck the slut...

Dude, you wanna turn into a crawling back "Oh im sorry it was all my fault" faggot?

WTF

She's a slut, 5 months doesn't mean shit.

Work harder, earn more doe and go get yourself some fancy pussy.

They're all bitches anyway, and no, for the record I'm not bitter I've never been dumped in my life.. but still i think fuck em.

Look after yourself buddy, and give it some time, you'll get over her no matter how great you currently think she is.

Fuck em.

Fuck em all.

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Yeah, I think that time will get her out of my mind, and I'll proably never get back with her, as she fucked another man when our relation was good. She don't know what she want, and she can do it at anytime like this time.

I'LL GO FUCK ANOTHER BITCH! (hope this one isn't a real bitch, only a nice bitch :Graucho )

I've meet another ex-girlfriend today.. she didn't know about my ex-girlfriend who leave me.. and we talked alot.. going to the restaurant with her soon :D

So all we need to say now its :

:321GFY GO FUCK YOURSELF TO MY EX-GIRLFRIEND!! :321GFY

That's the spirit!

If she fucked you over she will do it again and again and again....
drop her sorry ass.

:321GFY

find out if she has a cute sister or a hot mother...

then... fuck one of them.

I think this would be most appropriate in your case. Follow this fine example on how to turn out a tainted spouse.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...ghlight=letter

:mad: You didn't have to say it ....now EVERYONE including Kelly knows :feels-hot
No more love for you :ak47:

This is just my opinion but you can't love someone after 5 months :2 cents: Really what can you know about the person?
Be with someone for 5+ years and THEN tell me what love is. Go through hard time, good times etc.. then you'll really understand what love is.

Can you understand my state of mind now sweety?
btw you still have not answered how old you are.

If I told you my age, all this thread had gone wrong...

Well I'm fuckin' 18 now bitch :Graucho

But okay, I understand your state of mind.. But I think that you can get LOVE after 5 months, and NO, it is not the same love as after 5 years, that's for sure.. But I don't understand why you don't call it LOVE after 5 months? How do you call it?

Should I stay friend with her? Or only fuckfriend?

18 and in love lol :)
I don't call it love because imo its not love. Maybe puppy love or lust... but not love thats for sure.

Okay okay, LOVE is the only word I know for that in english (cause I'm french). So I'll say that I was LOVING HER :D WASSSSSSS :D hehe

Please when you are 18, or at least for me, what I felt was love. Yeah it isn't the same as it is now at 30, but that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt, or doesn't feel good. Your first broken heart usually sucks the most because you don't understand it yet. You are learning. So appreciate what you are going through and get everything you can out of it. When you get older it gets more complicated, if you let it.

I would take what she said and go with that. She broke up with you, and then she came forward and told you she is with someone else now. Leave it be and move on. Don't hate her and not trust her based on an assumption. Remember it's you that has to carry the hate.

There are soooooooo many hot girls in this world. You have way too much learning to do with sex and relationships to get caught up with one girl you cared or "loved" for about for 5 months.

Now go out have some fun. Trust me, if she sees you moving on, and acting like nothing happen, including being polite to her when and if you bump into her, that will be the best revenge for anything you "think" might have happened while she was dating you. Some women when they see their ex acting in a positive manner after a break up will take as they meant nothing to you.

You have so much fun heading you way. Cry a river for an hour, stand up take a shower and go out with some friends.

I didn't mean it didn't or doesn't hurt. I've been there done that. Imo girls fall the hardest well at least I did.

I don't really think you decide whether it gets complicated or not.
It just happens.

Nice to get some advice from a woman :)

Well, I think you're right, I must carry that pain, the pain that she seems to be good without me, with someone else.. and I'm sitting alone in a corner wondering why. I feel pain, because she probably don't feel so bad about what she did. I have now 1 complete month of vacancy (yeah, school rock for this). So I'll get myself on everything I can do, snowboard, friends, theaters, ect! Hope to see her at the movies theater (she's working there) when I'll go see a movie with another girl! Hahahaha

The thing that make me laugh, is that when we went to the shoppping center together yesterday, and I saw an old friend of mine (a cute girl), she seemed to be jealous after we left the other girl !!!

So fuckin' funny shit, BITCH! (not you Loryn! haha)

:321GFY

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Im truly sorry to hear that dude :(
it is VERY possible for someone to be in love with another person within 5 months, so leave the poor dude alone!

best of luck getting over this, I know it's extremely difficult... :(