girls in trouble
 

try my best to explain this and im sure it happens every other day to many thousands of womens but here goes.

A friend of mine, recently broke up with her boyfriend, who she has a 2 year old son with, they are in there young 20's, he is out to make her life a living hell, would be here forever explaining the shit he pulled already, he has a history of beating her and spent time in jail already for it, tonight she is flipping out, my guess is that he thinks no matter what.. he owns her and can get what he wants whenever he wants, and makes her so fucking scared. she is moving away asap and he said if she does he will hunt her down and kill her, and with his history this wouldnt surprize me. what is she suppose to do? call the cops and they will do what? put a warrent on him like he had for years already and didnt do shit? seems like the only solution is for him to be shot first!
tell me otherwise!

alot more goes with this story but just want to know what is my best solution to help her out... any large group of guys from ottawa want a job : )

2 sides for every story. Your friend could be psycho.

Just sayin :)

I know both sides of the story very well, lets leave it at that.

Get her to a shelter... some of them have people that can help her get to a new place that he can't find... but he can get rights to see the child until a judge decides he's not acceptable to be around the kid and even then might still retain some sort of visitation.

Thats about all you can do...good advice

I can relate... my cousin is going through the same shit... He was ex Military. Would beat up on her... one time she was at work, her bf left their 14 month old daughter out in the fucking street! He was drunk and said he was tired of the baby crying... she came home from work, saw her baby in the street... Thank god her daughter was unharmed.

She called the cops on him. Cops came didnt do shit... gave him a warning. When the cops left he beat on her a bit. She was too scared to call the cops again. Fucking assholes like that need a bullet in their head! I have not talked with her in a few months... she lives in AZ. She is too scared to leave or something too. She wont take my advise on leaving the state. She needs to get away from him, its out of my hands.

What Gemini said.

Plus she should call the police every time he approaches her.
Sad but I wouldn't get involved with couples messes. The friend who helps usually looses.

men who beat their wives don't deserve love and life!!!:BangBang:

... do you fuck her ?

i am involved yes, and i am willing to get her a place, but what makes it impossible for him to find her? nothing like living in fear of someone hunting you down, i think he is not being mature about all this really, he been seeing other ppl for awhile now, and they have not been together for over 6 months but he still comes around and makes her life hell, he thinks he is hurting her to wake her up that she cant live without him and he is making it that way for her, and if she manages he will hunt her down and beat her... going to be pretty sad if i need to live with her and sleep with a baseball bat in my arms every night...

and yeah he would kill me if he knew i had anything to do with her becauses i was his only friend that ever gave him trust and i blew that up large, I know the way he treats her, seen it with my own eyes.. not the beating part, but i was told by him.. always stayed out of it, but somehow got involved with her and I care for her alot.. he thinks he will win and i wont let it happen..

Put your cape on and kick his ass ?

She needs a couple male friends willing to kill him before he kills her.


*note (I didn't just type that)

once a problem always a problem regardless of the fuckin story run as fast as you can or you will just get yourself into stuff you will regret.

Dont think you are different better and smarter then the rest of the planet.

But I know you will think with your cock and in 2 months make a post:

WTF this girl...

I was helping this girl now she claims blah blha or now shes going back to the guy I helped her get away from blah blha blha

I can see it comin I been around the block.

I dont know you dont take anything I said personal, just know of many men who got their panties in a bunch by thinking with the brian in the head between their legs.

yeah i see your point, but lets just say i wasnt fucking her.. i would still be helping her, she been a friend for over 8 years as well as him. either way im helping.

I agree...been there...done that.

Point her ass toward a psychiatrist (she needs it if she stuck with him for any length of time)....

Then run like the friggin wind.

Can you say "head case"? Yes, I knew you could....

what do you mean by head case?

well, there are a few choices:

1. you both go to some distant place ( outside of the states )
2. you ( or your friends ) beat the hell out of him and cripple him for the rest of his life...
3. she goes by the rules - calling cops EVERY single time and making him realize he is in big trouble around her...
4. you just drop the whole story cause eventually she will feel attracted by him at some point anyway...

yes I think them are the only choices I have, thanks.

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do something...and fast.

this shit needs to stop!! :(


Get her out of Ottawa and into another city where she's got a lot of people watching over her. I know we have quite a few women's shelters in Montreal and they are great. There are many things you can do. What you CANNOT do, is sit by and watch because it absolutely will not get better and I'm sure you know this.

yup.... 2 sides to every story

Damn, looking at my old posts with my first nick here at gfy, amazing how time changes, I been with this girl now for 2 years, have a brand new 8 day old son, things have been perfect for us. even things with her ex is ok now.

I gotten her a place in montreal, visited her often to make sure things were ok, also to let my daughter play with her son, being great friends brought us closer together.