Women - please answer - what the most attractive thing you find about a man?
 

I only really know of three things that people become attracted to. sure attration is often based on all 3, but I'm curious, which one do you think is THE most important factor in determining whether or not you'll fall in love or lust with a guy.


a. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
b. MONEY/POWER
c. ATTENTION on YOU


most reasons for attraction fall under these three topics. Which one does it for you?

for me with women money is least important when it comes to lust/love - couldn't care less if she's rich or poor, powerful or not. Then I'd say physical, as attention is probally the most attractive thing about anyone. least in my books.

American women have all kinds of issues with attractiveness.

You should Go to West Africa, chill out in a village and take your shirt off. Whip out that big stomach and those girls will be on you like stink on shit!

The fact that you're EATING makes those girls drool. And you'll be the envy of all of the fit muscular men in the village because they wish that they could look like you.

Believe me....

Honesty
Integrity
Financial and emotional stability

I am one good looking male Sleazy

Attention and affection BY FAR...

B) would are all about money. bunch of freak'n golddiggers. a man with flashy car, apt, and money can get a woman to do just about anything.

if i was horny all the time women would be pretty much worthless. all the do is complain, overly emotional about things, want money, cry for no reason, and try to be bossy.

with that in mind i'll probably end up marrying a car model chick that just wants my money. oh well that's what prenumps are for :thumbsup

the wallet

come on now, looks are very important none of that personality crap

You would choose a hot sexy succulent stallion over a geek anyday

This is a really hard question to answer. My current boyfriend called me to sell me a newspaper 2 years ago...never paid him much attention over the first year, when he would call me. Later on I did pay attention to him and found out he is extremely smart, sensitive, FUNNY (which may have been the most important thing) and attentive. I flew him here this year in March and we have a great relationship. He had no job, no money, no power and I had no idea what he looked like (and for the record I'm not an ugly chick) yet I took my chances. Now, in this situation I guess it was his humor/personality that I was attracted to.

In a different situation, physical appearance would have been my first answer...if I was in a bar/club.

As far as money and power go...they're pretty much moot in my book. When you go home at night (not you personally) you're just like anyone else...just a regular person. No one cares what you have when you're at home, what matters then is how much you love someone, and how you treat them not how big your bank book is, or who wants to know you because you're "powerful"

Attention is VERY important. My boyfriend is VERY attentive and if he weren't, he would not likely be with me. I have to admit, I probably am not as attentive as I should be though...something to work on.

Not if the woman thinks that the sexy succulent stallion has no conversation and doesn't know how to listen to her feelings.

intelligence

With that attitude you might as well buy a wedding veil for your hand.

I guess it may be (c) but maybe a subset...

d) The ability to listen and act accordingly

That's what my gf tells me at least :)

Are we talking about a one nighter or like long term thing? I am confused

only if they have a personality that allows me to be around them for more than 5 minutes.

Of course, women love good looking men, but put a cocky, arrogant attitude on them, and I am soooo out the door. I really hate to be broke, but it is not a factor when most women REALLY fall in love.

being metrosexual?

:1orglaugh

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Now THIS guys has it ALL!!! I'd hump him over and over!

a) CONFIDENCE

b) MONEY

c) DISTAIN

Not even gonna read the thread...

As a former girl myself...

Honesty and a sense of humor.

you know what, women want to much. men are simiple all we want it sex. i'm getting a headache just thinking about how much women nag and complain.

A man who has brain cells an can actually carry a conversation
Good sense of humor
Nice eyes and lips...

:thumbsup :winkwink:

I think every chick is different, and this post is impossible to answer.

I impressed chicks with humor, money, attention, sex, long term relationships, short term, etc etc.

just find the weak spot.

my personality would be my greatest feature.

Good question, Sleazy!

If I'm going to fall in lust with a guy, looks aren't a huge factor (surprisingly). Humour, self-confidence, and charm are everything. If he can challenge me to think about something new without offending me, then he definitely has my attention.

If I'm going to fall in love with a guy, looks weigh a little more, since I plan to be seen with this guy a lot. *wink* He needs to have similar goals or at least compatible goals to my own, and a willingness to work together on them (ie: compromise). And yeah, the intelligence and humour has to be there, or I won't be.

He's gotta be a tough nut to crack, in other words. Take that however you like. :Graucho

Intelligence.

since you're single - what ever you do - stay away from porn conventions then. There are sooo many hot - SMART women in this game that work for different companies it'll make your head spin. you'll end up falling in love with 6-10 women that work in this biz ( not content women)

i got it soo bad for a couple of girls in this game that if I was single I wouldn't care if I married them and they took me for every penny I had.... I just love being around them that much.

they look at the sausage first

the only thing I like in a guy is a dick. If I want to be loved, I leave it to the girls.

(Casually slips Elli my room number for vegas)

a) CONFIDENCE

b) MONEY

c) DISTAIN

Had too may men beating your ass and leaving you in your life huh? Don't be so bitter.

most of you have no fucking clue what you're talking about, the first thing a human, ANY human notices in other human is physical appearance, then rest comes later....so don't give me that shit

speaking of no clue - the only tease anyone really knows in this game is tease from hardcore junky.

that was my thought as well.

You're right, Tease. I notice the eyes first and foremost. Then the mouth. The rest doesn't matter that much, but certainly helps if it's nice to look at :)

The eyes tell me how smart he is, and how much he laughs. That's why.

Earth to Sleasy LOSER you are way too fucking ugly to get any of those girls...besides that your personality sucks!!!
Only A pathetic fat fuck like you will fall in love witha nything he sees.
:321GFY
Do you own a mirror? My guess not:boid :evil-laug :evil-laug

Out of those choices C-) Attention on you ...Money and looks are last on my list.

Common sense
Smart
Not self centered
Sense of humor
Confidence
Common interests

are tops on my list...

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you should come to vegas dude , the REAL tease (and blade)will be there.

The question wasn't what's the FIRST thing you look for.

Ah yes, the "I'm better than everyone else" schtick always works on girls. All it does is show your classyness and self-confidence, or lack thereof.

And it makes me think, "What a buttmunch."

:)

you're probally right - I'm way too pathetic, fat, stupid, ugly, and my personality does suck.


I'm goning to go sulk and cry in the corner now.

What she said, except a good physical appearance is what would attract me to begin with....

:winkwink:

If we're talking physical:
- strong forearms (I really have no explaination for this one lol)
- a great smile that light up his eyes
- a body that is slim but not too muscled because big muscles gross me out


If we're talking on a more relationship type level:
- attitude really is most important. I can NOT be attracted to a guy who has a temper, acts all "pity me" or doesn't love life as much as I do
- looks are important but not nearly as much as when I'm just checking guys out. For instance, a guy isn't the type that I would check him out in a bar, but once I am attracted to him as a person instead of a statue when he smiles at me it doesn't matter what he looks like because emotional attraction is at least 50% of the total attraction.
- another important thing is how he makes ME feel. When we have sex he better smile at me and give me lots of kisses, stuff like that.



When I was in highschool my highschool boyfriend had money and it made me feel really uncomfortable because he used it to try to "win" me. When we fought he'd buy me a gold necklace, ignoring the fact that I absolutely hate gold. He was all about money and flashing it around. I've never dated a guy who made more than me since then, for me a guy with money is a turn off because of past experiences.


But there are lots of girls who can't stand the types of guys I am attracted to...it's so dependent on the girl. I think I would replace Money/Power in Sleazy's original post with "Attitude"...you can fit Money/Power into the attitude category anyway. Sure girls care what a guy looks like but if they're looking for a relationship looks aren't the only thing that matters, it needs to be a fine balance between other things as well. But really isn't it the same thing for guys??

Hey...lay off the twinkies....doughnuts..whatever you damn westners eat!!:321GFY :evil-laug :boid

Try some excersice...very good for people like you, it might make you feel nice and not as if you have that huge stick up your nasty ass....

And who the fuck do you think you are to make such mean, nasty comments to another human being?

I am actually very nice, if you read all his post he is very mean and a very nasty full of himself human being...

But it doesn't make you any better to act like him.

i always feel nice. It's only the idiots that think I'm nasty.


obviously you think I'm nasty... draw your own conlusion.

You are very correct! Juts for the record I love people of all size not sleazy because he is very mean...