Question: Do you hit on girls or do you wait for them to hit on you?
 

I'm starting to lean on waiting for them to hit on me ... makes life easy but of course you loose some of the fun in the chase.

Good luck getting laid...

That's the thing ... they've been hitting on me latley so it's making me think. Of course, if I only wait for them to hit on me, the numbers will be lower.

when a girl says 'do you want a table dance' she's not hitting on you...:Graucho

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh Well, she want's something from you!

jDoG

Couldn't help you there. Never been hit on while I have been paying attention.

I don't like like to wait around, so I prefer to hit them over the head first, then it's all cool.

for sure, the women around here, prefer us guys to make hte 1st move, and then usually it goes from there:winkwink:

i've usually let them come to me. but lately i've been getting more aggressive. also if i'm drunk/pissed off i wil tend to goto them as like a 'social outlet' to direct some of my energy at.

I let them hit me first so when i hit them back it's considered as self-defense :Graucho

Around Here? Where's that?

The last time I asked a girl out was in college. She angrily replied, "Are you fucking crazy?" Then she walked away, acting all insulted, and she didn't say another word to me for the rest of the semester.

I believe that would be Australia.

I honestly don't go out after girls except exception (that happen very RARELY) and I can get laid WHENEVER I want . I mean WHENEVER if it's 4 am I'l find a girl n.p. .

I never, ever try to pick up a girl. Especailly in a club. I will give them the signals they need and wait for them to come. If they dont come over this means either:

a) they dont want me
b) they are shy, shy = wont put out fast
3) virgin :uhoh

Proud to say I've never approached or just walked up to a girl in my life, nor will I....never felt i've "needed" or "wanted" a girl enough for that night/moment or just overall.....


but i have this undying thought that the girl I end up with, i won't be able to resist, and i'll have to...


:2 cents:


FF

i let them hit on me.

If your nervous to hit on a girl then just be gay your used to males around you your friends and family members to just be gay and you be fine.:thumbsup

I married with my first girlfriend. We met online, and SHE hit on me on the chatroom. I used to enter the chat rooms and just lurk while I was visiting some HTML / JS / Resource sites back in 1996/1997.

Who actually initiates the conversation is inconsequential. 90% of all male/female interactions are initiated by the female in terms of conscious or subconscious body language. If you pick up on that and then go 'hit' on her, she was still the one who hit on you first...

Do you prefer men?