Treating women with respect...
 

...doesn't work. You'll become the non-threatening, trusted friend that cares. :(

A bitch knows if she's gonna fuck you within 45 seconds of meeting you. That's a FACT!

Go up to a bitch, talk to her, listen to her bullshit for about a minute then ask if she wants to fuck. If she says no, walk away. Because anytime spent on her after that is wasted.

It's not a fact. I'm living proof of that. When I acted like a complete asshole, I got laid so easily it wasn't even funny. Now that I act nicely, all I achieve is becoming a close friend. :(

generalizing... doesn't work. if you don't turn a woman on, it's not because you're respectful. it's 'cause she simply doesn't find you sexy.

it may take a while to get to sex, but chemistry is either there or it isn't. if a guy doesn't have "it" for a woman, it's very unlikely to develop after that first minute or less.

my fiance, btw, is very respectful of people in general unless they're assholes, and well, he IS my fiance *lol*

congrats

Bitches aint shit but hos and tricks.
Lick on these nuts and suck the dick.

And it just so happens to be that many women don't find respect sexy.

i love that 'thing' in your sig. i could watch it all day....:helpme

And what am I? Chopped liver?

punkworld, maybe it's because of WHO you approach. if you approach women with low self-esteem, you will get laid more if you are a bastard because these women can't say no. but it isn't because you turn them on more.

the men i know who get laid the most by eager participants are friendly, respectful and flirty. these men don't push, don't make crude remarks, but they have that gleam in their eyes that show the woman they are talking to that although they would never push, they DO find them hot! they let the woman know she's sexy but in a teasing way so she is free to turn them down without pressure, but it is always present in the background.

i like that one too. but yours makes me dizzy sometimes

Thanks, his name is "bunchies" hes oin a never ending quest to eat teh ADS logos off GFY.

:) btw redshoe, i got the same shoes. that would make me 'blackshoe'...

I generally don't approach women, actually. I get approached.
So, they are at least partly interested (why else would they ask me for a date, right?). They do contact me for second, third, etc. dates.... after which I become that trusted friend that cares.

Before, when I still acted like a jerk, I usually got laid on the first date.

Only if you are an amputee like me, otherwise you are BlackShoes.

Too bad Lens banned my original Flash sig. :( That one was 1000 times smoother than this one. You can see it at.. well, I don't wanna spam so let's just say you can see it at Another Adult Board in all it's flash, smooth glory.

Whoa :eek7 Is the "respect" genuine or is it all an act? You think women can't tell the difference between a guy that genuinely cares and a bunch of bullshit? If the respect was real, you'd understand and not create a thread like this :winkwink:

Also, being nice and respectful guarantees getting laid? Really? Since when? :uhoh Maybe you are using your schemes on the wrong type of women. Unlike men, most women have a lot more to consider when fucking a guy, than a guy does willing to fuck just about anything with a pulse.

man woman relations are about gaining
The woman wants to gain the man's love and respect,money or whatever it is that she wants.
The man wants to gain the sex from her.
When either of these people has what they wanted to gain initially it is just a swap of who's up and who's down in any given week.
When the woman has the man's balls in her hand (control, what she would call love) then the man becomes less attractive becasue it has been conquered and he is seen as weak. And no woman wants to be with a weak guy. So either the man must get his balls back and treat her like shit so she can begin the conquest of him again or she must move on to another.
Men, we just get sick of the pussy and want another.

Tried that a few times. One chick said no but kept watching me all night afterwards. About 2 hours after I asked, without any further discussion, we where on our way home.

Ehm... ofcourse the respect and acting nicely are genuine. What other reason would there be? If I did it to get laid, I wouldn't do it... since one of the side-effects seems to be no sex.

I didn't say being nice and respectful guarantees getting laid... in fact, I said just the opposite.

Hate to break the bubble for alot of you - when I met my fiance I was must myself - never treated her like shit - and now we are together - oh.. did I mention that shes a lesbian??

It was worth the wait. I would never go out with any girl who would say "yes" to fucking me on the first date. Shes too easy and only good for a fuck buddy. A true GF or fiance is someone you can trust that if some asshole walks up to her and says, "lets fuck".. she will laugh at him rather than consider his offer.

Not all women like the bad boy - at least those who are mature enough to realize it.

hunh?

i always try and treat women with the upmost respect. i don't want women who prefer to be treated badly by guys, those ones clearly have issues. and i disagree with angelsofporn, of course sex is something guys want but there are guys who want love and respect from a relationship as well...

well said

Yes my fiance is a lesbian - shows you that by being yourself instead of some asshole player that women who hate men can change their minds.

Testosterone to a male is like filling up the car with gasoline. You can drive a Viper but pull out the nozzle too fast and you shoot it all over the car and it wreaks.

If you want a quick fuck then be an asshole Pimp or whatever you want to call yourself to feel esteem - if you want a girlfriend that will be with you when you get the shit kicked out of you or someone better walks by - then at least have her love you for who you are.

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man my point is that if shes fucking you shes not technically a lesbian

i have a lot of respect for women, thats not what im talking about.

Being gay or lesbian isnt always about sex - she is a lesbian - but has the maturity to look beyond the outside and love the person within - we are soulmates.

I know guys who say they are gay - yet will fuck girls - they simply are looking for a hole. I dont call them gay, its more of an attitude or state of mind rather than sex.

That's not necessily true. I dated a girl once who was a complete dyke, not into men at all... I was just an odd exception. By no means was she bisexual though, as far as I know I'm the only guy she's ever been with.

Heard this last night in a movie

"A fine girl is a girl who likes to suck"

"A fine, fine girl is a girl who likes to suck and swallow"

"A fine fine fine girl is a girl who likes to suck, swallow and then takes a cab"

:ugone2far

make them laugh.

:eek7

If being gay or lesbian is not about the gender of the people you're attracted to, but is a "state of mind", what state of mind would it be exactly?

That is just mint!!! Did you animate him?

well said, Jesus

suprised they left that nugget out of the Bible

I do know if I am attracted to someone right off the bat and it's not a cheesy guy with an 18 year olds pick up lines. Just like a lot of men who like "real" girls, I like real guys. Lines do not work on me.

But I will say this, if I am around a guy and not really attracted to him, that doesn't mean that he will not become attractive to me later. Women are not visual like men, so you can grow on us!!

Whoaaaaaaaaa

In the balls guys huh ?

Nicely said:thumbsup

WTF ???????????//



"A man trapped in a woman's body"
:eek7

I noticed this right after i posted :1orglaugh
Damn funny !!!

I think maybe you are talking to the wrong women. Just be yourself, be funny, and be confident. Women love confidence in a man. But confidence != disrespect. So many people don't understand that.

Glad you asked punkworld - if you were to separate the physical from mental / emotional / (soul) then being gay is more than just sex. If anyone would be honest then at one point or another they had fantasies or tested the waters of having sex with the same sex.

Does that make you gay?? no - just horny. Same logic as if you masterbate does that mean you like touching cock therefore you gay?? No.

We are all bisexual in some way - gays or lesbians are born with more than just desire sexually for another. My fiance hates men because of their attitudes and spirit (she just doesnt like the mental / emotional differences between her and them - but because of who I am as a person she wants to be with me.

Does that make her special that she likes me (a guy) ?? or just me unique?? Not sure.

ever see that movie Chasing Amy? does it worry you that she might always be more sexually attracted to women than you?

Very true if she knows she will fuck you no matter what.

Horseshit.

The man who doesn't treat women with respect is destined to die alone.

This is true! I've had that happen too many times, and it doesn't get them in bed either! :(

And another thing is they don't respect you for respecting them! Just my :2 cents:

jDoG

Honestly being in the industry for 9 years and 43 years old, Ive pretty much seen it all and at times see anyone (male or female) as content. I was more interested in finding a soul mate rather than a fuck buddy.

I want her to explore that side of herself and when she does have a girl over, I usually let them have their fun upstairs rather than sit in. The whole thing about being a lesbian is that you dont want a man around - so why push the issue and hang around?? thats not what gets me off.

We have had 3somes before but now when we make love its more passionate and bonding then simply sex.

looks like a worm with teeth and legs