sex
 

Is sex the cornerstone of all healthy relationships? Can two people happily coexist in a romantic relationship without it being a main force? Does a periodic draught in the sex part of the relationship indicate a problem necessarily?

Sex is good.

Wether it is the cornerstone of a relationship is down to the individuals involved!

your absolutely correct.

Sex is important in a relationship to create a bond between two people. Only time it is acceptable to hold off is when one has to go off on a trip, a serious trama/accident or she has her period.

When either one fucks around on the other - then that bond is broken / trust is gone and the relationship will decay.

Despite what anyone says, you cannot separate your emotions when having an affair. you can have a relationship without sex - but you really do need the right combination of personalities to make it work. Trust !!

Sex can be a cementing factor in a good relationship. Physical closeness promotes mental and emotional closeness, however it's not always neccessary. My husband and I are in forced abstainance at the moment (doctor's orders), and we simply replace THAT closeness time with cuddling and other close activities. The MOST driving force in a relationship has to be trust.. and friendship too. You have those two things, and no matter what happens, with or without sex, your relationship will work.

But as I've said, the act of sex promotes closeness (even down to the chemical level as hormones are released during sex and orgasm that can actually promote that closeness and intimacy and strengthen love bonds), and it can be an extremely helpful factor in a relationship. Sex should never be the main force or the only reason people are together, because in all honesty, if the sex is gone, what do you really have left?

I think bad sex can break a relationship but good sex can't save a bad relationship.

For me communication and trust are the most important things in a relationship. If I am serious about someone, I would rather get to know them as a person and respect who they are before I sleep with them. That way the relationship isn't based on sex and has a better chance of lasting.

I have a high sex drive, and ive met very few men that can keep up with me.

That said, if I am in a long term relationship, I do expect sex fairly frequently. Unless there is a medical reason or physical seperation, a lack of sex is probably an indicator that something has gone wrong, or needs to be worked on.

But, sex is only one part of a relationship. If the emotional closeness and respect is not there, the relationship is not there. The trust and friendship is abosulutly essential.

i very well agree to her.

Well if you have no penis, or she just really hates having yours up inside her, then you might have to try that kind of relationship.

Good luck~ :thumbsup

Im don't have a penis

correct

when sex is good, nothing else matters! :thumbsup

Sex shouldn't make or break real committed relationship as opposed to a booty call or flings. I feel that you should know and care for someone, before you fuck em. I'm a prude though! :winkwink:

Is there really a such thing as bad sex? It can always be improved... practice makes perfect :1orglaugh But if that's the most important thing to you in a relationship, then you shouldn't be in one. If you love someone, you should enjoy their company period and not need to go outside the relationship for sex.

Some people just aren't meant to be in monogamous relationships and should do the selfless thing and not hold anyone hostage in one.