Was it something I said?! My gf is pissed at me... here is the convo
 

what the fuck? women are confusing... did I say something wrong?? convo below

girlfriend I hope yours and Mark's conversation is more exciting
Chuck: lol
Chuck: sorry
girlfriend: don't apologize
Chuck: you make it seem like its my fault
girlfriend: It isn't
girlfriend: I just already told you all of my stories I guess
Chuck: yeah, I just dont have anything else to say that you dont already know today
girlfriend: oh ok
girlfriend: I guess I will let you go
girlfriend: tell Mark to feel better
girlfriend: I will talk to you later
girlfriend: bye
Session Close : Mon Nov 17 19:09:59 2003

2 hours later:

Chuck: hi hun
girlfriend: hi
Chuck: how are you?
girlfriend: ok
girlfriend: how are you
Chuck: im good :)
girlfriend: good
Chuck: why are you just ok?
girlfriend: because you kind of hurt my feelings
Chuck: I did??
girlfriend: yes
Chuck: what did I do?
girlfriend: it doesn't matter
Chuck: because we had nothing to talk about?
girlfriend: no
Chuck: well you should tell me so it does not happen again
girlfriend: It isn't a big deal I will get over it
Chuck: I suppose



something I said or is it what I didnt say?

They pull this shit time after fucking time after fucking time over and over and over again. What's wrong? Nothing. Fine, fuck you bitch.

Dump this twat.

were you talking to mark at the same time as her? Sounds like she was wondering why you could come up with stuff to talk to mark about, but not her. Some girls are just really sensitive. If she is the kind of girl who says "It isn't a big deal I will get over it", then it will be ok. She might be having a rought day. Just move on, and don't push it.

Signed,
Dear Abby:winkwink:

:1orglaugh your aol girlfriend?

did you meet your GF in a AOL chat room??? why are you chatting with her online? Call her man or better yet, stop by and see her, cyber sex sucks

You didn't do anything wrong man. She just wants you to feel sorry for her, and kiss her ass. That's how females work.

Damn Wacko's

Take her for a happy meal

a) your name is chuck
b) u r a wannabe
c) u picked up your girlfriends at burger king
d) u work at wendies.
e) ur g/f has a beard
f) u

she goes to school about 100 miles from me during the week so talking online is cheaper then paying the long distance... been together 6 months now... we never argue.. just now the stupid stuff like this

My old one would just get really mad and not show it or say anything, then like a year after the event, she'd bring it up and not let it go.. Absolute nightmare.

:321GFY fuck her in the ass then make her suck her ass juice , that should keep her in place:thumbsup

lol no man thats ok.. we will figure this out... it cant be that big a deal. unless something else on her mind... but we are both very open with things usually. so its not common for her to not tell me whats up.

Show her this thread. That she keep her from giving you attitude.:Graucho

There are times when you need to sense the other one needs to talk and you need to learn how to do it. That goes both ways. A relationship is 50-50 and if you can't hold up your end and sometimes the others end then you need to polish up some. ;-)

girls totally get in the way of work

don't get me wrong...i give time to some special girls...i just separate my work from it...so if i am on the phone with my "friend" (i say "friend" as we broke up, but she still wants um...casual relations) i get away from my computer.

as i always pay attention to the money..and wont listen to her at all..lol

it's not a matter of not liking her less..or not wanting her

bitches want attention, you gotta give it to them.

girlfriend: It isn't a big deal I will get over it

That statement should be followed by a snake rattle, and some ominous music.

... I wish I had your problems !!!

I am calling complete and utter bullshit on this. She will lock this away and save it for a time when you least expect it. Then she will spring it back on you, reach in and rip you heart out holding it up to you face still beating and laugh at you as you die.

She is a succubus... run like the wind.

Sounds like there is a bit of the drama queen in her.


You: "let me see if I know what is wrong. was it when I said this?"
Her: "no"
You: "okay, then it must be because I did this"
her: "no"
You: "hmm.... I know I'm supposed to know what it is I did, so.... well, was it because I didn't do that?"
her: "no!!"
You: "Can't you just tell me what is bugging you then? What did I do?"
her: "it's nothing"
You: "Then why did you mention it in the first place you stupid self-absorbed little bitch? BYE"





Okay, I ad-libbed in that last part myself. :D

Here is what I think, could be 100% wrong. who knows

1) she could be jealous of you and your friend, since you talked to him longer than her?

2) she feels like you guys have nothing to talk about and your relationship is getting "stale" and that convo made her realize it?

youre leaving something out

what did you say to her that she had to respond that someone else is more exciting to you than her?

until you figure it out

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:thumbsup

Where in Webmaster 101 does it say:


You must treat all women and girls like bitches and ho's

You must keep your kewl fonzie attitude when a female wants to cuddle or talk

If your woman gets out of line slap her and make her suck her ass juice off your cock


Damn dudes, you got alot to learn if your ever going to keep a woman and stop bouncing from skeezer to skeezer.

Maybe if you guys treated a woman like a lady you might get some ass and just might find the right woman.

Just because you talk when your woman wants to talk and cuddle when she wants to cuddle doesn't make you a limp wrist fag or anything, for gods sake be a man and show a woman how you truely feel...before the right woman slips right out of your arms.

I'm guessing that this line did it...

Chuck: yeah, I just dont have anything else to say that you dont already know today


You pretty much just told ehr that there is nothing else to say to her. If a girl feels like she's boring, she'll back away and find somebody else who thinks she's exciting.

If you want to keep her, you'd better make her feel special.

lol thats the line I thought too.

we have been together 6 months now... sometimes there just is nothing to say. I was being honest. what else was I going to say? I am always the one to hold the conversations. Still would rather she tell me what is bothering her.. I hate wasting time guessing.. just be straight forward with it.

dude get vonage 39.95 mo unlimited calls =)

lol @ this bullshit. ^

Basically my friend your problem is that you are a faggot. WTF is this "Why are you only OK" bullshit?!

Dude, quit that now, she will work it and drain you of all ur masculinity. You will become her pet.

Run now.

Your pimp hand is weak my son.

Chuck: yeah, I just dont have anything else to say that you dont already know today

Hey i agree, that line was your killer! :1orglaugh

If you've got nothing to say, but are keen to keep the relationship, ya gotta learn how to dribble shit. I'm sure you can do that with Mark, why not your gf?
You'd be surprised, how it can turn into other shit and you might actually have a few more 'interesting' conversations with her.

Start paying someone out... make her feel like she's in on the joke with you,... you know, silly shit like that might help!
Ask her questions...

But that line you mentioned, was a baad move.
If you've really got nothing to say, just say your busy with work! or on the phone to your mom or something?

I like Skeezers :glugglug

Nothing you could have done ...... Lose either way.

We're in total agreement. Fuck her one last time then dump her. :thumbsup

man im fried.......and your convo with you and your gf tripped me out so hard.......like damn those girls sound a little too soft lol just a little ;) ahahha

What I want to know is why guys feel they have to put up with such bullshit from chicks?

If that were your buddy Mark pulling the estrogen trip, would you be all asking us about it? Unlikely... you'd tell him to stop being a bitch and that's that. Why should gf's be treated any different? She's fishin' for something and it's not your job to figure it out... nor is it your job to deal with that stupid shit in the meantime till she decides to come out with it.

Fuck that shit pisses me off just thinking about it...

that reminds me, i need to strengthen mine a bit.

I might be betraying all women by admitting this... but we totally do that sometimes... horrible, huh? Women are attention whores... pay attention to us and no one will get upset.

This is probably the worst venue to ask relationship advice in the world. Looks to me like she just wants some extra attention, to know she's #1 with you. Sometimes it's a pain sure, but would you really want it any other way?

Of these people talking a big game.. How many of you have girlfriends OR are attractive enough to attract other from the opposite sex?


The fact is that you big talkers talk shit about relationships because none of you can have them! A lot of you are fat asses who vegetate behind a keyboard talking shit about people with actual lives! What decent woman would want to spend any time with you? Consider each time you get laid, a blessing. If you talked like you do on this board to all women, you'd be dickless after one woman lures you in her bedroom for what you think is sex, only to have your pecker chopped off by a blade (or bit off with dull teeth).

If there is no woman around you that you'd ever consider for a relationship, then you need to find some new women to spend time with.

If you're single by choice, that's fine. I bet those guys who are single and get laid a lot, don't get laid by using the fake pimp routine. :1orglaugh

I don't see it as talking shit at all... what is wrong with expecting to be treated by your gf as you would anyone else who is your "friend"?

I've been caught in the middle of those head games before and it's a big waste of time... if a chick can't come out and say maybe at that time she's not feeling so great about herself or would just like her bf to pay a bit more attention to her at that time, then how can you honestly expect to have a normal relationship with her? Then you REALLY piss her off and the shit is really hitting the fan. By then it's too late... cuz ALLLL the shit hits the fan. All of the little things... all of the big things... and you can't have a productive conversation in that situation.

Solution? Set it straight. No head games. Yer pissed? Tell me. Not feeling "wanted"? Tell me. It's pretty simple. Can't do that? Then that's not something I want to be a part of... no matter how hot the chick is.

The reason guys are talkin' shit about this is because it happens WAY TOO OFTEN. I'm pretty sure guys would like nothing more than to not have to walk on egg shells around their gf's whenever they get it in their heads that something's up but they'd rather not talk about it.

Reg...I was not referring to you. I'm talking about the guys that refer to all women as bitches, brand any person with a girlfriend as a loser, and just assume that every woman is evil.

Girls play games sometimes, as do men. Each person is allowed to have their own thoughts on the subject, but the answer for everything is not to just quit and throw people out the window everytime they fuck up. If any relationship is worth having, you'll just have to accept the occasional fuck ups and chalk it up to an occasional annoying trait that is outweighed by the good qualities...Sex, looks, personality, etc.

I didn't mean to attack anybody. I just find it funny that so many guys are so bitter.

:1orglaugh

90% at least of the replies in this thread are from guys with no g/f i guarantee it.

why in the hell would they be posting advice here otherwise?

do both yourselves a favor, treat each other with respect, thats the key to a successful relationship :2 cents:

:ugone2far

What she heard:

"Chuck: Anything besides talking to you right now would be more interesting"
"Chuck: You're bothering me"
"Chuck: I don't (like or love) you enough to think of new things to talk to you about"
"Chuck: I don't want to spend every waking minute with you"
"Chuck: I can't multi-task"
"Chuck: Talking to you now is excruiatingly painful :Oh crap"

Personally I'd be offended if I were her too. Even if you don't have anything to say to your girlfriend, you never actually come out and say it. You save that for after you're married! lol ...But seriously, wouldn't you be a bit insulted if she said that to you? Even if you don't have anything news worthy to speak to her about... don't you know how to make small talk? Like "Ouch I just stubbed my toe" and shit like that. Not every convo has to be in depth or meaningful... I'm sure she'd be happy just hanging out, chit chatting back and forth while you do whatever you're doing. But putting limitations on conversations with her, is VERY 8th grade. If you ever married her or anyone else, what would you do if you didn't have anything else to say? "Well I don't have anything to say to you today, be back tomorrow"

WTF... Rule #1... Women are sensitive to everything. We need CONSTANT attention. Blatantly telling us you don't want to put effort into doing so, is grounds for a break up. :1orglaugh

she just has her period man...

Also, being it's a long distance relationship, she probably feels a little extra insecure because she doesn't see you as often as she would if she wasn't 100 miles away. So being she can't see what you are doing, it makes her feel comforted to get play by play details, to fill in the gaps of what she can't see or feel for herself. Even if it's petty and boring everyday life things, they can still be interesting to someone who can't see it for themselves.

It's your responsibility (if you care) to make her feel secure and wanted in the relationship. Of course, she should return the same to you... but keep in mind, long distance strain puts thoughts into people's heads they wouldn't normally have and being she's a woman, she's extra sensitive to these emotions and insecurities. :2 cents:

BTW, at this point she was expecting you to say something along the lines of "I'm sorry I said that, I didn't mean it like it sounded. I love talking to you all I can, I'm an asshole and a little cranky today, must be the weather... forgive me :)?" then at that point is when she would have told you what was bothering her, but when you said 'what did I do', that's like telling her, you don't care as much as she does.

The solution to every problem :thumbsup

RULE #1

NEVER TALK TO YOUR GF OVER THE INTERNET


RULE #2

THERE'S NO RULE #2

Exactly! Problem-solving over ICQ - forget it!

She sounds kind of shallow if you ask me. But that's just my opinion. Maybe she's upset about something else, and all kinds of smaller percieved things are making her more upset than she would normally be.