fucking bullshit moms! what would you do?!!
 

ok I am 21 still living at home but moving out by next summer. my gf and I have been together 6 months now. she goes to college during the week so has her own house 60 miles away where she goes to school with her roomates.

She works down by me and her mom lives 5 minutes from me. She comes down every friday and goes back up sunday night. so 2 nights a week or when she has no school she is down by me but living in her moms house.

Her mom has this fucking rule that she cant spend the night at my house because she is still under "my roof". My parents think its bullshit. they would love if she stayed the night and dont mind that we sleep together. its going to happen no matter what.

So do we just have to tough it out until I have my own place and she is going to move in with me or tell her mom off!? because she is 20 years old!

I think its absolute bullshit! her mom cant control her forever! Her mom told me the other day she does not like seeing us hug in front of her. WTF!? :feels-hot :mad:

she is allowing her mother to control her. why i don't know, probably always been that way but im sure the mother sees you as someone who is going to take time away from their mother daughter relationship. also im willing to bet the mom is divorced or single.

different fucking universes.

May I ask why you are still living at home?

Wellll....

she could always 'not come home' for the weekend and actually go to your house instead.

I make 1500 a month but its still not enough for me to live on my own. I make payments on my 2002 truck and my school loan I am paying off is 300 a month. cant find anything here for less then 700 a month for rent even. so I am going to be outta here by next summer because my school loans will be paid off and hopefully be making more $$

we actually play that game once in a while. does not work every weekend though. I think its bullshit that we have to

Dear abby,
im 20.... I dont really live with my parents I get about half of the house... 1 large living room, a kitchen, a storage type room and a large upstairs bedroom all seperated from my parents side of the house. I know its lame to live "with" your parents. But I never see them (unless IM leeching food) and they charge me $40 a fuckign week!!!!! I feel like a loser but damn IM saving so much fucking money. :(

I felt this was a good thread to vent my frustration. I hope you can help me abby.


Thanks,
Jesus The Savior

exactly...wtf?

If you're living with your parents for free, you follow there rules.

man I am going to be a cool parent I would not be an asshole to my kids. Not if they are responcible enough.

Exactly!

That's a nice thought... talk to me when you have a 14 year old daughter who want's to hang with a boyfriend you KNOW is a loser...

Stop living with mommy and daddy and you can do whatever the fuck you want, whenever the fuck you want. It's great. I've done it since I was 18. You couldn't pay me to live with my parents.

The 24 year old dudes that still live with their parents always crack me up. Get a fucking life and stop being a leach.

thats retarded. I throw large parties and shit, My parents are wicked cool and I get free food somtimes. I dont see any reason to tripple my expenses. They know I sell porn and produce porn. They even fucking borrowed a grand from me the other day and laughed about how it was "paris hilton money"

My parents rock.

That's fine. I'm referring to the babies who like to whine about their parents not letting them do whatever they want to do.

Thats exactly what I think. I was going through the same shit when I first dated my gf. her mom was divorced so I think her last bit of control was her daughter because she was the youngest and all the other boys had moved out. She was also asked to do a bunch of shit around the house, which I think was just because her mom did not want to do it. We finally got our own place and there was nothing her mom could do about it... which is why she was upset with us for a while. oh well

I would just say, tough it out until you can move out. sucks though.

I said responsible. and a loser boyfriend does not sound responsible to me. I was able to do what ever I wanted when I was 16 years old. all my friends were much older then me and my parents trusted me and all my friends. as long as their is an open relationship and can trust your children. let them do whatever they want within reason.

It's the words "responsible" and "within reason" that are the killers. What YOU think is responsible and within reason is NOT the same as what your child will think no matter how well you raise them or how well you trust them.

As soon as your child disagrees with whatever decision you make, he/she WILL be walking away calling you an asshole.

I'm not saying that you'll be a bad parent, or that your ideas on the subject are bad. I just think you are being a bit short sighted if you think your kids will NEVER see you as the bad guy.

her mom want your cock in her ass.

thats why she doesnt like you and your g/f hug in fron of her.

My house, my fucking rules!

I wouldn't want my 20-21 year old daughter sleeping at her boyfriend's house either. What I don't know won't hurt me... but condoning it... pfft. Never!

lmao...how old are u now? once you get past 20 you usually never mention age in 1/2's again. i'm still laughing cause it's been so long since I heard that!

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I really dont think that would ever happen in my family. the way my brothers and sisters were raised I know for a fact we never rebelled against our parents. They have always been cool as long as we had our shit together. its the way I was raised and its the way I am going to raise my kids. The more parents tell their kids not to be able to to something the more kids will rebell against them. which is why I have always had an open relationship with all of my family. I suppose if parents dont spend lots of time with their kids they will never have the kind of relationship I have with my family. I thank my parents all the time for being so helpful and just plain cool! :)

broom the bitch and move on with your life

:thumbsup that's my thought exactly,got a 3 year old daugther right now,but i'm scared shitless for the first time she comes around(i know it's gonna take a while) with some pimple faced kid and tells me this is her boyfriend.i hope she waits tilll she's 35 and i will say don't you think it's time you gonna live in your own house :helpme

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dude, WTF is that in your sig

lol none of you moms want to let go. its going to happen no matter how much you dont want it to. I dont want my kids to be a mommys boy or girl. :1orglaugh

I would need to see a pciture :Graucho

i'm the dad

LMAO!