ex girlfriend, no more sex...
 

My ex girlfriend is breaking off the sex, because she "just doesn't think it's right". I mean, considering that we're not having sex with anyone else, what's so wrong about it? It's a horrible dillemma... to have sex 24/7 for a year, and then nothing. Why can't girls put the emotions aside, and have sex for the sake of sex...

post your pic and I think the answer will be in it

Shes boning someone else...

There's something in the water in Rocklin

:thumbsup

definately

They can. They just need to be drunk so they can fuck random guys that they just met in a bar. Then they will call you the next day and tell you all about it.

This helps them feel better about the way they fucked you over after you gave them EVERYTHING.

dude

Sometimes, we don't even have to be drunk and we feel just fine.

Was it something I said?

why are you guys having sex anyway if she's your ex? i thought that was like the devastating thing about breaking up - no more hiny.

When girls do that, it usually means one thing, there's a new bone in town.

She always "felt" fine to me. Apparently other guys think so too.

Take note people...If you ever date a girl who has nothing...Don't give her anything. Keep her broke and treat her poorly if you want to keep her.

:2 cents:

I swear I am going to post a How to Get Laid manual to this board one of these days.

Why would you have sex with the same person 24/7 for a year if you didn't have any emotions involved? You are being monogamous with your ex??? I get going back for repeats, but exclusively?

Plan 1: Admit that maybe you have emotions involved. Figure out what they are.

Plan 2: Have some fun for fuck's sake. Go to a bar. Chat someone up on the internet. Buy a dog and walk it outside where girls are.

I think we need Holly in this thread.

Wow, Aaron! you sound a little bitter! sorry to hear that!

Xenigo, she's fucking someone else! I fucked my ex husband till i was crazy over someone else.

I broke up with this girl a year and half ago. She is do here any minute.

:Graucho

Yeah that's an interesting thing to consider. I guess women do get a lot of clues into how they can screw you over, if you bend over backwards to help them financially or whatnot. Basically gives them permission to walk all over you.

That's what the judge said when I put the restraining order on the psycho girl.

If she would have just taken her meds everything would have worked out just fine.

Remember the tall girl that I had with me in Dallas Ft. Worth?

Uh huh.......

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

LOL a how to get laid manual? like its hard...
go to a bar, introduce yourself. keep asking her things so she talks about herself. dance->grab her crotch... and POW! your in the game.
any questions?

girls = drama

No doubt

If you help a girl a lot financially and make it clear you don't want any emotions involved, uhm, well, if she takes your dough but doesn't really like you, what strikes you all as odd about that? You reap what you sow.

It is probably fine for me to post on gfy drunk, but I probably shouldn't do it while hungover, so please forgive me if this sounds a little too gfy, but I really don't get it.

Aaron, same girl from Montreal? You can do better, let her go

That sounds almost exactly like our relationship, she was wayy into the drama... and I just didn't need that shit.

Okay, you don't have to read it :winkwink:

well i might browse through it.... :Graucho

:1orglaugh

Yes, I can do better and I will when the time is right. :glugglug

As for letting her go...That is all but done. Time will take care of the rest.

MAN I could go for some PBS (post-breakup-sex) with some of my exes. some of my fondest pubescent memories are with exes or "friends with benefits." Mmmmm. always pushing that grey line....

Aaron, BTW, do you know this is? I don't post too much, just couldn't resist this one! Hint - Triple Swamp booty at the hardrock in LA! LOL

Well, that narrows it down but I am still not sure who you are.

It could be one of those tests that girlfriends put you through. Hang in there, bud. :glugglug

Fuck that. Bad advice.

Let it go...move the fuck on RIGHT NOW! If you sit around then it will eat away at you.

Shit, Aaron, i've known you for about a year! ok, i made friends with the bartender that made the really strong drinks at hardrock! Now, you know, i hope!

That's what I figured. My mother will never be the same after those drinks.

:1orglaugh

Well if there's no other type of relationship between you 2, it's the best to stop having sex with each other. She might want to move on to someone else and that can't (easily) happen when you're still sleeping with your ex. Sounds like she wants a full blown relationship and doesn't want to settle for just sex anymore.

Maybe sex was your way of keeping the relationship alive so she didn't find someone else?

Either way, if you guys are finished, cut the strings 100%, sexually at least. It's not fair to the next person you get involved with, if things are still lingering between you guys.

LOL!!!!! yeah, those drinks kicked everybodys ass! you saw what happened to grims face that night!? and gigachris.....too funny! Thank you for the dinner that night too. I had a blast!

well said, treat girls like dirt and they will stick like mud

I have yet to see Grim be TRUELY affected by the alcohol... everytime I see him the guy keeps on chuggin, and never skips a beat. That guy can drink forever...

:1orglaugh
hahaha- someone just ICQ'd me a link to this thread. I was reading it thinking, "now what in the hell does this have to do with me??"

Unfortunately, I don't think I can be of much help here, either. The "sleeping with the ex" deal is something I have NEVER understood. Once I'm through with you and it's over, then that's it. I ain't never gonna sleep with your ass again. I'll be friends with you and even hang out sometimes, but the sex is o-v-e-r.

I got divorced at the beginning of this year and my ex and I get along really well now, but I haven't slept with him once since the day he moved out, and I never, ever will again. I went over to his place last Thursday cause he was having trouble getting his dsl going on a new computer he bought. I had on tennis shorts and a long shirt and the whole time he kept trying to raise my shirt up in the back and look at my ass. He also asked me about a 100 times if I wanted to just spend the night. I think it's just hard wired into men.

IMHO, it's one of two things-
1. She's tired of being your fuck buddy and she's trying to drop a hint that she wants to get back together and have a relationship again.

2. She's found someone else she wants to fuck.

Yup, dump her ass, something is up. IF she isn't in someone elses pants then something else is about to bite you in the nads!

Run, do not walk away!


FUCK THAT!

Dude we outta hang out, I like your attitude. Sounds like we could raise some hell if you ever up in Oregon.

I had one JUST like that.

She got the whole... "But I'm sooooooooo happy with you now! I don't need these shitty pills anymore!! :) :) :)"

I feel for you man. Really.


Next time some medgirl I'm dating gets an epiphany like that I'm going to run for the fuggin hills before it's too late.

lol yea we want pics...

agreed, and please stop calling her, the ringing gets annoying
:Graucho

get freaky on her one night when she is drunk, put that tongue and fingers where its never been b4.

she will have a smile on for life.

to much info want details

mmmm.
yaaaa.
o ya.

The tongue has already been everywhere it's gonna go... and my tongue doesn't touch the dirt hole, that's for sure.