I swear porn desensitizes you...
 

I was at the strip club last night with a bunch of friends. We were bar hopping.

Anyways... I'm sitting there litterally falling asleep even as the music is blaring and we are all talking to each other. I had no interest in the strippers - was actually more into watching the sports recaps.
I'm serious, if I laid my head down I could have fell asleep in the bar.

But then we went and played some pool and fooseball.

It also could have been that the strippers were no good. I mean my girlfriends are far more attractive and desireable.

Still I think that after looking at so much porn it tends to numb you to lots of things.

So true. Even more when you are producing it.

But after sometimes, it's back again :Graucho

that's funny you'd mention that.

i used to be a doorman at a local strip club and i went in last night to say hi to my old friends.

as i was sitting there looking at the strippers i commented to my old boss that even though i look at pussy all day i still can't get enough.

:thumbsup

I love midget vampires as much today as I did back in 1923

I agree, just not the same after you done this for a number of years.

I still LoVe porn - but more like a husband LoVes his wife. Im no longer in the honeymooning.

Yes, porn definitely desensitizes you, BUT there's one big difference. Porn can't rub it's tits and ass on your cock.

I have to agree also, we were out in South Beach some time ago .... and walked by a crowd of shemales and everyone was stopping to look and I was "nothing to see here, move along people".

You are absolutely right. I went to a club a while ago with some buddies. One of them said "that blonde girl is so hot, you gotta look." I turned, looked and commented on how her nipples were uneven but the she had a great ass-profile. I've been at this too long.

Well, to me, strippers arent that exoting and arousing anyways. I would much rather sit and talk with the girls or guys than pay them to grind on me.

Same thing with porn, it has to have a personality to turn me on. I would rather watch a girl that is actually enjoying herself than someone thats doing it for the money.

so, porn hasnt desensitized me, just made me more picky in what I like.

Stacy,

very good point, I'd have to agree

Whenever I go to the clubs I end up getting in serious conversations with strippers and become their new best friend.

The best part about going to the strippers is watching the 18 year olds that have never been there before. They don't take their eyes off the stage. Funny stuff.:)

I notice how when I pass people in public now I tend to categorize them according to niche. I know other friends in the biz have said this as well. It definately alters your perception of things.:2 cents:

i'm glad to hear i'm not the only one who does that :)

That's funny you say that because I do that without really noticing it. I just clued in I do that now.

Pretty funny.

Actually better than the 18 year old newbies, are the 27 year old unshaved dirty/scummy guys who come in, don't order anything - watch a dance or 2 and leave. But the whole time rubbing one out with his hand in his pocket.

Yep.

All too true!

Amen :thumbsup

At least not yet... :Graucho

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There's supposedly a stripper in sacramento somewhere that will guarantee you cum in your shorts for $50...I'm still looking for her.

i am definitely desensitized to porn, it's like I admire the girls in photos and some videos but it doesn't even make me want to waste the energy to wack off.

but a real chick, thankfully no problem there.

i always wonder about my friends who are married, alot of the wives have let themselves go or have hit the wall, busy with kids and stuff - i never ask them about it but i just don't see how they can get it up for these girls any more after being married 10 years.

$50? Must be a handjob. I haven't had a "legit" lap dance arouse me to the point of cumming before.

leave my Mom out of this thread, HOAX! :feels-hot

I agree with you ...
I am definitely desensitized to the more extreme stuff.

Good evening all.

When you can not get it up for real pussy, then you have a problem. Chances are you were being teased at the strip club and could not handle it, so went to bed. Subconsciously of course.

I agree too.....I've been desensitized to porn because I look at it 8 hours a day at work.

But there's still some that gets my attention. :)

This post shows your age and inexperience.
I have the best sex now at age 40 then I ever had as a younger man. And many men say the same.

Porn or no porn. Strippers don't give a fuck about you. It's just a fantasy. They want the $$$ and that's always been a turn off for me. I don't understand people who spend cash for lap dancing, even if you can touch her, it's so fucking "fake" that I don't understand what's so cool about this. I'd rather pay an escort (it's still the same concept, she does not give a damn about you) but at least you get results.

Yes - your "personal orgasm" picture would still arouse most.

Strippers don't really turn me on.
I don't like the pushiness and hard-sell.

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Foosball on the other hand is a fast paced chess match.
Any woman with a lighting fast kick shot....:Graucho

Is that Ichii the killer in your sig?:thumbsup

Ive the problem of going to strip clubs and I end up just looking their faces!

I went to a mate's 18th one night at a strip club and this girl was giving me a show and she says stops and laughs and says to me "Why are you looking at my face when I have my pussy an inch from your nose?"

Simple, I cant touch, and from my pov her face was the best part about her, heh.

Yeah, we all know what gets you going. Now shut the fuck up.

Last warning ...
the next time you post your OFF TOPIC dribble in a thread I am chatting in ... you will bump the thread titled "SexEducation.com" ...
is that fucking clear to you ?

There are some lap dances in Florida that give a continuous crotch-to-crotch grind for pretty much the whole time while rubbing tits in your face and doing faux-kisses and such... I can see that getting you to cream your jeans under the right circumstances.

Barring that kind of physical contact though, I definitely see the jaded desensitizing factor... sucks, huh?

Are you threathening me again?

:Graucho

Where did Kakihara go? :helpme

Yea, .. no... I don't really notice that happening too much at all. :winkwink:

Oh fuck. You think like I do :thumbsup

This is very very true! :(

jDoG

yes.

I just saw Audition also by Miike.

a love story where a lonely widower finds love and fellowship in a shy actress with troubled past.
then begins the horror.

check it out.
:thumbsup

I am desensitized in a way, that porn used to make me blush... now, it's just work and content to me. It never turned me on (girls at least) like it does for guys, but now it REALLY doesn't :1orglaugh

I think it has desensitized men who work with it, because now they expect and want ALL women to look like porn content or softcore models. I've seen so many male webmasters, criticizing women that look great. I know there are some men that like normal women, but for those of you that compare women to porn stars with 10 lbs of makeup and boobs out to Venus ... :321GFY

blah blah.. squeek.. chirp.. yadda yadda.

you especially :BangBang:

You shuolda been there thinking...

now how can I make money off these strippers without them making money off me...

;)

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I know the feeling, but...

The sorority chicks were playing powder puff football today, and one of the chicks got her pants ripped off while the other girl was going for a flag. Let me just say that the accidental depantsing to a girl with no panties on still pushes the ol' shock buttons! :Graucho

Fiddy!!!!!!