Is going to a strip joint considered cheating
 

Ok I just got busted. I don't know how the fuck she figured it out, especially considering she is about 3000 miles away, but she knew I was there.

Can this be considered cheating?

She is very pissed about it.

Sometimes I go to those fucking places just to think.

Really.

:(

Fuck noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

SCORES NYC rulessss

Maybe not to us. I do feel a little guilty so maybe even to me.

But what do the girls think?

Is watching people eat cheating on your diet?

where-abouts in CO do you live?

oh and yes.. :)

Zipcode rule in effect.

hell no it is not cheating, and any chick that thinks it is should be dropped immediately. Not worth the trouble at all

Put it this way, if the bitch thought it was cheating, you'd be better off with another bitch... :2 cents:

Unless the stripers were sucking on your weiner, it's not cheating.

Touching above the waist is ok too, below is pushing it.

This is the code!

And besides, she was in a different area code then you... Does not count.

This is the code!

In the Longmont area, are you in Colorado?

Definitely not

SCORESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Yeah I live in Arvada :thumbsup

Yea, fuck her. I wan not cheating. Damn crazy bitches want to run our whole lives. Fuck our heads and suck us dry...

damn bitches.

LOL what? I feel like my IQ just dropped reading that. :1orglaugh

Yeah, my gf always gives me a hassle when she finds out I've been to a strip club too..........:ak47:

I worked at Scores for 5 years before moving out west. I was DJ and I did sound and lighting there

OK. We know that girls give us hassles but why? We can go to a strip club and not even touch a girl. Like I might go there just to think. And after seeing all these stupid sluts miss my girlfriend a whole lot. Why can't these girls understand that?

tell her you just wanted to go out with the guys. this is a test, dont tell her you wont go again or she will realize she has you by the balls. why are you going out with a girl so far away anyways?

I told her.
Bhahahahaha :1orglaugh

Did you lie and tell your woman you don't go to strip clubs? If so that might be cheating a little. Women need to understand we are only mere mortal men...

Seriously, you have to get certain inalienable rights cleared right now or you are pussy whipped and/or miserable for the remainder of the relationship. :2 cents:

Would you mind if your girlfriend got off on a male strip show? Other than that I suppose the question is considered by whom.

I think if you just go and watch the girls strip it's ok and not cheating. If you get a lapdance I think it's crossing the line. My ex went to a strip club and got lap dances, he told me the dancers grabbed his dick through his pants and bit it too through his jeans. He claims it's not cheating because it's not intercourse. Either way, he still lied and claimed he never went because he knew I would get mad, but he went twice. He's a fucken liar and lame so I left him.

You divorced your husband because he went to a strip bar? :zzwhip

EX-boyfriend, not husband .

FInd a girl who will go to the clubs with you! My girl goes whenever me and the boys go and she's staring a lot harder than I am!

I guess if you go without her knowing, or get a lapdance, that might cross the lines a little bit. Relationships are about communicating, but if she can't trust you, it's not worth the trouble!

I think we've had this thread before.. it's bound to go on for a whlie...... :glugglug

Of course I wouldn't mind going with my ex bf , but he didn't even WANT me to come along. He said it's "retarded" and "gay"
to bring your gf to a strip club, it's supposed to be a "boys night only". And then he lied about going too. He's an asshole.

I would have gone in an instant if he would want me to come along, but apparently I would "spoil his fun" so he can go fuck himself.

Anyways, Sobe asked how females feel about this. Well, I am female and I don't like it. I would not like it at all if my guy got a lapdance and got his dick grinded by someone else. I've talked about this a lot with my friend's and they don't like it either. Basically it comes down to the fact that if you know your significant other is not comfortable with it, you should be considerate towards her feelings if you care about her.

My ex bf knew I didn't like it but he went anyways, he only cares about himself and no one else, I am so glad I'm not with him anymore.

if you do something you don't tell your partner about, it's bullshit, cheating or not. guys always complain about getting caught, but you can't get caught if you only do things you're honest about.

it's only cheating if your relationship is designed that way.

if my fiance went to a strip club, i'd feel it's cheating. on the other hand, he didn't go to strip clubs, look at porn or have nude mags before we were together, so it'd change my view of who he is, too. in other relationships in other parts of my life, it was fine - but then, i used to manage a strip club *LOL* at one point, my bf was our doorman - he pretty much HAD to go to strip clubs (or at least that one) *grin*

if going to strip clubs in important to you, find a woman who doesn't mind. or do what a friend of my fiance's at work does - he found a woman who loves going to strip clubs and they go together - and have been for over 20 years.

the part that mystifies me is the number of men who lie to girls when they meet them about going to stip clubs and are then dissatisfied when they end up with girls who don't think it's okay. to thine own self, be true - and to anyone you want to spend lots of time with, be true, also.

as far as lap dances, someone rubbing your dick whether you're dressed or not probably counts as cheating. how would you feel if your gf went around having men rub their dicks against her pussy? if you're both cool with those activities, it isn't cheating, but not many men OR women think this is a two-way street.

After reading what the girls have to say I feel really shitty now. I am such a dope. I did not get a friction dance, I was there for only about 20 min when I got bored and left. But it was not cool at all to do to her. Why do I have a girlfriend that is so far away? I suppose I am lucky that I can. I mean with my biz being connected to the Internet I can actually work from anywhere that has a internet connection. And this girl is just so loving and beautiful. I am a little whipped but she is great. But buidling trust was so hard and difficult and a fragile thing. Getting busted going to a stip club and then lieing about it really shattered that fragile trust. What do I do now? Maybe just let it end. I was really not crazy about going over seas all the time to see her. I need to forget. But that does not change the way I feel about shattering that trust I worked so hard to build. Oh well.

Yeah, I also go to strip joints just to think...ABOUT TITS!

No, why would that be cheating? Unless you're fucking the stripper, it isn't anything. I would let my wife go to strip clubs, if I had one, and she damn well better let me... :Graucho

jDoG

okay don't be a little princess for your woman
smack her the fuck up and say hey, lose a few pounds put a pole in the middle of our room and dance for me with erotic music on.. oh you don't want to? well shut the hell up before i smack you and you find your belongings on the front lawn.. get the fuck out of my face and make me some dinner.. if I find one bit of spit in it, you're getting your throat sliced and buried half alive you prostitute

You shoot fucking porn for a living, whats with the BS thread?

OK,,,, troubled childhood perhaps or just a big sence of humor??

I seriously doubt your Golden Retriever will care if you go to a strip club. Unless there's poodles in there, or something.

I don't care if my husband goes to clubs, hell I usually send him out to collect on our (website) accounts. I do draw the line at lap or private dances, and he agrees. He also says it's not as fun going when your wife tells you to go :1orglaugh , but all of his friends think I'm cool as hell.

I think your view on it has alot to do with your age, how old you were when you got married, etc.

Tell her to fuck off.

he's a fucking drama queen :2 cents:

hahaha Sobe,
My girlfriend goes with me to the strip clubs to recruit girls to come home and fuck both of us...if they're good, we let them film for some of our projects.

Get a girlfriend that recruits instead of bitches.