The Definitive Gary Thread
 

Gary...



you know him. You loved him. He got banned. I went to bat for him and put on a dress in a big public GFY way.

Indeed.

Huh?

Stop crying.

That Gary.

I cultivated a friend/business relationship with him for two years. Emphasis on the slash. Recent events have taken me aback. I don't know Silvertab or Tom ( va2k ) that well, but I have MET Tom.... and I know he is a good man. I've done extensive work with Silvertab, and I know he is a good man.

So after two years, Gary burns it all down overnight, rips Silver and Tom, and who knows who else... and I am left in the fucking dark.

This is a man I confered with on a VERY personal level. Daily life type shit. And not so much as a fucking goodbye when he decided to exit.

I take offense to that. Fuck the business level.... the personal level should've been enough to at least give me a heads up or something.


Gary.... you may have jacked Tom, Silver, and who knows who else.... but you fucking owe me an explanation out of sheer courtesy.





I invite you to contact me privately and at least say goodbye.... or by all that is fucking holy, I will air out the last two years right here on GFY.



Your call bud. You've been served notice. Which is more than you fucking gave me.

UM
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This can get interesting

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This won't get interesting if gary don't answer

Its to late for this.

I am campin out in Plane Of Knowledge now.

wtf?

your pised he didnt say goodbye to you?

granted i skipped entire boring post and went right to last sentance ....

Watch out a cross piss!

Gary hates not much more than posting of ICQ logs.... I will post them.... for the last two years. Some of them wil severely damage me in the process..... but I take this shit very personally. I gave this man my private life. My darkest secrets... concerns.... ambitions....



and I got fuckall when he jetted. I want a fucking answer, or I will air it all.

probably not a good idea to say the wrong fucking thing right now dipshit.

man, damn shame it all went down like that.

never met gary in person.

but I did speak to him on icq back when he first opened his celeb site. he was real helpful, and seemed like a really cool guy.

but from what I had seen on this board, it did seem like he and amp were pretty good buddies, things always looked tight.

sorry it had to be that way amp.

sometimes things get so bad people do bad things out of sheer desperation and then after the fact realize how big a fuck up that was.

been there done that, as I'm sure alot of us have.

not making excuses for him...he violated trust and that violation will be dealt with by this community as a whole.

however, my point was that out of shame and embarassment he may never ever show his face here again.

and with this crowd...LOL can't say that I blame him.

not too many of the forgive and forget types here...even if he magically paid everything back and corrected all the legal issues over night.

I'm not sure, but if memory recalls... I think Labret, and Sly got jacked in the process too...





yeah... I want a fucking response Gary. Private or public. Doesn't matter. And if I find out someone is hiding you, I'm on full war mode.

The drama meter is going to need a break next week.

I will start releasing pieces of the puzzle soon enough..... and in equal increments throughout the last two years until I hear something from Gary.

oh yeah.... she's gonna be big.

LOL don't think it'll get one.

too much stressing out going on right now.

this summer has been one fucked up motherfucking bitch. with processing, acacia, obscenity cases, threats of obscenity cases, every day I wake up I hate to load up gfy in the ol' browser.
It always seems that the "other shoe dropped," and lately I'm beginning to wonder how many fucking feet we have.

you can stop this Gary....

I mistakenly expectd it out of fucking courtesy..... but obviously that's not coming. So we'll do this the Amp way.

This can get interesting, just proves to never betray someone who you share respect with, and who you let into your personal life

quit pointing fingers...it was only a one night stand...get over it already.

I wanna give Gary a chance to at least see the thread.... not a chance to come clean, because he's already had that and then some.... but a chance to fucking explain to me what the fuck.


I earned that much.



And if not.... I have no more reservations about spilling it. You don't care about yourself, why should I.

I know you're reading this shit dude.....

I bet you never imagined it'd end up here. I never did. But here we are. Contact me and give me something.....


or I'm going H-bomb on your ass.

gary thinks I'm bluffing right now...

he knows me.... I know him....



I am not bluffing dude. I will burn myself down in the process if need be. You fucking know that. That's the kinda guy I am. And if you think this is the end of it... you're fucking wrong. I will fucking find you bitch. You know me better than to play bluffing games with me.


I've given you time.... I've given you leads.... I've given you outs. You owe me a fucking answer. Or I'm going to come and fucking get it.

is Gary even online anymore?

i would bet money he won't respond to this thread, at least publicly. the whole thing is a shame. i always liked the guy...

I don't know what happened to Gary.
I have known more than one person to loose all sense of ethics and business morals, when their world starts to crumble around them.

Financial stress, ie a hi- flyer that is suddenly bankrupt, can make a person do things they would never normally do. Lie, steal, write bad checks, hide from their old friends etc. Ive seen it happen in the corporate world, maybe something similar happened here.

How I met Gary:


Gary messaged me.... gave me a story, that will ultimately tie in with more recent drama, about how he wanted a site for celebs. Nothing revolutionary..... just a celeb site. He had originally asked HUNGRYMAN..... he turned him down because he didn't wanna touch the celeb thing. So as both Gary and I came to GFY at around the same time.... he knew of me, and hit me up for the job. I said sure, and designed Celeb Revue.... the paysite as well as the E-Zines....

the relationship grew from this point.

...to be continued...

One of my mentors in life has always told me "Business is business". Your wife ran off with another guy? Your kid got hit by a car? Your mom od'd on heroin? If you have business responsibilites - too bad - business is business. Maybe it's stupid, but for me it gives me a sense of "centeredness" knowing that no matter what I have obligations and expectations to live up to.

Yes, when people have employees to pay and obligations to meet and there is no money in the bank, youd be surprised what can happen.

Ahhh glasshoppah... you assume much at your young age... such as the scam he pulled on HOW many on ebay??

First to lose HIS ebay account?
Second (no doubt) to lose his so called wifes account?
(different names there so bet me there were two accounts)
Third to use Silvertabs account and F it over?
Fourth to use Toms account and REALLY F him over...?
Fifth to use others faked email accounts to lie to those scammed?
Sixth to lie to those he was scamming by saying it will all be taken care of and was IN process of that...


You also assume he will surface with the RCMP's hopefully looking for him by this time? I know there are US cops that would like to see him up close and personal.

You assume he gives TWO sh*ts about HIS rep? It's gone. He knows that. So he will scam yet another if/when you post those histories.

So by all means, let's read. Nothing like reading how a scammer works his marks. It's a learning experience to say the least. :winkwink:

Yep, we ALL have messed up... but his track record when it's examined wasn't a mess up, it looks more like a planned misadventure. Big Jaques hopefully teach him the errors in his ways for 5 - 10.

The whole Gary drama is a big shame. I never talked to him on ICQ or anything, but he was a great laugh on the boards. It's a shame.

It's sad to witness someones fall. A lot of people have been burned by what he did. It's a real shame...

To Amp. I know what you're doing is only trying to get an explanation from Gary but I do not think its worth posting the ICQ shit. Like you said it could hurt you........

Is he really worth it? He's done some bad things. Don't fuck up yourself for him.....

Y0 AMP wazup bro? Hey let it die don't go hurtting yourself over him or anyone here for that fact... IT's no big deal anymore well it is to me at least!! He and Tracy will get whats comming to them, if they allready havent, SHEMP I couldn't agree with you more sir, That is why I havent really brought it back up, another reason it was my fault for being to stupid and letting anyone talk me into something like this, it was a boo boo on my part and cost me lots of $$ which it is still costing me to this day!

IF this don't sink me totaly then it will make me stronger and maybe I CAN KILL THE BLACK CLOUD that has been hanging over me since 2000 *shrugs*

TOM

umm.. where the fuck have i been? i didnt know gary got banned, i didnt know he fuct anyone over... as far as i was concerned he was one of the funniest bastards on this board IMO.... crazy shit goin down in my perpetual mental absensce...

stop crying.

The thing that totally slays me is I met Gary, and I would have trusted him too.. What happened to Tom and the others wasn't "Stupidity", it's not like Gary was some fly-by-night newbie. Everyone KNEW him. For YEARS. He had a GOOD REPUTATION. He has kids, he has a family.. Those are generally not the kind of guys who will burn their bridges for a few thousand dollars. He took advantage of everyone.. and it was a disgusting thing to do. And not only did people like Tom get fucked in a way that's severely affecting them, and people like Labret had to help clean up the mess, but Amp and others who called Gary friend are left to stand and gape and wonder. The least Gary could do is give an explaination to someone. Not saying anything at all is far worse, no matter how bad what he's already done is. Ahh well best of luck to Amp, and my eternal best wishes to Tom. I have faith in you Tom, I know you can get past your trouble. I'm there for either of you.

Oh the drama :waaaaahh

Lot's of :glugglug again, huh?