Women-can they be pleased
 

My brother is goal oriented. He has an Associate Degree...a Bachelor Degree...will have his Master Degree...come December...he accomplished this while holding down a full time job at a Casino. He currently works at a college...is their main computer guru...will be teaching a course 3 hours per week on top of his current duties...will be completing his masters and will be opening a LAN Gaming business in a couple of weeks and working there Friday through Sunday.

He does not have any vices...by that I mean that he does not smoke...never has...does not use drugs...never has...he does not drink...he quit drinking after he left the service...where he spent three years in the Army and five years in the Marines...he does not gamble...he has not womanized since he has been with his wife. He seldom curses...does not beat his wife...is always excrutiatingly punctual.

They have a nice home in a nice nieghborhood...with a view...reasonably new automobiles...all of the lastest household gadgets etc.

He puts money into mutual funds...and has it planned so that he will be worth one million dollars from that alone (in todays dollars) by the time he is 55. In other words he is allowing for projected inflation.

You would think that his wife would be content. Wrong...she is starting to become a thorn in his side. I think her major complaint is that he does not socialize enough and he doesn't. He is goal oriented and does not like to spend time socializing. She likes to be seen and known...put on the airs...and in this he does not have an interest.

He takes her out for dinner or movie at least once a week...they go on a weekend get away at least once a month...but this does not seem to be enough for her.

From what he is telling me...it is becoming a major problem. He does not want to lose her, but he told me that he is not going to change...that he has a game plan...and if he cannot stick to his game plan and basically be who and what he is...he said that he could live with losing her.

Women...can they be pleased.

the above quote is about as far into this as i got

too
fucking
long.

They'll always cheat on you and never stay with you unless you slap them around a little bit everyonce in a while and make them live with a little fear.

women you can't live with them...and you can't keep them from fucking your friends.

Dito. The answer to the thread is "Yes, send her over"

same here, so for an answer to your topic if you got the cash
they can be pleased

ADD huh?

Classic.

I have the exact same problem. I explained to my wife (we're separated) that I can't take her to Wisconsin camping all the time, as much as I'd like, or the weeklong birthday bashes her family likes to throw. Sometimes I have to work a weekend, and that's just what it takes if I want to move ahead.

Is this the reason your are separated?

There are a few reasons but mostly I moved out because I wasn't able to work in that environment. I could've rented office space but there are other issues also. She hates my being involved with porn and the long hours self-employment means, but currently this is my bread and butter and far better than anything else out there for my skillset, since she also wants me to make more money always.

yes if you have big :2 cents:

Very true. We need to be beaten fairly regularly if we're to be kept in line. If you'll just start backhanding us right from the first date, you won't have a lot of these problems. We're all whores. We can't help it.

Well I know of several women that turned out to be whores...they were all my wives. I was married three times when I was in the Army...which meant that I was away more than I was there. I had a policy...when I pay...and I am away...and you play...then you don't stay...and all three played...so I kicked them to the curb.

She wants to socialize ?

LOL, she's a damn slut i tell ya :ak47:

:)

You're a smart woman to agree with me. :winkwink:

Thanks. But just to be on the safe side, you should probably go ahead and slap me anyway.

No they can not be pleased.

thanks everyone, if i wasn't feeling shit about my relationship before i read all you crap, well now i might as well top myself.

What can i say, happiness with an individual is short lived, so while you are happy make the most of it because 99.9% chance it wont last!

Well, let's hear your sob story.

It seems some of you need lessons on how to pick the women you date or marry.

My first marriage was fine, over ten years we just grew in different directions and in the end agreed to part.

My second was a mistake, I had just lost my father in bad circumstances and needed someone, the woman I was living with was the nearest thing. :( Parted friends, still get birthday and Xmas cards.

The present relationship is the best, for no other reason than she's a fantastic woman I don't deserve. As theking keeps teling me "Content" is not his cup of tea.

Eva was a model, she has made me the happiest I've ever been, rich, successful, never looked at another guy (Can't say the same for girls though :) ) Is currently sitting by my side working hard and made the best home and daughter anyone could ask for. And she's a good cook and great lay.

Did he not know she was like this before they got married? Did she pretend to be a homebody before?

I never understand wy people think someone is going to change after marriage.

Fuck them good and will be VERY pleased.. trust me ;)

They lived together for around three years...she knew exactly what he was like because he was working full time...going to school full time...and was on call at the casino 24/7. So she knew that he was somewhat of a work-a-holic.

To anwser your question it was not a problem for her prior to the marriage. They have now been married for around three years and it has been a growing problem for her...and of course a problem for my brother.

She not only wants to be seen and heard (socialize) but wants the material things that many want but do not need. For example she has been bugging him to buy her a new car. He bought her a year old car about five years ago. It was like new...only had 12,000 miles on it when he bought it. It has been well maintained...still looks like new...runs like new...only has about 70,000 miles on it now...and my brother...though he could afford to buy her a new car...being the practical person that he is will not buy her a new car. Some of her friends are driving new cars so she thinks that she should have a new car.

They bought a home when they got married and bought new furniture...so the furniture is only three years old and to me still looks like new...but she is bugging him for a new living room outfit...and once again though he could afford to buy new furniture...he being a practical person will not because there is absolutely nothing wrong with their current furniture. Her mother bought all new furniture about six months ago...so she thinks she should have new furniture. She is into keeping up with the "Jones" and my brother could care less about the "Jones".

Prior to the marriage she seemed to be as practical as he.

not for a long time...trust me

Then what will please them after that phase ?!

Hmm...you are on your third...I went through three...so when your current marriage goes south you will be even with me.