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Ok. This chick (I'll call her Mary) that I know was trying to call me a couple nights ago. My phone was turned off. I go online and see the messages she left on icq. Supposedly she wanted me to go out to her place and fuck her AND her best friend. I told her I wouldn't have done it because I don't know her friend at all and that I would feel horrible using Mary for sex like that even though I do have an urge to fuck the box right off her alot. The thing is, she just wants to be friends. That's fine. I have a gf anyways, and wanting to fuck her is just my hormones acting up, and yes I do like the girl even though I am in a relationship, but that is another fucked up story for another fucked up thread. So everything's cool, she was just horny and wanted loving, no problem at all with that right?


So my gf and I are talking today and she wants to have a 3some. She wants to bring another guy into the bedroom to experiment. So of course I say "Only if I can bring home a hot chick to fuck with you some night" sound slike a fair trade I guess, making me watch some guy pounding my gf's pussy is not my idea of fun. But if it makes her happy then I won't complain. So we start talkign about if I brought a chick home to take to bed with us and she gets all turned on and fucks my brains out. Naile dme right to the wall.

After more talking we agreed to give it a try. Why not. So I mention Mary to her. I tell her all about her. Then I talked to Mary this evening about it and she doesn't want to do it. Then right before she went to bed and loggged off she says something like "We'll see about that 3some" as if to say she is thinking about it. SUposedly she was worried I want her to eat my gf's pussy. She insn't into that but does like groping and other stuff.

So I went from being against 3somes to totaly wanting one now. If this does happen, I... erm,, well/ I think I'll lose my mind temporarily. Two EXTREMELY horny women, one very open minded toy chest weilding 18 year old native who hasen't had sex in 4 months and one who is in her 30 year prime. I'm fucked... literaly.... I don't know what happened to my gf but she never used to be like this, now she fantasizes and wants 3 cocks filling her holes.. and is ok with another girl in on it.


Who has been in situations like this? FIll me in on what to expect and what lines NOT to cross as to not hurt either of them. My gf and I already defined lines,.... just no kissing and wear condoms, that's it. I don;t pass that and I am fine :). ..... but I know what is said is not always the case. One rule I have heard alot is to never blow your load in the other girl..


FIll me in guys and girls. Is this trouble or worth the full night of loving?
If anyone hasent had a 3some, don't bother flamming me

I have this urge to say, "and then you woke up," but I will resist.

I guess I wouldn't be the right person to advise you on this, anyway. I passed up the only chance I ever had for a threesome and I've been feeling stupid about it ever since. Going on 10 years, now.

SpaceAce

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I got as far as the part about her name was Mary.

I keep thinking I am dreaming, but I'm not....

It will completly change the course of your relationship if you do this.

Notice I did not say for the better of the worse, thats kinda up to where your head is at and what you view's are on alot of different subjects. No easy answer...

If your young and experimental and if the loss of this relationship is something you can deal with. I say go for it.. The experimentation outweights the risks..

If your in a totaly 100% serious relationship and loosing this one would hurt you more than you can immagine, your a damn fool for even bringing it up...

I expect though that the truth is in the first one, so you might as well go for it

shag them both!:winkwink:

I have been on the end of a few 3somes. I always lay back and let my girl start it , The very first time me , my girl and a friend of hers was sitting in the hot tub. I was feeling them both up and kept looking at my girl cause we had discussed doing 3somes before. The other girl had no idea. So finally my girl went and took a shower with the girl and I heard all kinds of moaning. When they came out they , I was waiting in bed for them both and we just went from there. I figured it is best for them to come to you rather than you saying the wrong thing and killing it forever .
P.S. Once you do this every time you say Mary's name your girl may get jealous thinking you want her more than your girl.:Graucho

if you wanna have 3somes or whatever - make sure you have even just ONE thing that always remains a "sacred" between you and your partner

with my ex it was anal - i'd only do anal with him
now with my hubby its kissing - i wouldnt kiss any other guys - he wouldnt kiss any other chick (but its okay for me to kiss girls)

its always nice to have something that is just for the two of you.

Good idea.I totally agree.:Graucho

Don't do it, simple as that. I've been in situations like this and it isn't too good for your relationship.

Q.

sometimes it makes the relationship stonger too.

its hard to tell - and it depends on the mind set of the peopel involved

also hers a good word of advice

if you want to have a 3some and are just starting out
DONT have a 3some with any of your friends

go find a chick in a club or hire an escort or find her some other way
because if you DO get a friend in on the act

it can end up really messy if one of you freaks out after.

Like if your GF suddenyly discovers she's the real jealous type she'll get all suspicious on your ass everytime you go out , she'll be thing your off to see Mary
it WILL fuck your relationship

but if you pick up some chick you dunno - you wont get that issue
it keeps it all a LOT simpler

if you REALLY want to fuck Mary - do it on your own time:2 cents:

Lots of good advice. Thanks. Friends of ours are definately out of the question. Definately. AS for possibility of ruining the relationship... it can't get any worse. We are having rough times. We never see each other, my work schedual and hers don;t mix and she is very lonely. If we did split over it we agreed to stay friends. We made an LONG ago. We were friends for years before we even shacked up together. We have split a bunch of times in the past but we still remained friends and confided in each other. This whole 3some ordeal was mostly her idea so I'm guessing she is hoping it will bring us closer as she has said it just may.

As for the thing with "Mary" I doubt it would ever happen. I care too much about her to get her into somehting like this even though she tried to get me into a similar situation. I just wouldn't want to ruin a friendship her and I are building. My gf and I already have a strong enough relationship as far as friends go that it would not ruin it. She actualy got turned on when I was talkign about "Mary" without getting jealous. WHich amazes me, cause she gets jealous when I talk to girls on icq... even 45 year old married women who live 3k miles away lol. But now that we talked about 3somes, her jealousy went right out the window.

My gf and I agreed to keep certain things sacred to ourselves, kissing and emptying my tube steak into her only. I can fuck, get head, etc etc but can't let it all go off in another girl.

For me this thread looks like "kiddie 2000". If I have a girlfriend I whould'nt want any other girl..

btw, I talking girlfriend/boyfriend..so if I am single I maybe do a 3some..


maybe..
http://www.ellaslesbians.com/forgfyers.mp3

stop crying..:winkwink:

btw, think before you go for 3somes, 4somes..but I don't know you, you may take it good..I think you must be very strong if you are going for a threesome with a woman you love and still keep yourself on track and feel good afterwards.

:glugglug

I have been in 3some / 4somes and I have to say that they are the most wild, outrageous and all out wonderful ways to spend an evening.

The rules are really things that just get in the way, you have to remember that you are there to have sex, not play baseball.

Sometimes doing the forbidden things really does raise the kink level a few notches above what you have done. There arent many times in most of our lives that you can pull this off. I say go for the gold.

Your relationship has to already be strong to survive this as well as many other things that life tosses at you. Sex is not love, its just sex.

AFF.com found me and mrs many a freak in our area. We got down with a few couples. I got to hit new boxes every month, but, BE PREPARED to understand that the other people may have an agenda.

The other couple could be on the verge of breaking up, etc. Just be careful the drama meter will go off the scale at times with these people, I met a whole boatload of babes that we looking to bounce and get a new home. You have to really draw the lines VERY clearly to them. Also, your dick is your worst enemy. It will make you think all kinds of crazy shit with these babes promising the world to you for tossing your old lady to the streets for them.

Toss up some ads, meet at a resturant / bar. Try not to drink since these people you really dont know and you want to be able to control the suitation if it gets funky. Some people we had dinner with and that was it, others we shagged like mad.

36 pack of rubbers, 2 packs of wraps and bottle of snapple and you are all set.

It's been said - it's a HUGE risk. Until it's done and possibly you're a year or two down the road you have no idea how this'll impact your relationship. It can be great fun but you are putting your relationship and risk and it will alter it. This may not be for the worse but you have no way of knowing at this stage. You just have to ask yourself if it's worth the risk and if you are 110% sure that you are both secure enough to do this.

hmm

I seldom get into this type of discussion, but here goes. I've been in 3somes, with another guy as well as with another girl. And while it's great, physically, emotionally it's awful. If your relationship with your girlfriend is good, I'd advise against it, because it really can seriously screw things up. There is a good chance of losing her...not right away, but eventually. It's hard enough communicating with just one person, the moment you add another into the mix it becomes exponentially more complicated.
If you do get into it, be prepared for lots of tears and misery, feelings of rejection, inadequacy, confusion, etc. I'm not saying that it will end badly, but based on my own experiences and thiose of others, there's a big chance that things go sour.

At least do it with someone you both don't know, and don't forget to pay some attention to your girl during the act :winkwink:

Have to second that as well and missed that bit out of my post. Using a friend especially when you are unsure or it's a first time is a bad, bad thing. A total strnager that you have vetted and both find attractive is MUCH safer.

..taking notes here for my 3000 gangbang :1orglaugh

Make sure to give me a call about where and when :winkwink:

It is about trust. Keep certain acts that you agree upon sacred. Don't involve a friend. Stop at the first sign of trouble. Have a great fucking time!

i havent been in 3some sexpeditions... its what adult actors do. not me. :winkwink: