Girlfriend of 4 years trades me in
 

Yup, you heard it, had a good girlfirend for 4 years, and then i find she trades me in for some older guy who works full time at the daycare center she works at :(

Weak right?

:glugglug :stoned

daycare center? lol you must feel pretty shitty.

That sucks. Can I move in?

trades you in? ouch.

Okay here's what you do.

You move into a really cool apartment in New York with Jon Stewart.

Get you a job working in a toll booth.

Jon Stewards bastard son will come while he's away on a long business trip.

You pretend the kid is yours to impress this girlfriend who left you for the older guy.

Jon's hot girlfriend who works at hooters has this really sweet looking sister with one of those sexy Jennifer Tilly type voices.

She'll see just how sweet you are with the kid and fall in love with you.

And oh there'll be a big court room scene at the end where you'll be charged with some crime involving duping the state welfare system.

So go ahead and call your dad and tell him to be there to make a big dopy speech so they'll drop all charges against you.

Good luck

Hmmmm..... from a pornographer - or someone who pushes porn - to a day care center worker. That's a big difference.

Let's think about this for a moment. First, what does a day care worker top out at every year? $30k tops? That's not one tenth of what I make running my small slice of the porn empire.

Second..... Is this guy gay? Why would a man work in a day care center? Seriously? I like kids as much as the next guy, but I don't see myself getting what I need from life watching kids play all day long. Sounds entertaining a for about half an hour.

Third..... If you were serious about this girl..... A) After four years you should have whipped out a ring already. I'm all for long term dating before marriage, but four years is a tad bit long. B) If you continued to peddle porn and she went on to become, say, a teacher, you do know that her job would constantly be in danger, right? You can't really be married to a pornographer and work certain jobs. My wife, for example, works in a hospital. She had to sign a morality agreement, saying that she must live to "certain acceptable moral standards". Obviously, being as I run a porn company, she may not live up to those "standards" (whatever). If they found out what I do she can loose her job "just like that". (No big deal really....)

Time for you to find another chick. Upgrade. Get taller, blonder, and younger - Find a hot eighteen or nineteen year old.

Good luck!

Oh yes, yes indeed. fucking loser even.

Funny you mention that; i was a month away from popping the ring. I had 10k that my grandmother left me that was going to the ring. It would have been 4 years August 10th, and thats when i was going to propose... Ahh well, maybe ill just put a downpayment on a house with that money someday when im making enough to cover the rest of the expenses.

Oh and on top of that, i doubt he even brings in 30k/mo --- he makes no more than $8/hr before taxes...

Then again, im not making money either which is probably why she left me for someone with a larger income haha sucks

My only curiosity about this post is why you would WISH to be in vermont? Do you like paying taxes or something man?

4 years and than trades you in for an older guy who works at a daycare? ouch...that's gotta hurt your ego

any pics on this loser?

:eek7

Dude that sucks, at least it's not your friend or some shit. You'll find someone else :thumbsup

This is more than likely the best thing that could have happened to you...

What has money to do with real love?

If it took you 4 yrs to kinda think about marrying this girl...then you probably didn't want to marry her in the first place bro. She didn't leave you cause the guy makes more money she left you because she wanted a change in her life. She will not be with this new guy for long...He is just the "transitional" comfort zone guy..Just count your blessings that you don't have any children with this girl (I'm assuming) and move on. :2 cents:

P.S. The perfect girl does not exsist! Everyone has issues...Just find someone with issues you can live with.. No matter how beautiful and perfect a woman may "seem" to be...There is a guy out there some where that is "Sick of her shit" :glugglug

bobv

a few years back my girlfriend of 5 years traded me in for a guy that cut grass for a living, I owned a comic book store at the time. When I said something to her about it she said "At least he makes an honest living"

WTF is wrong with women this week? My GF of 4 years also left for some fucken coworker... whats the world coming to?

Dude... just move to cali, hire a girl for a POV shoot, and send a picture wishing her well and thanking her for helping you realize your dream as a pornographer. Oh, don't forget a copy of your monthly CC processor check.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

and in that letter, say "oh, speaking of which, remember those pictures i took of you?"

Seriously though, sux man. Really sorry to hear it.

-doug

Yeah I have to agree with bobv. Now you are back in the game of dating, don't fall into a deep relationship too quickly, then you will find yourself right back in the same place. Have fun...

yup...post some pics so we can better judge whether you've truly lost or not.....


next time... if you really like the girl... don't wait four years to propose.

I was the guy working at the daycare center!

dam your chick sure can fuck

got any of those ex-girlfriend pics of her ;-)

sorry to hear that bro. i'll have a drink for you :glugglug

jDoG

Well it wasnt that i waited that long to pop the question, we started dating when we were 17 so im really not that old. We both agreed that we'd wait a little bit.

Another problem is the fact that i build adult sites, she hated it. All about it being disgusting... When will the world open their eyes and accept it.

For now, Led Zeppelin said it best, soul of a woman was created below - Dazed and Confused.

I dont have any pictures to throw up, but if she was a 7 i am a 4 -- so she was good for me.

Oh and about Vermont, i love the mountains and the clean air... But then again, maybe northern cali is the place for me.

All that would mean is his wife would have left him instead of his girlfriend. That ring wouldn't have done shit if she wasn't more committed than after four years.

SpaceAce

Agreed

Daycare? Is she sure he is straight? :1orglaugh

Gotta to Stay True to Yourself!! That bitch was luggage, buy a house and get a couple of new girlfreinds.

Dude i dont konw, anyone that can say, "Hey im a man" and at the same time say "Hey i work at a daycare" is a pussy in my mind.

Its wierd.. H ere's the schpeal.

My sister coincidentally babysits for two little girls that go to the daycare... one day these little girls were like, Ms Martha (my x) and Mr Jeremy are getting married.

My sister told me what she had heard, and i confronted my GF about it, just like half joking... And shes like no, there is definatly nothing going on between us, everyone at work thinks hes gay.

And NOWWWW i get dumped for MR. Jeremy ahhahahahahah fucking flamer.

Maybe he works there becuase he has a fetish for children. You just have to wonder why anyone would want to do that for a living.

What does money have to do with real love? Nothing really. But money changes everything.

If she found your replacement before she left then it didn't just end, it was over awhile ago.

People never leave person A for person B.....it was over with person A beforehand or else person B wouldn't exist.

all i know is i was fucking her thursday, she went out w/ one of her girlfriends friday night, and saturday it was over

traded in for a daycare worker lmao

something things are better left unsaid

you're only 21!

get down on your knees and thank god that it's over.

the last thing u want is to be tied to a girl who doesn't like what u do when you're that age.

hit the bars and have some fun!

You are hereby invited to sleep on my couch for a weekend - you will forget that any other breasts ever exsisted!

My couch is on my tour page... http://www.povporn.com/welcome.html
and here... http://www.povporn.com/media/Sassy_1.jpg

Dito! When one door closes, it allows the other one to open!

either you weren't giving her what she needed, or she was bored, or she is just a bitch. tho seeing how you were together for 4 years, i don't see the last one so much. tho there are many other possiblities but those seem to be the main ones. did she not give any explaination as to why she felt the need to look for attention and affection else where? anyhow, try and not dwell on it too much, im sure it will take some time before you are able to really start being with girls again. despite the attitude of some of the guys here money, hot sex, ect can't replace real love. im still hurting 9 months after my girl dumped my ass, it seems no matter how many chicks i meet, no one girl can come close to being what she is.

OWN3D

Same thing happend to my a month ago. Me and my girl were together for 3.5 years and out of no where she tells me she wants to break up because she wants to know what it is like to be single.

I almost rather have a reason to hate her like she cheated on me or something, but just that she doesn't feel like having a boyfriend right now! What is this bullshit?

Girls are odd.

That's what I was about to say... matty PLEASE don't think I'm blaming you, but you really ought to find out why she left you for someone else. If not for your own piece of mind, then do it for the next girl you date. There may be something that you do without realizing it that drove her away. Then again, she could just be a slut, I don't know. :)

And BlackCrayon, that's a very mature response from you. I know some guys are probably truly happy in their lives of fucking several different girls a week, but it's refreshing to hear about guys who realize that there can be more to life than pussy.

I like sex, but I'm DAMNED glad my husband and I have more that a sex life in common. I really need a guy that I can watch Star Trek with and he fit that bill just perfectly. Hehe.

Hey, Zach. Does your last name happen to start with a G?

Nope, but my middle name does.

Okay, sorry. I thought I might have known ya. :)

shit, that sucks man!
but i think you're too young for such long relationships
live life to the max
you'll have time in future for long relationships
enjoy your age now until you can! :)
i'm 21 too, and i had the mistake to have 2 years long relationship 3 years ago... and i suffered too much for these 2 years... but i don't feel pity now, cause i've learned so much for the love, girls and shit, now i'm stronger :)

just look forward for your next girlfriend and don't look back

and wtf why you want to marry on 21
you're too young, don't worry, you'll have time for marriage and everything
i hope i won't marry in the near 5-6 years
i poison my life enough alone, i don't need someone else to do it :P

Thanks for the invite POV haha

I definatly treated her right, but i am starting to think that it was done for the best... The only real reason she could give me is that she didnt like my profession. Hell sometimes i dont either, but thats just because i dont make money anymore.

Back in the days of Celebs and AVS's i was reeling in the bones, and i treated that girl to the best life she's ever lived... When the money ran out, i guess our relationship did too. So in other words, i doubt it was anything i could have done, shes just a cheap trick bitch.

Nothing a little, erm, lot of beer cant handle.

I say first thing tomorrow morning you go down to that daycare and call her out in front of all the kids, then you stomp his ass in front of everyone!

But then again I have bad judgement sometimes.