Stats
 

What is the best way to tell how people are getting to my site? How much traffic a day its getting....uniques..reloads..etc..etc..etc...

sextracker

set up CCTV in every house and office with a computer and count how many people surf on your site.

... if you have root acces to your box, go and install webalizer, pretty much the best there is:

cd /usr/ports/www/webalizer
make
make install

man webalizer

hotbox rulez