table dances vs. lapdances
 

I perfer full on cockgrinds so give me lapdances anyday

Table dances are a waste of time. Just move closer to the stage and you can get one for free!

I prefer private , but I tell her not to do all the grinding.
Much more erotic that way. If I want to fuck, I'd stay at
home with the wife, or go to the girlfriend's.

it's all non-contact in the UK anyway...

Can you guys get an orgasm from a lapdance? Just wondering.
I think getting a lapdance is kind of like "dry sex" and it's cheating, I mean if my boyfriend ever had a lapdance he would be history!

No you really can't, and no it's really not.

What? No talk of war in this thread? WTF?


... lapdances all the way (the grinding kind)

I think it is , because if you have a girlfriend why do you need a naked woman rubbing all over you? And I heard sometimes strippers give bj's in private rooms... so you don't think that's cheating either??? I don't think cheating has to be sex, if it something that makes your significant other uncomfortable you shouldn't do it if you care about the other person. That's why I always tell the other person involved with me what my boundaries are and what I consider cheating. So later they can't act like they are all surprised when something is bothering me.

I think you've got some jealousy issues.

Here's somthing that might cheer you up... sometimes when your man is fucking you... he's thinking about other woman.

hahahaha

:1orglaugh
HAHA

So how would you like it if your girl gets grinded by a naked chip and dale with a huge cock? you would like that too, than wouldn't you? Since you don't seem to have any "jealousy issues".

Anyways, who in their right mind WOULDN"T be jealous of a naked person grinding all over there significant other.

Well my wife goes to the clubs with me and has several time paid for lap dances for me.

At least she knows where I am and what I am doing.

She has never stopped me from going with friends or alone either, just as I have never stopped her from going with friends to see the guys.


:Graucho

If your bf wants to go to strip clubs then you can't stop him. You can try and try but he'll just end up going anyways :2 cents:
Most of the men I know including my hubby despise strip clubs. I guess for some men it's all good but others it's just not there thing.

Anyways if your man/woman wants to be rubbed all up against then he/she will do it with or without your approval :2 cents:

DearAbby that was very mean !!
Just because you think of other ppl when your fucking your spouse doesn't mean every man is
:)

phogirl69... show me your tits

I've always wanted to know if strippers give bj's and handjobs in the champagen room? So you guys don't think that's cheating either??

No, it's true, every man does.

I think technically they do, but I've never seen this happen and I've never been offered one.

I am not content! If you want to see some tits you can always
surf over to a tgp and get some!

I'm pretty sure that wife is imaging the stud from the porno
she just watched! :thumbsup little fantasy keeps the sex hot.

There's plenty of time for emotional attachment over dinner.

jimmy3way
:thumbsup

Does that mean you think of me?

Why would you pay for a woman to tease you with the poosay? I never understood this. I don't want some woman to put something I can't have 1 centimeter from my cock but not fuck it!!! Why pay for this? This is not something you pay for... it's called torture!

This is why I rarely pay for lapdances but I do usually end up fucking a stripper for free after the club closes if I am interested.:glugglug

I do but don't tell Kelly :Graucho

I wonder if the Iraqi's will now be free to get lapdances?

;0

I've worked in a couple different strip clubs out here in LV. Sure, BJ and Sex performed in the VIP/Champagne room..... but only by the girls desperate for money. Most good looking dancers make $500/night without doing anything more than the standard lap dance in the VIP....with a little grinding. And YES, guys cum all the time from a little dry fucking.

As for whether or not this is cheating.....guess that depends on the relationship you're in. As for me and my man.....we've gone to clubs together....and having worked in the clubs, it wouldn't phase me a bit if he got a lap dance. From experience though I can tell you this......there is a big difference between the guy that goes to strip clubs to watch or maybe get a lap dance or two ...... and the guy that goes to the club for a VIP/Chapagne room. If a guy spends $20 - $40 on a lap dance, who cares......If he's spending $100 - 500 for a VIP.....and he's your BF, you may want to consider spicing up your bedroom activities.

Also, if it makes you ladies feel any better......when dancers are giving lap dances......they aren't typically stimulated at all by it and they are usually thinking of everything but the guy they are dancing for.

Just my first hand experience

no sex in the champagne room :thumbsup

but... i thought she really liked me :(

I think strip club nights are healthy in a committed relationship

there is a world of difference between financial and emotional partnerships and the instant gratification of getting a little strange. if you have your own shit together you won't feel you need to control every little thing your lover does, nor will you even worry about it.

touching pp's with another human is not the be all end all of life.

being in debt and buying bit ticket toys together - now that is the true test of a relationship. :winkwink:

edit: literary elephantitis

If my woman goes to a chippendales with the girls and gets all hot and bothered why would i mind? She is going to come home and fuck my brains out.

Lapdance over tabledance ANY day of the week.
But, definitely it's cheating.
Luckily, I go WITH my girlfriend. Now, THAT is kinda hot.
Watching your girlfriend grind on another chick.

we've already gone over this in im before. =)

You do have some jealous issues.

content girl-can I ask you a question by email?