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Lichen 11-29-2013 03:35 PM

Serious question: what can one buy that will bring lasting enjoyment?
 
I have no idea.

I have tons of cash, can't think of anything to do with it, other than invest it and have even more. But that's boring.

ottopottomouse 11-29-2013 03:41 PM

Do something. Happy memories are worth more than anything.

bean-aid 11-29-2013 03:42 PM

You can buy a helicopter and fly it around.

Colmike9 11-29-2013 03:42 PM

Maybe make some other webmasters happy?.. :upsidedow jk

Or just think for a bit about "What would make me happy? ie. Places to live/visit, fun hobbies, bucket list type things to do, etc." then do it.

Or make a roller coaster in you back yard. :winkwink:

_Richard_ 11-29-2013 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by ottopottomouse (Post 19890392)
Do something. Happy memories are worth more than anything.

gonna have to go with this

however, why not do what everyone does who has money and is bored

spend and amaze someone who doesn't have it :1orglaugh

JFK 11-29-2013 03:51 PM

no such thing , as "lasting" enjoyment, sooner or later you will get tired of it, no matter what. Lasting enjoyment is intangible, not really attached to material things:2 cents:

dyna mo 11-29-2013 03:56 PM

a buttplug.

Jel 11-29-2013 03:56 PM

send a bunch of chocolates/cakes to the local old peoples home once a week/month, 100% anonymously

buy an old lady a dishwasher

send tickets to a show/pantomime/concert/sports game to a children's home

+1000 things like this. Obviously it gives different people varying degrees of enjoyment, just throwing it into the mix in case it gives you any ideas :)

SBJ 11-29-2013 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JFK (Post 19890401)
no such thing , as "lasting" enjoyment, sooner or later you will get tired of it, no matter what. Lasting enjoyment is intangible, not really attached to material things:2 cents:

:thumbsup This is true! So just go with cocaine and hookers for short term happiness :1orglaugh

Lichen 11-29-2013 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jel (Post 19890407)
send a bunch of chocolates/cakes to the local old peoples home once a week/month, 100% anonymously

buy an old lady a dishwasher

send tickets to a show/pantomime/concert/sports game to a children's home

+1000 things like this. Obviously it gives different people varying degrees of enjoyment, just throwing it into the mix in case it gives you any ideas :)

This is stupid.

X_X_ROB_X_X 11-29-2013 04:29 PM

Have a child with a woman from every country in the world. That will take care of your "having tons of money problem".

mikesouth 11-29-2013 04:34 PM

Good memories are the only lasting enjoyment if it were me i would travel I love seeing the worls, experiencing different cultures and making friends and memories. There is alos a lot of satisfaction in supporting a cause that you believe in, making a difference in the lives of others.

L-Pink 11-29-2013 04:42 PM

You should send all your money to the disaster victims in the Phillipines.

Sly 11-29-2013 04:54 PM

Money doesn't buy happiness. But money can allow you to do the things that do bring you happiness.

Forget about the money and ask yourself what makes you happy. There's your answer.

SilentKnight 11-29-2013 04:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JFK (Post 19890401)
Lasting enjoyment is intangible, not really attached to material things:2 cents:

My Nikon and I disagree with you. :)

vdbucks 11-29-2013 04:59 PM

Get a puppy, doesn't even cost money in most places...

dyna mo 11-29-2013 05:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lichen (Post 19890416)
This is stupid.

so the buttplug made the short list! :thumbsup

SilentKnight 11-29-2013 05:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dyna mo (Post 19890474)
so the buttplug made the short list! :thumbsup

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

JFK 11-29-2013 05:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SilentKnight (Post 19890470)
My Nikon and I disagree with you. :)

Feel free to do so :thumbsup

_Richard_ 11-29-2013 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dyna mo (Post 19890474)
so the buttplug made the short list! :thumbsup

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Lichen 11-29-2013 06:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mikesouth (Post 19890442)
Good memories are the only lasting enjoyment if it were me i would travel I love seeing the world, experiencing different cultures and making friends and memories.

I'd rather sit at home and post here.

fuzebox 11-29-2013 06:06 PM

Fast cars, bikes, boats, etc...

Take up a hobby like skiing/snowboarding.

Phoenix 11-29-2013 07:50 PM

Yeah snowboarding you can move around and do all year with money.

Oh and two chicks. ..

slapass 11-29-2013 08:29 PM

My BMW m3 convertible pretty much did it. The one thing I wish I had bought during my big ballet period was a penthouse apt with a pool and ocean view. Amazing views that are panty droppers helps out a lot with the continuing satisfaction.

J. Falcon 11-29-2013 08:33 PM

Use your money to help others.

lagcam 11-29-2013 09:08 PM

If using some of the wealth that life has apparently given you to improve the life of somebody less fortunate than yourself doesn't give you lasting enjoyment then I suspect that nothing truly will.

The Porn Nerd 11-29-2013 09:39 PM

A Thai hooker sex doll.

The Heron 11-29-2013 09:51 PM

Drugs and whores always bring me joy.

whOaKemosabe 11-29-2013 09:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dyna mo (Post 19890404)
a buttplug.

Quote:

Originally Posted by X_X_ROB_X_X (Post 19890437)
Have a child with a woman from every country in the world. That will take care of your "having tons of money problem".

Quote:

Originally Posted by L-Pink (Post 19890451)
You should send all your money to the disaster victims in the Phillipines.

Quote:

Originally Posted by dyna mo (Post 19890474)
so the buttplug made the short list! :thumbsup

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lichen (Post 19890517)
I'd rather sit at home on my buttplug and post here.

fixed that for you :upsidedow

Spunky 11-29-2013 09:59 PM

Money is over rated.Can't buy your health but is most important,you can have a shitload of money but without it you're fucked

edgeprod 11-30-2013 12:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by slapass (Post 19890610)
The one thing I wish I had bought during my big ballet period was a penthouse apt with a pool and ocean view

Ballet period? Did you bleed on your tutu? :winkwink:

96ukssob 11-30-2013 01:15 AM

Like Sly said, money won't buy you happiness, but will buy you some cool and fun stuff that will make you happy.

Everyone is different, but for me, I like to help people, and probably more importantly animals. If I had a big stash of cash, I'd open up some place to help animals and give people jobs-- that would make me happy. I'll get there, had a minor setback but back on track.

Find something that you like to do, travel, find a hobby or 8. But sooner or later, you'll probably find doing something for others, even if it does financially benefit you, will bring you endless happiness.

JockoHomo 11-30-2013 01:19 AM

I like collecting Rolex watches.

You can wear them and get enjoyment out of them. They hold their value and in most cases actually increase in value rather than decrease!

Angelo22 11-30-2013 01:43 AM

Apart from donating to all of us ;)

I advice you to travel the world for a few years. That will be unforgettable.

FlowerKid 11-30-2013 05:15 AM

Put all your money into a bathtub and take a bath like donald duck.

Magnetron 11-30-2013 05:22 AM

Lube

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dyna mo (Post 19890404)
a buttplug.

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Quote:

Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd (Post 19890635)
A Thai hooker sex doll.


ilnjscb 11-30-2013 06:44 AM

find a smart kid with no opportunity and help them - or be a big brother to a foster kid

Nickatilynx 11-30-2013 06:51 AM

...traffic.

Grapesoda 11-30-2013 06:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lichen (Post 19890383)
I have no idea.

I have tons of cash, can't think of anything to do with it, other than invest it and have even more. But that's boring.

serious answer: what do you like.... I had a corvette for 7 years... made me happy EVERY day .. I'll get another next year

freecartoonporn 11-30-2013 08:17 AM

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blazin 11-30-2013 02:56 PM

Travel... and seek new adventures!

DWB 11-30-2013 03:04 PM

Helping others who are truly in need can bring lasting joy.

Cherry7 11-30-2013 03:13 PM

Blu ray player, HD projector, Hitchcock box set.....thats a few hours of joy

bluebook18 11-30-2013 03:19 PM

help those less fortunate people and invest. Every "thank you" that you get, that would be a great enjoyment.

icymelon 11-30-2013 09:20 PM

you can buy a desk for a school in africa.
https://secure.unicefusa.org/site/Do...donation=form1

RyuLion 11-30-2013 09:28 PM

It depends on what YOU like doing that will give you the most pleasure..
Sure we can all give you advise so you can get ideas but it'll only give you short pleasure that you will come back and be pissed off that you wasted your time doing "that"...

scubadiver626 11-30-2013 09:35 PM

It's the perfect time for us to get a dog. Thx to the original suggestor, great idea. Golden lab it is.

TheSquealer 11-30-2013 10:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jel (Post 19890407)
send a bunch of chocolates/cakes to the local old peoples home once a week/month, 100% anonymously

buy an old lady a dishwasher

send tickets to a show/pantomime/concert/sports game to a children's home

+1000 things like this. Obviously it gives different people varying degrees of enjoyment, just throwing it into the mix in case it gives you any ideas :)

In psychology, there is a well studied and well proven link between volunteerism/helping others and ones improved personal sense of well being and contentment, reduction of stress etc. Also, "things" can't make a person happy as people seem to think. That's not how it works at all as in this context, "happiness" would be an improved and sustained mental state vs a temporarily improved mental state. That is confusing the function of the brains rewards system and temporary dopamine releases (i.e. jerking off or eating cake or whatever) with a more or less permanent or at least a longer lasting mental state. Though happiness doesn't completely come from within (volunteering/helping others as an example), it certainly doesn't come from "things".

You can also see the confusion... between pleasure and happiness. Pleasure is not "happiness" in the context of emotional health. Pleasure is merely a short term high. A blowjob is nice, but a blowjob that lasts months would be a nightmare.

The truly sad thing is that your suggestion would do far more to make any person here more happy than anything else and its super easy to do.

Interestingly, twin studies have proven that happiness is more or less a fixed trait. People are born with a certain amount of activity in the brains pre-frontal cortex - it varies from person to person. In identical twins however, this level of activity too, is identical. In twins who are separated at birth, you can see 40 years later that they share the exact same personality traits - including a strikingly similar degree of "happiness" in addition to sharing most other personality traits. People generally will only feel a set degree of happiness and no matter what happens in the short term (i.e. winning the lottery), they will quickly return to that set point - hedonic adaptation. Changing that, actually requires a lot of work. It can't be done by buying a Ferrari or dating a model, as you will still return to that same set point, no matter how good you feel in the short term.

I would also think that one should be concerned to realize that he or she believes an inanimate object makes them "happy" and looks to inanimate objects for "happiness". Thats no more logical than exclaiming that an inanimate object makes he or she upset (i.e. This car is pissing me off) - that's a lot of power to give to something which is neither aware of itself or others.


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