Learning to never give anyone a second chance sucks!!
 

So this woman was writing to me for a few weeks, she has an amy winehouse thing going on, she's from cali, she's a sub, juicy and built and GRRRRRRR

She's about an hour away, but I love the town she lives in and I am there often... anyway so here I am and I go up there finally meet with her to interview her, and then, guess what
There she is drunk out of her mind and she is difficult and does not suck on me and just annoying and drunk

So then, I leave. I don't need any more drunks or pillheads anywhere near me. And I tell her not to come at me tomorrow with how sorry she is.

The next day she comes at me with how sorry she is.

Well so I says to her, look it, you wasted my gasoline and my time and whatever else I says and you have to compensate me for that before you can see me again, right... and I'm pretty sure she has it for me bad enough that she will, right

So tomorrow she's going to send me the $100 and I haven't decided whether I should give her a second chance, or not. I have a couple of lady friends in KS I see for a bj or dinner- but I do want one full time regular and to be right with me to do things..

But what is it, am I stupid to give her a second chance? She is one of a very few viable options for me here in the middle of nowhere- and she IS from cali- and she DOES have very nice curves and her face murders me (a sweet face gets a woman a lot of points with me)

I thought you were the Dominant?

I had a rule when I was dating... Any bullshit, and I walked. It paid off. Any time a girlfriend flipped me any amount of crap, I left. Plenty of fish in the ocean and I was young and good looking. My wife figured it out quick I don't put up with such nonsense, and fell in line.

Twenty years later, we've had one argument - July 2nd, 2006. I won the argument, but she was right.

Kick her ass the to curb.

I am. How the fuck in all hell do I make her not drink before I am even there? Plus, apparently she was on pins and corncobs all nervous about meeting me.. supposedly

Oh my lord that looks like her :1orglaugh

YOU actually have some experience and wisdom, and so, I will definitely hear your writing". That is pretty much where I am at, lately. Even with loved ones. I've let so many people drive me so crazy all of my life, just turned thirty and am finally saying.. NO. MORE. I have always known to keep my circle small- very very very few people get to know me, at all, the mistake I made was putting too much of my soul and loyalty into that few when they had not earned it. Does that make sense?

You, I may not agree with you on some things, but you have this dead on. Nice post and thank you.

But at least the one I'm speaking on has a better ass and a better face and probably better breasts

trouble seeks out trouble :2 cents:

try to clean up your life and get your shit together, then "better" women will come around.

Wonderful. After you insulted me the other day for being poor, I don't like you, for now. You're on Fred Dislike for a few more days.

The worst women I ever had were the ones who at first were educated, intelligent, level headed, well adjusted bitches... It's an interesting theory, but, no- I am NOT seeking broken bitches. Not even subconsciously.

But the truth also is, for awhile there, I WAS attracted to dangerous bitches.. the more dangerous they got, the more hooked I was... we all have been there.. maybe¿

Let's see.

She ain't perfect and she has weight on her.. but I like thickness on a bitch and I would make her lose about 10lbs if I was seeing her..

Just bang her and don't think in stupid things at least you want a relationship.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:pimp

Well, she failed to send me the money.. she is 7½ hours late at this point. I'm going to have to write her off, I suppose. That is too bad. She had potential. Her nipples taste great and she smells amazing, sigh.

But another thing is, she didn't blow me and she was annoying and that's strike one and two. Not sending me the money she owes me and she's OUT.

If she does send the money, I suppose I would see her again- but- only if I am already in town for another reason.. and she better be stone sober with her mouth wide open.

I am done being patient with anyone. Treat me like I treat you and keep your word the same way I do or go deal with normal men, lady. :)

This shit reminds me of Texts from Bennett

Maybe she was annoying because (like you said she is a sub) she wanted to be corrected firmly...

Maybe she didn't blow you because she wanted to be forced.*

I don't know...

* I take no responsibility for any rape that comes from my reply. Don't consider
it as advice.:1orglaugh

Whenever I hear people talk about second chances I feel like they are missing the point.

Whether or not we forgive someone for being who they are is irrelevant. We are not Gods, as much as much as we would like to think we are and as such our forgiveness is irrelevant.

What we do is learn who people are. Once we know who they are we decide if we can work with that. What are you giving them a second chance for? To be somebody else? Who is gonna be somebody else? Maybe you are giving yourself a second chance to evaluate them? That's all it is.

You learned who this person was and it cost you $100. So the value of that knowledge is $100. Do you want to throw those $100 away and re-roll heavily weighted dice in the hopes of things being the way you want them to be instead of the way they are?

Knock yourself out but you know what the outcome will be already.

You are an embarrassing mess of a human being. I'd suggest you join the military or something to help you get your shit together, but i doubt you'd even survive basic training without one of your own taking you out just to shut you up with your endless stupid fucking "my life is a train wreck" stories.

are you talking to yourself here? LOL
You quote yourself and reply as if someone else said that.
I am starting to like your threads

I'm not going to force some drunk bitch I've never met before to do anything

Well, it actually cost me $15.. Well, and some wasted time.
If I am everything I say that I am and I keep my word and then someone else does not meet that standard, then, I have a right to not forgive them for that.

I think that you are being very rude to me on here today. :(

You are welcome
:1orglaugh

If someone pays me I will stop "disappearing and not being on here for months/years at a time"

Still missing the point completely. Carry on in your dreamworld.

this has to be a joke thread, or at the very least the OP is trying to hook a sucker.

You should sober up and attempt to get your life together.... and stop acting like a low class, white trash moron on a public forum.
:2 cents:

you've fucked up so many times you could never count them, is she really that different from yourself?

Outstanding post, but apparently you can't always get the horse to drink....




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fuck that, post more pics of the bitch, without the censored crap, I wanna take a look at her tits n ass, thank you

Giving the opistie sex or the sex your attracted too second chances generally never works out.

His point wasn't completely lost on me. I learned along the way to not hold grudges or allow myself to hate. That has helped me a great deal. The counterpoint I want to make is that I have always forgiven too easily and it has cost me many years and a lot of blood. I absolutely DO have the right to not forgive people when they do not treat me the way I treat them and I exercise that right VERY easily, now, and I am glad of it.

Some people on this forum need help - I cant believe the shit in this thread...

You can say whatever you want about me

1. I am sober.
2. I am not trash. I am a good human being. I am absolutely not a drain on society or on anyone, not in any way. What is more, I live my life in a way that does not affect anyone around me in a negative way. Further- I am the most dedicated and honorable and loyal man that a man can be. The only human beings I know of who might surpass me in those are servicemen who are fighting together. I have never bailed on any one. Not when they got sick. Not when being there for them was inconvenient. Not when they went broke. Not even when potentially facing imminent harm. Not ever.
3. Who the fuck are you to be insulting me? You post on gfy full time, as far as I can see.