If you are going out with some one in their mid 40's do you check for skeleton in the closets ?
 

By 40 a lot of people would have accumulated a lot of skeletons. So when you are going out with some one and if things are getting serious should I start digging for skeletons ? or just ignore it and say past is past ?

There past is far from defining who they are, it just made them and you clearly like it. Don't be a noisy goof.

you are doing it wrong.
thought you were married anyway.

however you should be dating 25-29 year olds
:)

No, I split up late last year after 17 years. Now back on the dating scene...I am 42 now. Some one said I should target 28 (42 divide by 2 and add 7).

Dating is all new to me, last time I was dating I was still in college. Shit a lot to learn !!

hit the gym
and get out of the americas

in any other country in the world...you are sexy for your age

china..korea..india..etc

Hitting the gym daily, I am amazed what a divorce can do for your motivation. Not going to get out the county until my kid turns 18 and go to college. I will be 50 by that time but yes I plan on moving out.

I'd start digging into her ass. What the fuck do you care at your age what she has in her past? Unless it directly affects you financially or emotionally? Fuck it. It's not like you want to have a fucking family with her. Her vag bag is too old. Tap it, wine it, dine it, fuck it up the ass - have fun. :2 cents:

i look for skeletons - literally

Rule number one, don't give a fuck.

Unless you are looking for a replacement mother for your kid a woman's past is irrelevant. Go into each relationship with the knowledge it will be short lived, have a good time, let it run its natural course then move on.

If you by chance find a keeper good for you but keep in mind you are both set in your ways, have own lives, probably baggage on both parts, force nothing.

When say "skeletons" do you mean they are hiding the fact they have killed someone, or do you mean they have baggage?

Everyone seems to have baggage these days.

I could not imaigne trying to be single.

For somebody that was in the Marines, you sure don't have a grasp on basic lingo. :2 cents:

Anyone actually open a girl's closet and actually find a skeleton in there?

I did once. Freaked the hell out of me.


Turned out she was an anatomy major 10 years earlier, but... she kept the skeleton why?

You could have had a threesome

After she's cleared he STD and HIV test, she should be good to go.

Beyond that, I believe you're over thinking it. I am not sure what sort of 'checks' you're referencing exactly? Are you wanting to know if she will be a good mother to your kid? If she has a criminal record? Or you are simply wanting to know if all of her lies match up?

Either way, unless you're looking to jump back into another marriage, you're over thinking this whole dating thing. Once you know they are disease-free, you should be putting her to work tossing your salad and in turn you start tapping that cornhole.

:2 cents:

You STD test chicks you date? :1orglaugh

Just separated from mine. Well, somewhat. Weird situation. The new girlfriend is 26 :winkwink:

I agree with this one.

more to the point, what has made you think that you need to be worried

Don't look for trouble; if it is there, it will find you.

We all have skeletons in the closet