Girls with kid?
 

Divorced, with a 3 year old - 24 years old. Do I run now or run later?

Is she hot? Play daddy for a while, to her and the kid ;)

She won't be bugging you to get married and have kids. There are pluses.

She is hot. Hotter than I'm used to. Saggy tits obviously. Hah.

need pics to decide...

Before I met my wife I had dated a chick with a ten year old daughter. Girlfriend was thankful just to have a man willing to take on her baggage (and was willing to do ANYTHING to keep me), and playing dad was an interesting experience. I'm sure it helped to prepare me for being a father.

Odd thing... The kid hit me up on Facebook about six months ago. I was surprised; I didn't think she would even remember me. But she told me that having me around was the happiest time of her youth. Go figure.

Wants me to meet the kid tomorrow, haven't fucked yet. Am I fucking up bad?

Show us a pic of her and let us decide for you.

Have you hit it yet?

Therein lies your answer

I don't mind other peoples kids as long as you're happy

-24
-divorced
hit and run i say

how long have you been dating? only a disturbed woman would allow her kid to meet a man she is dating sooner than 6-8 months in my opinion. run :2 cents:

I think a 3 year old kid is already passed the worst part of it - no waking up 5x a need to feed etc...

You just described why she is a young single mother.

Proceed with caution. :-)

i would agree with this.

I would never seriously date a woman with kids. no offense, but it always turns into a headache.

I've seen to many friends fall for this trap. Whether the kid is 3 or 15, you are going to be soon doomed for a life of fill-in daddy and baby sitter... unless thats what you want, but me, I enjoy spending my weekend nights partying like a rock star :thumbsup

So the story continues:

She lives with her mom, and as far as I can tell is not a very active mom herself. Because any given night of the week she seems apt to stay out until 4 in the morning...

So good on the "finds ways to make free time" side of things.

But what does that say about her if she would rather stay out till sunrise than be home with her kid.... hmmmm....

it is nice when the kid is old enough to mow your lawn and stuff :)

Personally, I prefer Moms to single women w/o kids. Being a Dad, I can relate easier.
It also helps me to get the ass, faster.

Bitches like responsible Dads. :winkwink:

:2 cents: your going to have to babysit while she is at work and she finds out you work from home online selling porn, blog writing etc.. She will ask you when you are going to adopt her child and marry her.. so much baggage , wonder to yourself why the baby daddy left her in the first place she's a whore, cunt, bitch and you are falling for it all with the magical word "pussy" good luck , after you adopt have fun paying child support when you split up when the kid really isn't yours lmao

Hard to say without pics.

Dude, she's 24. She isn't full grown yet.

Fuck her, feed her fast food and flee. :2 cents:

Sounds like a responsible young woman.

Within 6 months you'll be awake at 3AM with a kid sleeping next to you while she's out fucking who knows who. But you'll keep telling yourself you're doing it for the sake of the kid.

Hard to say, maybe it will be a good/bad choice to stay/leave. Maybe you should give it a try.

Just fuck it already. IF the pussy is worth it then date it.

It says she likes to have fun. Seems like a good deal, parents raise kid while you can bang her :thumbsup

Seems like the type that would blow your entire bank account in one night if she had the chance, just remember that.

Just be nice and don't hurt the feelings of the kid. Never humiliate the mom in front of the kid, etc. What Rochard said is very sweet, he did the right way, and got the proof of it several years later.
Do not run away just because she has a kid. A mom with a kid of this age is most likely living in a very positive era, which you can now experience and 'ride the wave'.

This is a new perspective... If the mom is selfish/childish woman who doesn't give a fuck to her kid: leave, she is an asshole. :2 cents:

Run.


8chars

If you want to be a father stay. If not, run.

The sooner u meet the kid the better. Why would a woman want to date a guy for 6-8 months only to find out both u and the kid dont get along?

She wants to date him for 6-8 months so by then it won't matter if him and the kid get along. She likely doesn't care.

its so the kid doesn't have different guys coming and going. if she introduces the kid to every guy she dates, thats going to be a mind fuck for the kid.

This is why I don't get too involved with women that have kids.

Psycho boyfriend or husband that is in your life.
Grandparents that are negative as shit and pollute the kid towards you.
No privacy, and anything you say and do is relayed to the ex and grandparents.
If the kids are older they are suddenly looking to you for money/cars/school

I don't know man ?? find out for yourself, but don't paint yourself into a corner. I've had great relationship that have always ended because of the kid.

Kids, especially that age, are adaptable. Women who leave the decision of who they date or see long term up to a 3 yr old are just plain loco if you ask me.

Yes, if you go you are fucking up.

If you dont have kids, dont date women with kids. If you do have kids, dont date women that dont have kids.

It's a big red flag if a woman wants to introduce you to her kid right away. I kept my kid away from meeting my dates until I was serious with one of them.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

First of all, no offense but you are either:

1. A Loser
2. Ugly
3. Both

Any sane person that would consider that trashy whore has their own set of problems. Take a look at yourself and then punch yourself in the head.

It depends on the kid and the kids biological father.
If the dad was killed or was respectable in some way or form, then yes.

If the dad comes from a less than favorable race or background then run, that kids going to be just a problem down the road.

Even though I fully understand evolution and human behavior and the rationale of why people do things the way they do them, it doesn't mean I'll have sympathy for a girl with that.

I just finished up a relationship with an Italian girl who had a kid. She really started to dig into me and it was mostly because she's 27 now, has a kid and for a woman that's not good. For the most part the only men she could get aren't very good, and I was a diamond in the rough.

Depends on what you want in the end, make your own decisions as that's the most important skill you can have in this situation.

Marry her.

Then she has a babysitter while she's out fucking other guys until 4 AM.

Unless you want to be a Daddy run like Hell, right the fuck now.
The upside of the pussy is not worth the downside.

:2 cents:

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh