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Milfer 10-21-2012 12:45 PM

How to Get Women in bed? My summery for Pick up Hot Chicks
 
During last few months I have read various books about picking up hot chicks, in my opinion, the dating Game can be summarized in following three steps:
  1. Personality to Impress
  2. Confidence to Approach
  3. Verbal Communication Skills to Engage

Let me elaborate a bit:

1. Personality to Impress

Your personality is really her perceived value about you: Being well dressed, Well Grooms, having positive body language etc

2. Confidence to Approach

Perhaps this is where most men failed; you are not getting chicks unless you approach them. Once you have impressed them with your personality, you simply have to muster up the courage and introduce yourself to them. Don’t use sleazy pick up lines, they don’ work, at least most of the time.

3. Verbal Communication Skills to Engage

It is not important what you say, but how you say it. You can’t just talk to women, as you do to your men buddies, remember they are wired differently. Try to create variation in your tone to sound more natural. Don’t talk too much. Simple rule let them talk 80% of the time.


Good Luck Brothers

Please share your thoughts. All the success

ErectMedia 10-21-2012 12:51 PM

+ Make em laugh= Jackpot :2 cents:

pornmasta 10-21-2012 12:54 PM

i don't need women, i jerk off (anyway most of them are not professionals)

L-Pink 10-21-2012 12:55 PM

4) Place tube socks in pants before approaching.

stillsexy 10-21-2012 12:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Milfer (Post 19265418)
During last few months I have read various books about picking up hot chicks, in my opinion, the dating Game can be summarized in following three steps:
  1. Personality to Impress
  2. Confidence to Approach
  3. Verbal Communication Skills to Engage

Let me elaborate a bit:

1. Personality to Impress

Your personality is really her perceived value about you: Being well dressed, Well Grooms, having positive body language etc

2. Confidence to Approach

Perhaps this is where most men failed; you are not getting chicks unless you approach them. Once you have impressed them with your personality, you simply have to muster up the courage and introduce yourself to them. Don?t use sleazy pick up lines, they don? work, at least most of the time.

3. Verbal Communication Skills to Engage

It is not important what you say, but how you say it. You can?t just talk to women, as you do to your men buddies, remember they are wired differently. Try to create variation in your tone to sound more natural. Don?t talk too much. Simple rule let them talk 80% of the time.


Good Luck Brothers

Please share your thoughts. All the success

i like the 80% rule... let them talk 80% of the time. I would add another line, only listen to 10% of what they tell you.

epitome 10-21-2012 12:59 PM

Say you're gay and then they will try to turn you. Get drunk, let them succeed, blame it on the alcohol and then say its awkward when they try talking to you again.

mineistaken 10-21-2012 01:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stillsexy (Post 19265450)
i like the 80% rule... let them talk 80% of the time. I would add another line, only listen to 10% of what they tell you.

Shit, I talk about 40% of the time, I must cut my talking time in half :2 cents:

pornmasta 10-21-2012 01:24 PM

you know, you don't need to have sex with women to make children...

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Bad18yroldvirginteens 10-21-2012 01:27 PM

big cock is all............

Emil 10-21-2012 01:28 PM

1: Make a lot of money

stillsexy 10-21-2012 01:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bad18yroldvirginteens (Post 19265506)
big cock is all............

how could they tell if u have big cock or cocks?

epitome 10-21-2012 01:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bad18yroldvirginteens (Post 19265506)
big cock is all............

LOL you know nothing about women. So many things higher on the list.

Mr Pheer 10-21-2012 01:45 PM

Flash the black credit card when buying them a drink.

Win!

DatePoster 10-21-2012 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Milfer (Post 19265418)

It is not important what you say, but how you say it.

You have a point. I have been getting some good ratios on my current pick up line "May I have some pussy?"

Paul Markham 10-21-2012 02:02 PM

http://pornmemoirs.com/category/seduction-techniques/

Quote:

It is not important what you say, but how you say it.
Open with a line that hasn't been used 1,000 times before or use one that has and turn it into "A corny joke." For instance, "If I ask, if I can buy you a drink, will you loan me the money?" You have to deliver it right. I always loved the mistaking them for someone I used to know.

If eyes connect before you've crossed the room, greet them silently as if you know them. Then walk across and say something lie, "You're not Susan from Brook High School, or are you?" Then straight into an apology, why you said it "because you look just like her" and then introduce yourself in a way to enquire her name and where she is from.

Learn how to get them talking, be interested in what they say, do, think, listen and reply. Make them laugh.

Of course I just told them I was a photographer and they looked like a model I wanted to book. Never told them I did porn.

Rinkle 10-21-2012 03:11 PM

In Sweden, this is what works for me and -well pretty much anyone else:

Bars/cafee/library/whatever:
1. Find a nice looking girl, any girl, if they are kissing another dude - ok not her.
2. Stop thinking and go up to her and just say "Hi, I'm <your name>, are you alone?"
2.1. If she answeres "No, get the fuck out of my face!": Say "Sorry.", walk to the other end of the bar/room start from #1 agian.
2.2. If she answeres "No."/"yes"/etc ask if its okay that you joind her/them
2.2.1. The reason your asking is because your "buddy" went away with a girl/dog/whatever and left you alone.
3. Be your fucking self, ask a bunch of questions about her, the place, the city.
4. Bars only: Dont brag about your "superstardom" (unless you own a ferrari and its parked outside)
5. Ask what she has planed to do after the bar/etc
5.1. Her answer "You.": Go to her/your/gods place and let her illustrate
5.2. Her answer: "I dont know."/"Going to a friends"/anything else: Tell her to go with you instead, to her/your/gods place
6. Use a rubber.

If your insecure, show it, use it to your advantage. I used to be all shy but then, after a while, I dont feel shy at all anymore. practice makes perfect.

mce 10-21-2012 03:14 PM

Learning how to spell Summary correctly helps too


/just breaking your balls, bro. Great post!

SIK 10-21-2012 03:15 PM

I just arrange a date where I gotta pick them up by car first, then I sit them in my mercedes and drive to a fancy place. Works like a charm.

I'm also a handsome gym fanatic mofo, that kinda helps too.

mineistaken 10-21-2012 03:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SIK (Post 19265675)
I just arrange a date where I gotta pick them up by car first, then I sit them in my mercedes and drive to a fancy place. Works like a charm.

Yep, best to buy them if you don't have good personality/charisma

mce 10-21-2012 03:23 PM

How do UGLY MEN end up with FINE women?

onwebcam 10-21-2012 03:31 PM

You should work for yessignals

Milfer 10-21-2012 05:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Emil (Post 19265510)
1: Make a lot of money

...and get mail order bride :1orglaugh

Milfer 10-21-2012 05:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JohnnyClips (Post 19265526)
I go more by "vibes" than anything

If a girl is not compatible with you based on certain energy and astrological factors then you're wasting your time anyways :2 cents:

Off course you wanna only work on the girls you think you are compatible with :thumbsup

Milfer 10-21-2012 05:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by epitome (Post 19265454)
Say you're gay and then they will try to turn you. Get drunk, let them succeed, blame it on the alcohol and then say its awkward when they try talking to you again.

Nope I don't think if you say you are gay, she is ever going to try to turn you on. She will think you are one of them :1orglaugh

sarettah 10-21-2012 05:35 PM

http://yessignals.com/BodyLanguage.html :thumbsup

Quote:

Sideways Glance Over a Raised Shoulder
A body language gesture used by women to attract, approach, meet and seduce men.
http://yessignals.com/images/glance4.jpg

Milfer 10-21-2012 05:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by onwebcam (Post 19265697)
You should work for yessignals

Nope that is fake, I am talking about real life stuff. :1orglaugh

Milfer 10-21-2012 05:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bad18yroldvirginteens (Post 19265506)
big cock is all............

... only if you are a pornstar. :2 cents:

Young 10-21-2012 05:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JohnnyClips (Post 19265443)
It really isn't that difficult and becomes boring and mundane after 100+ girls

this.

i've fucked 100's of girls. got bored and finally got myself a serious girlfriend. cheated on her with dozens of girls over the last 6 years. i walked all over her emotionally. there was just something about being with complete strangers that kept me fucking other girls. she broke up with me, didn't catch me cheating, she just had enough of me not caring as much as she did. i earned it.

was single for 18 months, fucked dozens of other girls. finally realized that it's overrated.

got myself a good one now. she's hot, smart, and doesn't put up with my bullshit. can't walk all over this one. can't cheat. can't be a scumbag.

TL;DR - been with 100's of girls, cheated on my gf all the time, got old. new girl. no more need for strange.

pornmasta 10-21-2012 08:37 PM

where is achmed ?

Paul Markham 10-22-2012 01:15 AM

A lot depends on the first 3 impressions.

Visual = Do you interest her when she sees you.

Approach = Body language she likes.

Words = An opening statement.

After that if you're thinking of only getting her into bed if she's hot. You're likely to be doomed. Unless she's a slut and we all know so many of you don't like the sluts who work in tis business to provide you with a living and you would never sleep with them. :1orglaugh

Bit of sarcasm there. :winkwink:

lakerslive 10-22-2012 01:32 AM

they should make a porn niche on this

John-ACWM 10-22-2012 02:47 AM

There are never magic rules.

Milfer 10-22-2012 04:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by John-ACWM (Post 19266391)
There are never magic rules.

These are not magic rules, these are tested hard facts. :winkwink:

Milfer 10-22-2012 04:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 19266339)
A lot depends on the first 3 impressions.

Visual = Do you interest her when she sees you.

Approach = Body language she likes.

Words = An opening statement.

After that if you're thinking of only getting her into bed if she's hot. You're likely to be doomed. Unless she's a slut and we all know so many of you don't like the sluts who work in tis business to provide you with a living and you would never sleep with them. :1orglaugh

Bit of sarcasm there. :winkwink:

Visual mostly implies with how you are dressed, groomed, your height, body type etc

nico-t 10-22-2012 04:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stillsexy (Post 19265450)
i like the 80% rule... let them talk 80% of the time. I would add another line, only listen to 10% of what they tell you.

i would add another line, only REALLY listen to 0% what they say. It's all uninteresting bullshit anyways :1orglaugh

Milfer 10-23-2012 12:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 19266508)
i would add another line, only REALLY listen to 0% what they say. It's all uninteresting bullshit anyways :1orglaugh

Yeah, just pretend that you are paying attention to her, not some other hottie in surrounding, hahah Lol :1orglaugh

Due 10-23-2012 12:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stillsexy (Post 19265450)
i like the 80% rule... let them talk 80% of the time. I would add another line, only listen to 10% of what they tell you.

Not even needed... Just pick a random word every few minutes and asked them to tell more as that seems VERY interesting..,

If you pay too much attention they think your only goal is to fuck them and if you do not listen enough your an asshole that just wish to fuck them....
Ps if you have a full on normal conversion you are going to be their new best gay friend

Most women made their choice within the first few minutes of meeting you ... After that pretty much anything you do is either neutral or negative....

Good luck :-P

Mutt 10-23-2012 01:01 AM

for 90% of GFY this is the magic formula

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_2GOp00WR4X...creepy-van.jpg

http://lh3.ggpht.com/_gO4ROrPzBkk/Sn...umb%5B3%5D.jpg

bronco67 10-23-2012 09:16 AM

You could also try crawling back into mommy's womb, and come out as Brad Pitt.

Imortyl Pussycat 10-23-2012 10:14 AM

wow, i was curious to see what the boys thought of as good moves and the original post is very on point :thumbsup i would also agree with Due on the not talking too much or asking too many questions (interrogating), over eager attitude, it comes off as very fake (i know its fake but don't be obvious haha).

digitalfantasies 10-23-2012 10:29 AM

one more solid piece of advice... confidence....

it is very important.. and the best thing... you can fake it...

without actually being it...just act (fake) confidence will increase success!

digitalfantasies 10-23-2012 10:29 AM

another one... talk slow... and it's ok to talk LOUD...

digitalfantasies 10-23-2012 10:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by L-Pink (Post 19265444)
4) Place tube socks in pants before approaching.

and this piece of advice is priceless.. :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh :thumbsup

bronco67 10-23-2012 10:37 AM

Women always make the first move...even when the guy thinks he's the one making the move.

Digest that.

mavruda 10-23-2012 10:53 AM

http://howtoseduceanywoman.net/

At least the video is cool.

CaptainHowdy 10-23-2012 10:55 AM

Dead girls never say "NO" ...

Milfer 10-23-2012 11:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Imortyl Pussycat (Post 19269361)
wow, i was curious to see what the boys thought of as good moves and the original post is very on point :thumbsup i would also agree with Due on the not talking too much or asking too many questions (interrogating), over eager attitude, it comes off as very fake (i know its fake but don't be obvious haha).


Good to see a female feedback ( I hope you really a female, :1orglaugh)

shimmy2 10-23-2012 11:57 AM

i really feel sorry for you guys

HelmutKohl 10-23-2012 12:07 PM

Pretend you don't care, if you do care - you lost before you started !! :winkwink:

Imortyl Pussycat 10-23-2012 12:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Milfer (Post 19269545)
Good to see a female feedback ( I hope you really a female, :1orglaugh)

haha, i'm really a girl. if you were at the Euro shows you would have seen me running around in Amsterdam, Prague and Munich representing JuiycAds :)


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