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07-13-2011, 07:17 AM

Ok somtimes I get the best advice on GFY so here it goes......

I went on vacation for a week up to Philly. I gave my "friend" of 20 years $350 to come over and watch my dogs, she stayed at my house as her air conditioner isn't working. I left on Friday and was going to come back the next Friday on Monday she calls and asks what time on Tuesday was a coming home I tell her that I wasn't going to be home till Friday. Every day she called and bugs the shit out of me so I left on Thursday.

Now I get home and couldn't even get into my house as the storm door was locked, I was pissed! She get's up, granted it was only 11:30 and lets me in. My house is fucking trashed I mean trashed. She goes home as I couldn't say a word to her.

I then go to wash the sheets on my bed only to fined a huge burn hole in my bed, sheets and a nice quilt. I haven't even been able to talk to her as I have no clue what to say.I did see her 2 days later to get the key, I was so mad I didn't say a word.

What do I say to her or should I just never talk to her? She keeps calling and I haven't picked up the phone. Thanks GFY for helping a girl out!
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07-13-2011, 07:19 AM

Half the $$$ before the trip, the other half when you get back.

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07-13-2011, 07:20 AM

you need to pick up the phone and let the bitch have it

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07-13-2011, 07:30 AM

what the fuck did she do for such short time, jez

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07-13-2011, 07:31 AM

when she gave you the key you should have thrown the sheets/quilt in her face and said "here, you left something and you can come back to pick up the burned bed later"

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07-13-2011, 07:36 AM

maybe get a real job instead of sigwhoring and get rid of your loser ghetto friends who would do that kind of shit. I cant think of any of my friends who would be such ignorant ass slobs, redicilous behavior.
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07-13-2011, 07:38 AM

Burn holes in the bed, sheets & quilt? Do you smoke cigarettes in the house yourself and did you allow her to smoke in the house while you were away?
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07-13-2011, 07:39 AM

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07-13-2011, 07:40 AM

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you need to pick up the phone and let the bitch have it

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07-13-2011, 07:41 AM

Call her up and ask her what happened. If she has no good explanation you just hang-up.

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07-13-2011, 07:43 AM

ask her to come by and help clean up
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07-13-2011, 07:51 AM

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07-13-2011, 08:19 AM

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07-13-2011, 08:32 AM

Not sure what to tell you. Pick up the phone when it's her next time and while you have her on there, say "OH MY GOD, what the hell happened to my BED!???????" ??

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07-13-2011, 08:32 AM

that sucks man, ask her wtf happened!? and dont pay her shit!

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07-13-2011, 08:34 AM

You need better friends.

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07-13-2011, 08:36 AM

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I dunno, get some better friends? My friends would not even "think" to smoke in my house or fuck something up and not replace it. Last time I let some friends use my fishing shack there were steaks in the freezer and the boat and generator gas cans were filled. They now have a key.

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07-13-2011, 08:36 AM

I never really understand the whole house sitting thing. Really just doesn't make sense to me. And then to pay somebody, a friend, $350 to do it? Nuts.

Sounds like a shitty friend either way. I try to cut people like that out of my life. Take it as a $350 lesson and move on.

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07-13-2011, 08:46 AM

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07-13-2011, 08:47 AM

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I never really understand the whole house sitting thing. Really just doesn't make sense to me. And then to pay somebody, a friend, $350 to do it? Nuts.

Sounds like a shitty friend either way. I try to cut people like that out of my life. Take it as a $350 lesson and move on.

I was thinking the same thing, plus her AC was out so it should have been considered a favor to let her use your house. Even if she just needed to stop by and check on the dogs, why would you pay her $350 for that?

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07-13-2011, 09:02 AM

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07-13-2011, 09:05 AM

yeah, i would definitely look for new friends - none of my friends would ever pull shit like that - especially without apologizing

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07-13-2011, 09:09 AM

Definitely get new friends. Was this a neighbor in the trailer park or something?
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07-13-2011, 09:15 AM

Yeah, I can't imagine paying a friend any money for taking care of my animals, they'd be offended if I tried. A friend of 20 years? lol
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07-13-2011, 09:16 AM

call her and let her know that you hadn't been able to compose yourself after seeing the state of your place or you would have talked to her sooner. tell her you were shocked and mortified at the condition of the place and let her know what you found. ask her to explain herself and then say nothing more so she is forced to speak. let her ramble on or hear her say "what do you mean?". tell her it was totally unacceptable and a good friend would never dream of trashing your place. move her to the aquaintence category after the call. that's what i would do anyway

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07-13-2011, 09:20 AM

Originally posted by Imortyl Pussycat

call her and let her know that you hadn't been able to compose yourself after seeing the state of your place or you would have talked to her sooner. tell her you were shocked and mortified at the condition of the place and let her know what you found. ask her to explain herself and then say nothing more so she is forced to speak. let her ramble on or hear her say "what do you mean?". tell her it was totally unacceptable and a good friend would never dream of trashing your place. move her to the aquaintence category after the call. that's what i would do anyway

I don't think her friend will know what the words "mortified" and "compose" even mean.

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07-13-2011, 09:20 AM

Friends don't pay friends to do favors.

Friends don't destroy their friend's property.

Conclusion: She is NOT your friend, but you already knew that going in, as you felt obligated to pay her $350 to "do you a favor".

Time to get some new/real friends...

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07-13-2011, 09:28 AM

Originally posted by BFT3K

Friends don't pay friends to do favors.

Friends don't destroy their friend's property.

Conclusion: She is NOT your friend, but you already knew that going in, as you felt obligated to pay her $350 to "do you a favor".

Time to get some new/real friends...

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07-13-2011, 09:35 AM

Gather as much information as you can. Then ask her what happened. If she lies, then destroy her.

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07-13-2011, 09:41 AM

Put a cigarette out on her nipple in exchange for your ruined sheets and quilt, then kick her ass to the curb ;)

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07-13-2011, 09:41 AM

Originally posted by Imortyl Pussycat

call her and let her know that you hadn't been able to compose yourself after seeing the state of your place or you would have talked to her sooner. tell her you were shocked and mortified at the condition of the place and let her know what you found. ask her to explain herself and then say nothing more so she is forced to speak. let her ramble on or hear her say "what do you mean?". tell her it was totally unacceptable and a good friend would never dream of trashing your place. move her to the aquaintence category after the call. that's what i would do anyway

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07-13-2011, 09:42 AM

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Gather as much information as you can. Then ask her what happened. If she lies, then destroy her.

destroy her? like are we talking make up terrible things and tell it to her hair dresser destroy? Slay a dragon? or full on death star?

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07-13-2011, 09:46 AM

Is her house messy? it could be in her mind thats clean.

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07-13-2011, 09:50 AM

Originally posted by Gabriel

Half the $$$ before the trip, the other half when you get back.

Good point but when you have known the person for 20 years and they need the $$ to pay the rent you give it to them.
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07-13-2011, 09:54 AM

Originally posted by TurboAngel

Good point but when you have known the person for 20 years and they need the $$ to pay the rent you give it to them.

No *you* give it to them, and that's part of your problem. I have friends I have known for a long time and never have I helped pay their bills.
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07-13-2011, 09:55 AM

Originally posted by Imortyl Pussycat

call her and let her know that you hadn't been able to compose yourself after seeing the state of your place or you would have talked to her sooner. tell her you were shocked and mortified at the condition of the place and let her know what you found. ask her to explain herself and then say nothing more so she is forced to speak. let her ramble on or hear her say "what do you mean?". tell her it was totally unacceptable and a good friend would never dream of trashing your place. move her to the aquaintence category after the call. that's what i would do anyway

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07-13-2011, 09:55 AM

Originally posted by Jim_Gunn

Burn holes in the bed, sheets & quilt? Do you smoke cigarettes in the house yourself and did you allow her to smoke in the house while you were away?

I don't smoke in my bedroom only in the living room and yes everyone is right I do think the friendship is over and NO I would have never expected for her to do anything like this or I would have sent my dogs to "camp".

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07-13-2011, 09:56 AM

Sorry TA, I had trouble getting past the part where you paid $350 for someone (a "friend" no less) to housesit for a week. And then you find your place trashed when you get home?

All I'll say is this; sometimes girl you are a terrible judge of character.

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07-13-2011, 09:56 AM

Originally posted by TurboAngel

Good point but when you have known the person for 20 years and they need the $$ to pay the rent you give it to them.

I wouldn't.

Friends/family and money do not mix.

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07-13-2011, 10:01 AM

Originally posted by lazycash

I was thinking the same thing, plus her AC was out so it should have been considered a favor to let her use your house. Even if she just needed to stop by and check on the dogs, why would you pay her $350 for that?

I would think she would be thankful for the myself, she had it set at 69. The more I think about it the madder I get. I paid her as it was a job.
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07-13-2011, 10:08 AM

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You had to pay a friend of 20 years $350 to walk your dogs? Sounds like you need some real friends.

No she stayed and watched the dogs, had to pay the dog walker to walk them. She had done this before and I didn't come home to anything like what I came home to this time. I wouldn't have let her do it if I had known.
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07-13-2011, 10:13 AM

Sounds like your friend is a drug addict.
You need to rethink your friends over this, and over having friends that can't pay their rent.
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07-13-2011, 10:15 AM

Originally posted by TurboAngel

No she stayed and watched the dogs, had to pay the dog walker to walk them. She had done this before and I didn't come home to anything like what I came home to this time. I wouldn't have let her do it if I had known.

LOL so you paid her to stay at your house and you also paid another person to walk the dog?

Please send me money, I'll walk your dog too. I'm cheap.

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07-13-2011, 10:21 AM

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destroy her? like are we talking make up terrible things and tell it to her hair dresser destroy? Slay a dragon? or full on death star?

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07-13-2011, 10:32 AM

Next time just pay the dog walker a little extra to check on your house, bring in your mail, feed the dogs, water the plants, etc.

You'll save on sheets that way.

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07-13-2011, 10:44 AM

beat her fuckin ass home girl. is she on drugs or something? 4 real chin check her ass!

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07-13-2011, 10:46 AM

After knowing her for 20 years you had no idea she's an undependable pig?
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07-13-2011, 12:41 PM

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07-13-2011, 01:10 PM

Originally posted by Sly

LOL so you paid her to stay at your house and you also paid another person to walk the dog?

Please send me money, I'll walk your dog too. I'm cheap.

If you were in NC that might work.
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07-13-2011, 01:12 PM

Originally posted by punker barbie

Is her house messy? it could be in her mind thats clean.

She OCD about her house not a thing out of place. She has always been that way. If I had known I would have sent the dogs to camp. She has watched the dogs before and I didn't come home to a mess.
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