Swingers on gfy - a question
 

I know there are at least a couple of them here :) I don't get it, why would you let other dudes fuck your wife? :helpme

I mean don't you feel bad watching someone fuck your wife? What if he has a bigger cock?

I started a thread a few years ago, it went big, all kind of cuckolds were standing up....ill try to look it up

here it is

fucking-around-and-business-discussion/819241-wife-fucked.html

enjoy the read

I do but without me knowing it :Oh crap ...

I've never run into anyone at a swinger party with a bigger cock that me, so no worries there.

For me, I just like to see my girl having a good time and enjoying herself. It's pretty simple in my case.

Thank you :)

because while shes doing that you can bang other chicks too. its just good fun.

not my kind of thing but I understand it completely...

think about it, most guys want to be with multiple girls most of the time anyway (it's innate so don't even bother trying to deny that) so swingers deal with it by telling their significant others that they want to be in an open relationship. So by doing that it opens the door for you to be with other women and allows your gf/wife to do the same. I should mention that both parties would have to be 100% for it before doing it or it would be a mess i would imagine!

As for worrying about other guys dicks being bigger than yours and you worried about your gf/wife enjoying someone else more that is more of a confidence issue.

in short, better than cheating isn't it? This way nobody gets betrayed or lied to.

Absolutely not. And I'm gay, so considering the stereotypes, I should be all for a swinger relationship. But no. If either of us found out the other fucked around, within 15 minutes the other would simply pack-up and leave without even saying goodbye. And we both know that about each other.

To each their own, but I can't comprehend sharing my life with someone who is fucking around on me like that. What's the point of even sharing your life with someone then? The entire point is to be there for each other through the thick & thin no matter what, and to share your lives together. It'd be impossible to have that if you're fucking around on each other.

For the swingers out there, I have a question. If you ended up with terminal illness like cancer, do you believe your wife or GF would be at your hospital bedside every day for 6 or 12 months until you died?

Watching someone fuck my wife is actually pretty hot, and I'm secure enough that if someone has a bigger dick woopdy doo Basil, let her enjoy it!

Sex does not equal love or commitment...

It's simple really... I like fucking and so does my wife. We are funny like that... and variety in our fucking makes it even better.

If my wife wants to leave me (for whatever reason), she will leave and so will your wife or girlfriend. If a bigger cock is the reason... well I guess I have to deal with the fact that there are indeed other men with bigger cocks than me. However, in my wifes case... she doesn't really like big cocks... so no worries there. My 7 inches are just fine to meet her needs. In general, I find that men who think like you are much more focused on cock than their wives or girlfriends. Maybe you should consider the fact that you are infatuated with cock.

Even when I wasn't married I got alot of sex because I am not really all that particular. I like variety and some of the best sex I have ever had was with girls that were fairly plain looking. Most women can pretty much get all of the sex they want...

A cuckold is someone who just wants to watch their wife get fucked... typically, they sit in the corner and just watch. They get off on their own victimization. I am not a cuckold.

I think that any man that says that they don't want to fuck anyone but their wife/girlfriend is a liar. Same goes for women to a lesser degree because women just don't think the same way as men about sex, generally speaking. However, they do have sexual fantasies about other men... whoever that may be. The difference is the desire to actually do the deed... and if given the opportunity... I am sure that most women will cheat just as men do for sexual reasons.

I reject the notion that humans are monogamous by instinct. I have never met a single man who doesn't look at someone other than their spouse/girlfriend and have a sexual desire for that other person. Men are generally pretty slutty. If it weren't true... there wouldn't be a porn industry. What "vanilla" men don't like is their wife/girlfriend thinking about fucking another man... because they are lightly misogynist by nature. They view women as property rather than person to a degree. They objectify women sexually and that is why there are "porn addicts".

You may not believe this... but the swinger lifestyle is more about empowering the female than the male. The primary focus is her pleasure. Women make the rules (for the most part) in the swinger lifestyle.

In addition, many women in the lifestyle don't fuck any men but their husbands... they are bi-sexual and they will participate in girl/girl play with the husbands watching and then same room sex afterwards or they will do a threesome with another female and their husband. I have had so many threesomes that I can't even count them anymore.

Here is what I think is funny... porn people judging swingers and swingers judging porn people. It makes no sense to me... but it is indeed the case.

Hell... you motherfuckers make movies about guys like me... I am a real life pornstar, brother :) It ain't no joke.

Just read you other post where you let some guy fuck you :1orglaugh


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Read more carefully. It was just a blowjob and I didn't let him shit...

I just met 2 female friends of my wife and i confess i wanted them all at once. I'm not freaking out in my mind :) but I keep it old school in real life.

So you're into shit denial? (new niche?) You blew a constipated friend? :1orglaugh


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This I understand. As long as there's only one cock in room and it's mine :)

And I didn't blew nobody :mad:

real men love watching their wives fucked by hahahahahahas.

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i like shit denial

If you're worried about some dude having a bigger dick, than you're basically of the mindset that your partner is only with you thanks to your cock.

And honey, I am here to tell you: if that's all your partnership is built on, you have a pretty horrible relationship anyhow.

HAHAHA
This seems like it would be the 1st concern ANY potential male swinger would express!!!

I'm rabidly jealous so I'd freak out if I saw my husband doing anything with another woman

I am humbled in the presence of such plainly spoken truth. Word! Preach on! Testify, praise the Lord and pass the lube!

Guys that are worried that their girl will leave them for a dude with a big dick have frigging bigger issues than small penises. People that don't understand people in open relationships just need to realize that people in that community don't get monogomy either. I don't get the jealously and possessiveness that goes hand in hand with living that way. They don't understand the double standard, namely, that women are being sluts if they sleep with more than one guy while guys are being studs if they sleep with more than one woman.

And as for the lying in bed with a terminal illness... if your partner leaves you then that really has less to do with sex and more to do with unconditional love or lack thereof.

Is that really so hard to understand the difference there? I don't think being gay, straight, bi, tri, or whatever has anything to do with that.