Bringing personal crap to a board Whee!!! abortion
 

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I have a feeling I may regret this but seriously I need serious opinions.

The Issue is my fiance left me pregnant and I have a child (who is special needs). I am (or had) an abortion because the child i have now needs my attention to the utmost and raising another i honestly dont think i can handle, and i disagree with bringing another child in this world just to have them go through a possible horrible parent that can not give him/her the attention he/she deserves and just have them be another state child added on to what the state (and practically all over the US has) no way would i want to put a kid through that. sooo without rambling on too much...

the blog o' drama is posted here which has details of an abortion that became a non-private thing to the whole fucking town because of the dim-wit sperm donor that found out. I am getting calls from redneck assholes and the whole nine yards (yay for living in the bible belt)

so here is the blog and i am "RAWR" and the other bitch is Ginny.

be gentle LOL
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...p=1&indicate=1

It's your body,your decision.

birth control is a wonderful thing

Quoted for truth... Sucks that you are getting crap over it.. You did what you thought was right for yourself and any little one...

abortion isnt a substitute for birth control

Neither is disco music.

You should stick to anal sex.

Im staying out of it.

How many weeks you are pregnant? If its under 9 weeks, you can get medical abortion. Its easy and painless.

What the fuck? Why dont you have the child and let someone adopt it?

it is i completely agree:thumbsup although in this situation we were practically married and ready to add an addition ya know? so he was excited for the first weeks pulled in a second job because I was feeling the hormones and was constantly sick and unable to work as much as i always have.
His job became too much and he pulled the irresponsible act of moving in with his friend and decided to say fuck it to the comittment of pregnancy, family, and said fuck it all pratically. I choose to keep the family i have now (my son) and keep him as number one and realized through much thinking that i can not handle another child on my own. and no adoption is not an option and that is another story in its own LOL.
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What the fuck, youll kill a human life but you wont give it away?

you're fake ultra republican act, trying to bait people on what is a largely liberal board is not only getting boring.... it was played out immediately.

at least stay consistent with your views/attitudes and opinions if you are going to continue... don't spew hate 24/7 and then pretend to be compasionate because you think you have the chance to incite people over a sensitive issue.

You really don't owe anyone an explanation. You made the decision you thought was right for you and your family. Live with it, learn from it, and move on.

Why the fuck would someone say "ADOPTION IS NOT AN OPTION"?

why the fuck would you try to continually bait people into moronic arguments that are unwinnable... only to end in your usual declarations of you being "most intelligent sig whore in the galaxy"?

you dont care one way or another... you just think you are being clever by baiting people into arguments that you think you can win and you dont give a shit what side of the fence those arguments are on.

you're boring.

i like watching people piss on forums. its entertainment in between working. but you aren't witty, you aren't clever, you aren't very smart and you come off like an asshole that would argue that the moon is made of cheese if you felt someone would challenge you on it.

Its a potential life not a LIFE and no i don't think adoption is best choice for me.

look at all the unwanted children that are under state that ARE lives and deserve love just as much. Why are they not adopted with all the willing adoptees out there :Oh crap foster care is hell.

you seem to think there are people lined up to adopt kids

IT IS LIFE period but whatever.
Adoption is not the choice for you? What about the kid?
What the fuck are you talking about? Newborn adoption rates are nearly 100%!

Yes baddog there are literally WAITING LISTS of people who want to adopt NEWBORNS, we arent talking about 10yr old kids with drug mothers here.

And your decision

**puts on shades**

...got our attention.

Let hem help you out. There are a lot of idiots on GFY. Dont trust what most of them say.

First of all, i have no clue how old you are whatsoever. But, for each abortion a women makes, she risks to never be able to get pregnant again. So if you plan to get more kids in the future...... Well.

If you consider to have this baby, think like this:
1. Will the baby have both parents avaible ?
2. Will I have the economy and time to be the mother that this child needs?
3. Can I offer everything this child needs?

I dont know how life is where you live, but where I live, no one wants to touch a singlemonther with kids. Who would? Are you willing to give up your little time that you have for yourself for this kid?

Women always thinks that when they are pregnant from day 1, there is a child in their stomach. I dont know how many weeks you have been pregnant, but if its the first month or a little after that, like 6 weeks. Then do make a abortion. You dont have a child in your stomach by definition, yet.

If you are healthy and not using drugs, you could go for a private adoption with a nice family of your choice after you personally screen them. You can have all your expenses paid and possibly have some sort of open adoption where you can keep in touch with the child as they grow up.

But if you want to abort, that's your right too. I agree with you on the foster system. I was one foster child out of 7 and each and every one went through hell. I seemed to be the luckiest since I was given up (more like taken away) at birth so I had only one foster home for a few months.

If you're going to give up your baby though, do it at birth. Don't try to be a martyr and "give it a try" especially if you already have a special needs child. You shouldn't take away from one to attempt another if you believe in your heart already that you don't think you can pull it off.

There is no greater act of love that you can show other than giving your baby a chance that they might never have otherwise. Don't let anyone tell you differently.

So what's with the dad? He was engaged to you and then left you when he found out you were pregnant? Or was he only engaged to you as a means to control you until he found something better? I'd sue his ass...

25, and if i am blessed when ready to have another child when i can handle even on my own i will be happy if not then that is fine too, IUD will be awesome again.

1.) nope
2.) nope
3.) nope

but for the son i have now i am totally kicking ass with work and raising on my own *luckily*

who cares if another man won't be with me with a kid, I am happy either way and do not expect anyone to come to our rescue from our happy home.

And by definition its not a child till birth otherwise its a zygote, embryo (spelling) and fetus

I am now 14 weeks into pregnancy and no it does not make the situation any better nor easier

I guess i really have done my homework and learned a damn clear lesson and i am way fucking sure. I really do appreciate the info, opinions, and answers no matter how bad or awesome :thumbsup

So up until the child comes out of the womb you believe its ok to abort it? Disgusting. You are obviously uneducated about adoption because newborn infant adoption rates are nearly 100% within the first year of their life, so your excuse about foster care is a fucking lie. You just dont want to go through the trouble of having the child just to give it away, all that work for nothing ehh? Pretty fucking selfish if you ask me, you are no better than your fucking ex-fiance.

One day you WILL regret it, trust me you cant run from your ghosts forever.

Oh and to the people that got a problem with me telling this girl how it is, she did ask for it in this thread.

wow i really value your advice thankyou! i have thought about each and every option, obsticle and so forth and quite honestly "Don't try to be a martyr and "give it a try" especially if you already have a special needs child."
would be something i am more than likely to try out of a later on desperate attempt becuase i do very much have that mommy gene implanted into me in a ridiculous way. i also know facts from so much research lately and soul searching. its so hard to explain too, i love my child and i know a new one won't have all i can give and to just give my child away once it becomes a child is devestating and all the risks that come with it! (wrong parents, or judge a child off my lifestyle so it wont be adopted, foster, etc)


agh so much! it sucks!

"So what's with the dad? He was engaged to you and then left you when he found out you were pregnant? Or was he only engaged to you as a means to control you until he found something better? I'd sue his ass"


we were both in love, engaged, and so we thought i guess were ready for a child i found out the hard way he wasn't and a harder realization that i can't do it alone or give him a potential disaster life

does this make sense LOL i had too much feeling at once and "ramble typed"

14 weeks is really far along for an abortion. imo

Make a abortion. My advice.

your ex is a motherfuckin' coward!!why does he have to left you knowing the fact that you are pregnant?!I just don't really understand some man or if its a MAN who does that to women like us...

1. Get drunk.
2. Hookup with someone & have sex.
3. Have more sex.
4. Get tired & bored of having sex.
5. Start arguing about a lack of sex vs. the other's need for too much sex.
6. Have makeup sex to fix the issue.
7. Start feeling lonely, and blame it on the other person.
8. Argue about feelings.
9. Have makeup sex.
10. Argue about having arguements.
11. Have more makeup sex.
12. To fix all of the issues, get married.
13. If that doesn't work, have a kid.
14. Divorce because you never have sex anymore.
15. Battle over custody.
16. GOTO 1

Largely liberal board, built and run by Republicans. Go figure, eh?

FUCK OFF SHITHEAD.


Abortion is NOT KILLING.


The "life" is NOT SELF AWARE.


The SAME stupid mother fuckers who say "abortion is murder"


A. Never have adopted kids
B. RARELY sponsor children in Africa or some other SHITHOLE where MILLIONS of sentient human children SUFFER IN HORRIBLE FUCKING CONDITIONS.



Anti-abortionists are always self-righteous ignorant assholes who do NOTHING to help the living who are suffering, but will fight to the end to "save" a clump of unaware cells.


Assholes.

But for the lack of a single condom, I lost 2 minutes of my life reading this. :(

Yes but chances are in that 2 minutes you got to witness a rottweiler bite something which made it worthwhile.

your body, your choice
its a fertilized embryo not a child.

adoption systems is sometimes flawed

The alert fighter Rottweilers are upside down snoring. Useless lumps. :mad:

People who have and support abortion are self-centered murdering pieces of shit. You want to snuff out a life because you are selfish, take your own. People who have abortions are no better than the Virginia Tech murderer who decide when to snuff out a life. Go fuck yourself.

We are not talking about an older kid that is at risk of being caught up in the system. There are in fact huge waiting lists for couples wanting to adopt babies. So whether the baby goes to the state or a private adoption, his or her early life of eat, poop, sleep isn't going to be affected in the short transition. Again, there are people who desperately want this baby and can provide a great, stable home.

If finances of the pregnancy are a concern, many adoptive couples are more than willing to pay for 100% of your medical expenses. Check out parentprofiles.com to see the types of people wanting to hear from you.

Hey you mother fucking piece of human garbage, how many lives have YOU FUCKING helped save?


Let's hear it.


Oh wait, 0?


Then please, shut the fuck up. You have no right to speak. There are living children suffering right now while you are slamming this woman's right to abort an unwanted growth inside of her. It is not self-aware.


There are self-aware human beings suffering in hell holes around the world right now, what makes them less important than something that is completely unaware of it's existence?


Are you a believer in God, or not? Either way, logic and reason would show you that abortion is nothing more than plucking a wart off the skin.

What about all the indian, black, chinese kids orphaned around the world?


Oh wait, they are out of sight, out of mind. Fuck them, they can suffer. They can goto fucking hell for all we care, right?


Hey Matt, how about you adopt Kitty's kid? What, not man enough?


Fucking idiots all around who suggest adoption but have never, and will never, adopt themselves. The absolute hypocrisy of anti-abortionists is astounding.