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Fighting Vs letting go (ex girlfriend)

05-15-2005, 01:34 PM

I'm facing a F**king huge dilema...

I split up a month ago. She told me I was the man of her life. I love her, there is nothing I wouldn't do for her. But as soon as got toghter we strated having problems. So after 3 months we splited up.

I still love her. She says she doesn't.

Should I fight back and try to remeber her why we use to be so madly in love by asking her out ? or should I simply let go and forget about that girl ?

What's the best for both of us ?

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05-15-2005, 01:40 PM

let it go

"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."

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05-15-2005, 01:42 PM

Originally posted by beemk

let it go

"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."

but what if she was "the one" ...

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05-15-2005, 01:43 PM

Go fuck her sister.

If she doesn't have one, fuck her best friend...

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05-15-2005, 01:44 PM

I still love her. She says she doesn't.

Case closed.
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05-15-2005, 01:45 PM

I have gone through this like 2 years ago.
now - always let her go - its not the end - its the new begining of your free life man

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05-15-2005, 01:53 PM

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05-15-2005, 01:57 PM

Originally posted by swedguy

Case closed.

I wish it could be simple as that... the problem is she in three month never told me she loved me. When I asked why she reply that she wasn't able to admit she love someone because she was afraid of being hurt... (Let just say her father wasn't a good gentleman with her mother.) She also reply that she didn't had to tell me that cause I could feel it anyway...

So technically she never loved me if I belive what she says ... so this time I'm not sure if she means it or not ...

A week ago she went to my appart for things she forgot her. When she arrived I gave her the things she went for, and she was standing there without saying anything, but keept standing there ...

I believe that she doesn't love me anymore, but she I think she want to fall in love again ... if you can see what I mean

that's why I have such difficulties letting go.

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05-15-2005, 01:59 PM

forget it - she dont love you - move along

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05-15-2005, 02:00 PM

Originally posted by qw12er

I wish it could be simple as that... the problem is she in three month never told me she loved me.

So within three months you expect a girl to tell you she loves you?

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05-15-2005, 02:03 PM

3 months?!?!

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05-15-2005, 02:03 PM

Originally posted by qw12er

the problem is she in three month never told me she loved me.

Originally posted by qw12er

..... we use to be so madly in love by asking her out ?

Something doesn't add up.
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05-15-2005, 02:04 PM

Originally posted by fuzebox

3 months?!?!

Go out with your buddies tonight, get drunk and laid.

That's the whole point ... I'm tired of doing that ... I wanted something stable for once.

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05-15-2005, 02:07 PM

leave now

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05-15-2005, 02:11 PM

Originally posted by swedguy

Something doesn't add up.

She didn't told me on a daily basis ... but she wrote me an e-mail once to explain everything and in that email she explained that she was madly in love ...

I don't understand why none of you fight back ? (I'm probably wrong on this since every buddy seems to agree... )

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05-15-2005, 02:11 PM

body ... not buddy :-P sorry

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05-15-2005, 02:13 PM

if it bothers you SO much, try 1 more time to get back together, and see if you can amake it work out
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05-15-2005, 02:19 PM

I did that shit for 6 years on and off, leave the hoe alone, find a new one best move I ever did, it felt like shit at first but time passes and things get better, much better.

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05-15-2005, 02:24 PM

Originally posted by qw12er

I don't understand why none of you fight back ?

You fight when there's something to fight for.

If you feel that there's something to fight for, do it. But don't do it just because YOU feel that you want a stable relationship with someone.
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05-15-2005, 02:56 PM

You are a chump if you have to fight for a girl........

A girl should be willing to fight for you.

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05-15-2005, 03:10 PM

deflate her, put her back in the box and return to the shop and ask for a replacement

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05-15-2005, 03:23 PM

Let her go. The "I dont love you anymore" is a losing battle.

Years from now you will be kicking yourself in the ass for even getting upset about this.

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05-15-2005, 03:27 PM

Originally posted by Cains

deflate her, put her back in the box and return to the shop and ask for a replacement

blow up dolls are not meant to have emotional baggage

LOL good one

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05-15-2005, 03:30 PM

oh my is this GFY?...i think i'm gonna cry....

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05-15-2005, 03:32 PM

Originally posted by swedguy

You fight when there's something to fight for.

If you feel that there's something to fight for, do it. But don't do it just because YOU feel that you want a stable relationship with someone.

I strongly agree with you !
But my problem is that I can't be sure if there is or isn't something to fight back... my question is does it worth trying ? or a just walk away ...

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05-15-2005, 04:36 PM

What part of let it go, don't you understand.

a relationship is 2 ways, if she cares for you as much as you THINK you love her, then she will let you know.

so if she is not crying and saying ... bla bla .. then let it go and find another girl and trust me you will THINK you love her too

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05-15-2005, 04:44 PM

Kill her and bury her in the crawlspace under your house.

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05-15-2005, 04:45 PM

move on dude or at least try
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05-15-2005, 04:50 PM

Originally posted by qw12er

but what if she was "the one" ...

can't force her to love you back, and pushing yourself onto her will make her want to stay further away.... I'd just go on with your life, and maybe she will realize that you are "the one" and come back.

I wouldn't suggest trying to go around fucking other girls either, that just makes it look like you really didnt care...
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05-15-2005, 05:11 PM

OK , if you are on this forum , you better not care!

as i said earlier , you only THINK you love this girl, since "love is a chemical
straight from your genitals
never is spiritual
never unconditional"( Start Trouble Lyrics -> Chemical Lyrics)

How can you really "LOVE" someone that doesn't "LOVE" you back??

you can't , you just liked f*#*@*g her , try some hot girls you will be in "LOVE" with them too.

and if this girl tells you , its because her dad ... she is just a drama queen. girls that have emotional problems don't talk about it , until years later.

when she is married to you and you don't have much of a choice.
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05-15-2005, 05:27 PM

let it go life is too short
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05-15-2005, 05:27 PM

not worth your time.
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05-15-2005, 05:57 PM

Your just all caught up with feelings now. Dont let her play games with you. if you keep trying you might be in the same spot with her a year from now - walk Away!

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05-15-2005, 10:28 PM

If she doesn't want to be with you then don't bother... you'll get over her, and the faster you move on the easier it will be.
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05-15-2005, 10:35 PM

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05-15-2005, 10:39 PM

3 months and you love her? is this what you said? if so then you are a sick sick fucko, u dont LOVE people after 3 months, only wannabes and phsycos do.

if it is meant to come around it will, until then shut your fucking mouth, you sound like a COMPLETE pussy and it is making my mouth go dry.

SHE will come back if its meant to be, if that doesnt happen or until then WHO FUCKING CARES!? its 1 girl.

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05-15-2005, 10:44 PM

sigh...love.....LET HER GO!!!! go fuck someone else!!!! or maybe GFY!!!
there are a lot a girls out there!! besides, she already your ex.
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05-15-2005, 10:51 PM

Originally posted by MetaMan

3 months and you love her? is this what you said? if so then you are a sick sick fucko, u dont LOVE people after 3 months, only wannabes and phsycos do.

if it is meant to come around it will, until then shut your fucking mouth, you sound like a COMPLETE pussy and it is making my mouth go dry.

SHE will come back if its meant to be, if that doesnt happen or until then WHO FUCKING CARES!? its 1 girl.

people make me fucking sick, get a little pussy and forget they are really men. i want to puke.

couldnt have said it better myself

he does sound like a total pussy

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05-15-2005, 10:56 PM

i kinda in the same situation... it's been like 8 months since I saw her, i'm thinking of giving her a call too but I'm trying to hold myself lol
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05-15-2005, 10:57 PM

Don't listen to these clowns. If you love the girl go after her, if not don't bother. The last thing you want to do is listen to 20 strangers on GFY and still be missing her in 5 years when she's married to some rich old bastard.

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05-15-2005, 10:59 PM

Originally posted by chadglni

Don't listen to these clowns. If you love the girl go after her, if not don't bother. The last thing you want to do is listen to 20 strangers on GFY and still be missing her in 5 years when she's married to some rich old bastard.
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05-15-2005, 11:06 PM

Originally posted by chadglni

Don't listen to these clowns. If you love the girl go after her, if not don't bother. The last thing you want to do is listen to 20 strangers on GFY and still be missing her in 5 years when she's married to some rich old bastard.

o please, key words here fool, did you read:

" SHE SAYS SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM "

real love is not convincing someone of it. dont lie to yourself,

why are you on the internet dont you have some fish to go catch or some beer to drink on the dock?

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05-15-2005, 11:09 PM

Maybe you should grow a set...

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05-15-2005, 11:47 PM

Walking away is a lot easier said than done. Since you're still even thinking about trying to get her back, that's what you're going to do.

Sometimes, I recommend doing it. It's better to know than to not know.
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05-16-2005, 12:11 AM

Originally posted by qw12er

but what if she was "the one" ...
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05-16-2005, 07:06 PM

let her go..it was three months not three years... i prob meant nothing to her if she can just walk away like that so face it man and get over it
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05-16-2005, 07:19 PM

Originally posted by qwe

i kinda in the same situation... it's been like 8 months since I saw her, i'm thinking of giving her a call too but I'm trying to hold myself lol

Call , fuck her , wait another 8 months.
Repeat.

Its always better when you fuck them after 8 months than the shitty routine ;)
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05-16-2005, 07:20 PM

Move on man..she probably already has..it's a pointless battle

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05-16-2005, 07:24 PM

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05-16-2005, 07:29 PM

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