Is making out cheating?
 

ive seen it done alot at bars and clubs..

do u find that its cheating to be making out with people that arent ur significant other?

You can do whatever you want. As long as she dont find out, its not cheating. :thumbsup

yes, it is

yes. I think its even more intimate than sex

ofcourse it is

yes it is

It's cheating whenever you do something sexual with someone other than your significant other without permission.

Yes, the act of kissing at times is more sensual than sex and sharing it with someone else other than your significant other can be seen as cheating.

WG

I agree with that. It's much easier to fuck someone than to intimately make out. :2 cents:

hmm, maybe i could have gotten away with oral sex then lol

Yes it is. Who cares?

No, it's not. Next thing you guys are going to say is that a handy is cheating too.

"Without Permission" being the operative words.

Couldn't agree with you more

YARGH! I don't think so, but if me wifey saw me kissing someone else, she'd saw me other leg off, poke out me other eye with it, then club me parrot!

i also agree with that. :2 cents:

What about flirting?

Cyn

I would say yes! :pimp

Me too and I'm not even a pirate! :Oh crap

only if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend

Would you consider it cheating if you gf made out with some other guy?

Answer your own question.

I would call it cheating.

As an unreformable flirt, I believe it shouldn't count against you as long as it stops at just flirting.

yeah of course

flirting (or "mind fucking" as i like to call it) is addicting for me. i love everything about it. but you just gotta know where to stop the flirting & you'll be fine. its the people that cross the flirting-line that end up cheating. just know you're own boundries.

theres nothing wrong with flirting, you're human, you're going to be attracted to other people no matter what your marital status is.

Yeah, I'm a natural cheat. It takes conscious effort to remain monogamous. Flirting is like cheating on a diet. :)

Most people do consider it cheating unless you are in the swinging lifestyle like Joe and I are. One of my biggest turn ons in life is watching him with another girl while I play with my monster vibrator. I cum in one tenth the time watching him do whatever he wants with my girlfriends. :2 cents:

XOXOXO
*Krystal*

so fuckin true!!!!!!!!!!!! :1orglaugh

Flirting is cheating on a diet! Now there's a sig line! I love it.

Cyn

i masturbate at the club

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

XOXOXO
*Krystal*

I guess if you heard that your significant other was making out with someone in a bar, would you consider them to be cheating on you?

I got really pissed at my wife because she went to a club with some friends from work and made out with a girl she works with in the booth they were at. I guess what pissed me off so bad about it was not that she made out with her, it was that there were a few guys from her work were there and I didnt like the idea of them getting turned on by my wife kissing some girl and I wasnt there to lay claim to her, in a matter of speaking.

If it had been her kissing a man then that probably would have been the end of our marriage and possibly his life. Its a funny thing, a man will not take it as a threat if his woman kisses another woman, but if she kisses a man its a whole different thing. When you look at sexual situations like that you can see just how close to animals we still are, and our agressive, dominant, and territorial side will never be hidden no matter how civilized we believe ourselves to be.

i guess its ok for girls to kiss other girls then..
sigh, i cant win this one.

My standard for "cheating" is this: Would you tell feel comfortable telling your GF or spouse about it?

That's a great measure! :thumbsup

If you're in a different zip code, time zone, or country, it's not cheating.

In all honesty though, making out is cheating.

What's your definition of flirting?

Laughing, eye contact, close whispering and light arm touches are one thing.

Pushing back against a guys raging hardon while he dry humps you at the bar is quite another.

Kissing = Not Cheating!

Sex = Cheating

Not at all. I'm a stripper, so that's considered ok too! :tongue: