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lakerslive 08-29-2012 05:38 AM

Its funny, people don't take you seriously
 
When they ask you what you do and tell them what it is you ACTUALLY do.

Or if you tell them that you ARE your own boss.

lucas131 08-29-2012 05:40 AM

everyone can blow my dick :)

Emil 08-29-2012 05:41 AM

Yeah, people dont think you can make enough money online to support yourself because they're too stupid to figure out how it all would work.

"But you're on welfare too, right?"

Grapesoda 08-29-2012 06:15 AM

I NEVER tell peole what I do

Barry-xlovecam 08-29-2012 06:55 AM

If you tell people that you are in the porn business a lot of them assume you wank all day because that is what they would do if they had the same responsibilities ... Some more savvy people understand that this is a business and can be lucrative -- old story.

In many situations it is better to say you are in online marketing and be more obscuring.

seeme 08-29-2012 07:06 AM

All people I know are so lame when I tell them, they ask me why I don't get a proper job :1orglaugh

CaptainHowdy 08-29-2012 07:08 AM

I'm my own unemployed boss ...

AllAboutCams 08-29-2012 07:25 AM

website stuff

Phoenix 08-29-2012 07:27 AM

people who are lame have a hard time with it...because they never left the safety of a regular paycheck coming from corp.

they dont have the ability to think about owning their own business. be thankful those people exist.


Try to make friends with other business owners. I recently made a good friend, like last year. Mega successful, totally nice guy. Someone to treat as a mentor of sorts.
hanging with your friend who works in a cubicle for ABC corp is not going to help you much, other then good fart jokes.

wehateporn 08-29-2012 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by XYZTraffic (Post 19151657)
All people I know are so lame when I tell them, they ask me why I don't get a proper job :1orglaugh

I received that comment too from a random passerby who was eavesdropping on my conversation in a bank.

Anyway, best people don't know as then there's less competition. I'm very happy that there are people who go to work in supermarkets and drive lorries, and they leave webmastering for us GFYers :2 cents:

SKUP 08-29-2012 07:31 AM

people never take me seriously

kazbalah 08-29-2012 07:34 AM

lol i just tell people i am a web designer, i dont like telling people i make porn sites :P

lucas131 08-29-2012 07:43 AM

yesterday i told my mom that i am selling also trannies, girls with dick, mother said that it is weird, no other problem so far :)

wehateporn 08-29-2012 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by lucas131 (Post 19151721)
yesterday i told my mom that i am selling also trannies, girls with dick, mother said that it is weird, no other problem so far :)

You can tell her but you can't untell her :2 cents:

Paul Markham 08-29-2012 08:01 AM

When I tell people I don't need to work any more, some don't take me seriously. dead right, they're morons. LOL

No posting on GFY isn't work. :1orglaugh

When I tell people I shoot porn they think I also fucked some of the models. Well they got that right. :1orglaugh

rowan 08-29-2012 08:07 AM

My friends think I'm a porn king wandering around naked girls all day. I've never produced content.

kazbalah 08-29-2012 08:10 AM

my m0mz is the porn king of Australia haha, some of my domains are regged in her name lol..

Tom_PM 08-29-2012 08:33 AM

People can and will think whatever the hell they want. I'm not going to waste time on some disrespectful troll baiting me to tell them what I do in greater detail. Screw what they think.

bronco67 08-29-2012 09:50 AM

When I tell people I work from home, I'm sure they probably think I sit around beating my meat -- which is actually only about 5% of my day.

bronco67 08-29-2012 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by JohnnyClips (Post 19151831)
Most people are stunned and in shock when you tell them you don't work a 9 to 5 job. It's like they can't believe it omg he's not a slave! :1orglaugh

Sometimes I have to ride the train into NYC for a client meeting, and I see all of these people in suits, reading charts and graphs and I think to myself "what the fuck do these people do?"

maybe they make more money than me, but I'd shoot myself if I had to shuffle numbers for my entire life. I'd rather shovel shit in a ditch. Yes, I kind of look down on them.

My ex-brother in law worked in financial, and made a big deal about his job all of the time. He was non-stop bragging about the amounts of money going by his desk, and acted like he was doing God's work. He never asked me a single question about what I do, which is infinitely more interesting and I actually create a product. He just leeches onto money made by other people and shaves some off the top, and acts like it's some great achievement. It's fucking lazy and shows low character if you ask me.

rant over.

Rochard 08-29-2012 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive (Post 19151476)
When they ask you what you do and tell them what it is you ACTUALLY do.

Or if you tell them that you ARE your own boss.

You signed up for GFY this month and have all of 12 posts. Chances are do not work in our industry.

2012 08-29-2012 10:41 AM

i tell them I sale butthole door to door on the internets

CashGina 08-29-2012 11:45 AM

Im BIG my own boss
Fucking big boss :):):):)

CashGina 08-29-2012 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by 2012 (Post 19152063)
i tell them I sale butthole door to door on the internets

good answer:drinkup

epitome 08-29-2012 11:55 AM

Most people that "go into work" every day are incapable of imagining a life where you work on your own schedule and do whatever you want to do.

Neighbors that see me walk out the front door at 2 PM with bed head must assume I do nothing with my life.

2012 08-29-2012 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by epitome (Post 19152212)
Most people that "go into work" every day are incapable of imagining a life where you work on your own schedule and do whatever you want to do.

Neighbors that see me walk out the front door at 2 PM with bed head must assume I do nothing with my life.

i walk around town with my bunk-bed hair and beg for change; i actually make more on those days

bigluv 08-29-2012 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by epitome (Post 19152212)
Neighbors that see me walk out the front door at 2 PM with bed head must assume I do nothing with my life.

:) Testify

the Shemp 08-29-2012 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by bronco67 (Post 19151973)
Sometimes I have to ride the train into NYC for a client meeting, and I see all of these people in suits, reading charts and graphs and I think to myself "what the fuck do these people do?"

maybe they make more money than me, but I'd shoot myself if I had to shuffle numbers for my entire life. I'd rather shovel shit in a ditch. Yes, I kind of look down on them.

My ex-brother in law worked in financial, and made a big deal about his job all of the time. He was non-stop bragging about the amounts of money going by his desk, and acted like he was doing God's work. He never asked me a single question about what I do, which is infinitely more interesting and I actually create a product. He just leeches onto money made by other people and shaves some off the top, and acts like it's some great achievement. It's fucking lazy and shows low character if you ask me.

rant over.

ive been on both sides of the equation, years as an executive and later as a webmaster..
i do miss wearing a nice suit everyday and having a "Girl Friday" (sorry girls, it was a real term in the old days) ...

epitome 08-29-2012 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by 2012 (Post 19152221)
i walk around town with my bunk-bed hair and beg for change; i actually make more on those days

In Baltimore County there was a rough looking guy that worked the same intersection for years, even decades. There were many people that would give him $20 every Friday or $5 every day. He was very personable but looked to be down on his luck.

There were always rumors that was not the case.

One day one of the news stations decided to follow him when he was done his day at the intersection. They followed him to a beautiful hi-rise condo building. He took the elevator to the top floor. Penthouse.

He lived with his wife. He was not ashamed or apologetic. All he'd admit to was not showering or shaving every day and wearing scruffy clothes to better look the part. He rationalized that people were giving him money because they wanted to.

Edit: Maybe 25 stories is still considered mid-rise. Whatever.

VenusBlogger 08-29-2012 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by epitome (Post 19152212)
Most people that "go into work" every day are incapable of imagining a life where you work on your own schedule and do whatever you want to do.

Neighbors that see me walk out the front door at 2 PM with bed head must assume I do nothing with my life.

haha Classic... Same happens to me.

Colmike9 08-29-2012 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by epitome (Post 19152292)
In Baltimore County there was a rough looking guy that worked the same intersection for years, even decades. There were many people that would give him $20 every Friday or $5 every day. He was very personable but looked to be down on his luck.

There were always rumors that was not the case.

One day one of the news stations decided to follow him when he was done his day at the intersection. They followed him to a beautiful hi-rise condo building. He took the elevator to the top floor. Penthouse.

He lived with his wife. He was not ashamed or apologetic. All he'd admit to was not showering or shaving every day and wearing scruffy clothes to better look the part. He rationalized that people were giving him money because they wanted to.

Edit: Maybe 25 stories is still considered mid-rise. Whatever.

There are a lot of assholes like that in my city and I know one guy who plays guitar downtown that makes about 70k/year.. :Oh crap

epitome 08-29-2012 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Colmike7 (Post 19152651)
There are a lot of assholes like that in my city and I know one guy who plays guitar downtown that makes about 70k/year.. :Oh crap

The Naked Cowboy in Times Square makes a killing. Of course he's not homeless and doesn't pretend to be.

Barry-xlovecam 08-29-2012 06:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 2012 (Post 19152063)
i tell them I sale butthole door to door on the internets

They probably buy that shit or think it is a cover for the crack houses :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

ggrrssyydik 08-29-2012 11:18 PM

I park my ambulance in an industrial warehouse. My neighbor is an automotive shop. The look on the mechanics face is priceless every time we leave for a shoot.

BTW I never tell anyone that asks me what I really do. I just tell them I work on computers.

kane 08-29-2012 11:27 PM

Something I learned a long time ago is that when people find out you work for yourself they immediately think you don't have a "real" job even though you likely put in more hours than they do.

I actually lost a friend for a few years because of this then several years later he started working for himself and realized just how hard it was.

People think you can just drop everything and do what they want anytime they want.

georgeyw 08-29-2012 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by kane (Post 19153259)
Something I learned a long time ago is that when people find out you work for yourself they immediately think you don't have a "real" job even though you likely put in more hours than they do.

I actually lost a friend for a few years because of this then several years later he started working for himself and realized just how hard it was.

People think you can just drop everything and do what they want anytime they want.


THIS!!

People ring up all day just wanting to chat because they are taking a break from work or some such bullshit. Oh and can you just quickly do this and this cos you do nothing.

rowan 08-30-2012 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by bronco67 (Post 19151973)
Sometimes I have to ride the train into NYC for a client meeting, and I see all of these people in suits, reading charts and graphs and I think to myself "what the fuck do these people do?"

I see the same when I visit my city to deposit the occasional USD cheque. On a weekday almost everyone in the central business district is either a corporate drone, or a tourist.

kane 08-30-2012 01:23 AM

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Originally Posted by georgeyw (Post 19153272)
THIS!!

People ring up all day just wanting to chat because they are taking a break from work or some such bullshit. Oh and can you just quickly do this and this cos you do nothing.

The friend I had a falling out with really pissed me off. He and his wife have three kids. At the time this happened two of them were in school, but too young to be home alone and the third was at daycare all day and too young for school. One day he calls me up because he is stuck at work. He asks if I will go to his house so when the kids get off the bus someone is there and I can hang out for a couple hours until he gets off work. I do it, no problem.

A one time thing turned into another time turned into a few days a week and pretty soon he and his wife pretty much assumed that they didn't need to pay a babysitter, because I could just do this for them. When I told them I couldn't they didn't understand why. I explained that if I sit at their house 2 hours every day that is 2 hours later I have to work that night. They still didn't get it. Apparently they thought I just sat at home all day doing nothing and money just appeared. Eventually, I told them I could maybe help them out a few days per month, but I had to work and couldn't do it every day. They got pissed and thought I was being an asshole.

Fast forward seven years and my buddy gets laid off from work. He gets a chance to freelance work for a company and does so while looking for another job. One thing led to another and he ends up just working for himself and suddenly he realized it isn't just stilling at home watching TV all day.

topsiteking 08-30-2012 01:27 AM

People just think I am 'made' and don't 'work'.
I would like to keep things this way.haha

Dave-U 08-30-2012 04:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Barry-xlovecam (Post 19151639)
If you tell people that you are in the porn business a lot of them assume you wank all day because that is what they would do if they had the same responsibilities ... Some more savvy people understand that this is a business and can be lucrative -- old story.

In many situations it is better to say you are in online marketing and be more obscuring.

Same here... "online marketing". Especially when my girlfriend's mom asks :)


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