Question about girls
 

Ok,
Theres one chick that got my cell phone number, and she keeps calling me and stuff. She asks why i don't call her, blah blah blah.
She said that she felt bad, like maybe she had done something wrong and thats why i dindt wanna see her again.
I said that i was out of town and everything is fine. But i realize i got to loose her.

How to tell her that i'm not interested in her without hurting her feelings and without sounding lame ?

BTW, I can't just tell her to fuck off. I'm a nice person and can't really do that.

This is serious. I need a serious advice.

Just talk to her in your broken english dialect. She'll understand.

You have options:

1) Be honest. Talk to the poor girl.
or
2) lie to her.

I'm the same way as you. I just blow 'em off completely. Women seem to have a hard time gettin' the hint & just can't let it go, so it gets tough sometimes. If you try to make her NOT like you...she's just gonna want you more, so that's never a good option.

If ya nailed her, it's gonna be twice as hard to get rid of her!

Good luck.

I say honesty is best in this situation...but you don't have to tell her why you're not interested (might hurt too much)

:)

Talk to her ? And what exacly should i tell her ? "I dont like you ? "

Lie to her ? Tell her i'm gay ?


And no we didnt have sex.

tell her you want her to star in porn movies with your buddy for you. If she's game you make lots of money before you have to get rid of her, if not you're rid of her.

Telling her you're gay would be a good excuse but hey, she might then want to convert you back to straight...
How about you having another girlfriend?

if i tell her that i'm in porn business she'd think that i'm some kind of pervert.


Then she would tell me something like: "what the fuck were you thinking when you asked me for my number and asked me out ?"

redirect your number to my number many have solved the problem this way

You need to tell her the truth, while providing good therapy simultaneously... You are partially responsible for her sorrow -- or at least your expectation of sorrow -- otherwise if you weren't expecting her sorrow you wouldn't be here on GFY...

So that's what you have to explain to her -- that you care about her a lot -- otherwise you wouldn't have such a hard time telling her that she does not satisify all of your desires... Perhaps you love her, and she loves you, but that's not always enough... You are not "in love" -- which I believe is a sort of pure love based on selflessness -- true "love" is when both sides are loving unconditionally -- you have both decided to not be selfish -- but in many cases that is impossible to do with people because your human desires get in the way -- human desires like physical attraction, the need to be understood, the amount of affection shared, intellectual conversation, does she go deep enough on your cock during oral sex, etc. etc.

Just explain the shit as it is... Be true to yourself and be nice to her and just be realistic... Investigate all angles of the situation -- you can solve this... The solution may be a little messy, but that is something you will have to live with -- because if you can't live with yourself then you are in an even worse situation.

Fucking Pussy

What do you care? Ya wanna get rid of her, right!?

i usually say, "you're a cool girl, but not my type, i like a girl who will take it in the ass while barking like a dog"

that should solve everything :thumbsup

I know it's hard to do, but just be straight forward with her. Tell her you're not interested in seeing her anymore. Don't sugar coat it or do some stupid "let's be friends" thing, just tell her you don't think you're compatible and you wish her well blah blah blah but you don't want to see her. If you're nice and honest she will stop calling.

Honesty is always the best policy...but if you have to lie then do it well.

If you can't really say I am not interested in you, let her figure it out on her own by dropping hints like:
1) sorry I didnt call you last night or pick up my phone but I was on a date.
2) I met this girl last night...don't get dirty just personal
2) Talk to her like a friend and not like a "potential"
That is where broads get pissed off because they feel like they wasted their time, and you didn't let them know earlier.

If she still wants to stick around after you let her know that you are dating someone else. Maybe the whole friends thing can be a potential solution.

TheFly - that was.....interesting :winkwink:


who ?

Does she stink?

:winkwink:

LMAO!

Ditto!

3 words: I AM GAY

Thats all you need.

I believe he's refferrin' to Fly...lol

Be a fucking man....ask her if you can do her in the ass with a cell phone, or pork her mom while she watch's.

Watch her run away....problem solved

And if she's into it...then sweet...you get to pork her mom while she watchs...make sure to video tape it, that shits hot.

i told her i would call her when i get back to town (in 3-4 day).
maybe if i dont call her she'll take a hint ?

Exactly what I said above. Just blow her off...hopefully, she'll eventually get the hint. That's what I do. It takes 'em a while to just let it go, but she'll get it eventually.

someone get this kid some nail polish

And if she's callin' this much this soon...there's somethin' wrong w/ her already. Definitely some insecurity issues there...

:1orglaugh

yeah but then she''ll probably think that i'm a jerk. Promised to call her 2 times and never did.

Darkjedi--- what I see from your posts here is that
you have a massive ego,
you think you are the overlord when it comes to judging whether a woman is good-looking or not,
you think women want you so much they are begging you and stalking you.


Reality: We are kicking God out of office. Hail to the new God: you.

What up God...

well, its not my fault that girls are attracted to me.
i may have an ego or whatever, but I never hurt them.
It would be much easyer to say "fuck off" to her than to get on GFY and try find some smooth solution.

thanks for everyones replys btw.

Well, if ya wanna get rid of her this is the easiest way of doin' it w/o havin' to actually deal with it. I mean, is she a good friend of yours? Did a friuend/family set you two up? If not, then who gives a shit if she thinks you're jerk. You'll never have to see her again.

no shes not a good friend of mine and no one set us up.


yeah thats what i'll probably do. not call her. but then i'll feel myself like coward who is afraid to meet a chick and tell her everything in the face - so its all rigged :1orglaugh

i'll probably drop a couple of tequilas and go meet her.

Dude, you want her.
You don't want to hurt her, you don't want her to think you're a jerk, you don't want her to think you're a pervert... if you really wanted to get rid of her, you wouldn't give a shit about those things (or at least the last two).

Being nice doesn't mean superficially being nice. If you were a nice person, you wouldn't ask us what to do, you would talk to the girl and tell the truth, insteady of trying to manipulate her.

don't be a fucking pussy! don't not call her. that is the lamest shit you can do. tell her how you feel in all honesty and as long as you're not a dick about it, she'll understand and everything will be all good. plus, if you end on good terms, you will always have a fall back fuck...always.

Give her my number and she'll soon forget about you!

Seriously though - be a man and tell the truth. I fucking hate it when a woman treats me in the same way. I'd much rather know right off the bat that I'm not wanted.

Sadly it happens way too much.

:helpme

Why are you asking this on GFY?
Probably the worst place ever to get real answers to any relationship stuff. Just be a fuckface and don't answer her calls. She gets the hint..

Or,

Go to her place, fuck her up the ass, wipe your dick clean on the curtains, grab a beer from the fridge and leave without saying a word.

That'll stop her from calling.

This from a kid that laughed and posted about the humor of the chick getting slapped and choked...dude, get your personality together...

please.....that chick on video was enjoing her "job"
i'm not the one to be blamed