One difference between women over 35 and girls 18-28
 

(this only applies to American women)

You tell a more mature woman she is "gorgeous" and you make her week, get her phone number, and she comes over and cooks you dinner before amazing sex.

Tell the same thing to a girl age 18-28 and she will cross the street to avoid you whenever she sees you next.:2 cents:

Haha, that is so true. Young girls just can't handle life/men/anything.

I brought this 45 year old home once was really hot, you know if you are into plastic surgery, and in the morning when I went downstairs to make breakfast, she CLEANED BY BATHROOM.

You may be right.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh!

The best way to gain a young girl's attention seems to be ignoring her...

thats most probably because a hot 18-28 year old isnt as desperate as a 35 year old at the end of her time?

I am sure that is part of the reason but I think the main reason is because American women begin to realize they have been raised on a steady diet of toxic mental input.

I have lived in other areas of the planet and the girls were not anywhere near as fucked in the head.

So fucking true

Milf and cookies :jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff

How old are you?

You are creeping the 18 - 28 yearolds out.

Dunno why you would make a thread showing everyone your noobness with girls..

Are you the same dude that text messages girls for dates?

haha... sounds true!

so true :1orglaugh

LOL! I invite you over for a day in the life. Today is going to be interesting at my place. BTW, it does not involve any girls who are in the adult industry:2 cents:

I know the psychology of the average self absorbed neurotic American girl very well and was merely making an observation.

Actually, he's totally right. Flatter and be kind to 32+ year olds, and they'll be delighted. They're better in the sack AND you can normally have intelligent conversations with them, and fuck, they normally have their shit together too. No more "OH FUCK I G2G MY MUMS GONNA SMELL THAT I HAVE SMOKED!" or whatever teens do these days...

Yeah I don't see how older guys date 18 or 19 or even 20 year olds. Personally I wouldn't date any girl under 23, and I am 25. I prefer older girls, so much more mature.

Having to treat younger girls with disrespect in order to keep them interested gets old. I prefer to get all romantic with mature women. It is a huge turn on for me actually.

Sure thing bud.

It's not about dis-respect its about not being a sleaze bag.

I do not engage in personal flames on message boards (perhaps I have in the past). I wish you the best.

:1orglaugh

Like where?

The people with the most power understand and that is what matters most to me.:2 cents:

How old are you?

You are right.

Girls that are 18-28 do not want to be told they are gorgeous by a middle aged man.

Girls 18-28 are a COMPLETELY different generation.

they are completely different people from the women 30+

to say they are just paranoid,scared,neurotic freaks is very narrow minded.

Roy says .. us mature gals are more greatfull!

It's a shame, it seems young Women can't really have fun anymore - without putting out. Makes it chancey to be flirty and friendly.

Compliment my shoes, and I feel like a sexy young thing, all day long. :thumbsup

The one girl I have truly been in love with is from Arnhem, Netherlands. Tall, green eyed with model looks she impressed me because she was happy to wear second hand clothing given to her by her mother. I stayed with her in Holland for 6 months and we also traveled throughout Israel, Egypt, Jordan, and Greece during one summer and fall.

I was a materialistic and shallow bastard of course so I returned to the USA to make money. She went on to India and worked with orphans. (how many gorgeous American girls do things like that?)

Lots.

Your materialistic and shallow nature is attracting the wrong "american" girls.

You fuck a bitch but you date a nice girl.

Country girls turn me on, sluts turn me off.

I am nowhere near middle aged and young enough to be in a crowd of college aged people and not look "like and old dude". You are right, I should not be so narrow minded. Thanks for the advice.

Gotta run guys, I don't celebrate Easter but if you do please have a good one!

Nah, I hung out a a great group of amazing American girls yesterday. There are some good ones of course. Just very few.

And I am doing my best every day to become less materialistic and shallow. It is a process.

I think you're right on this one. As a woman matures she begins to realize what's more important in life. When I was younger, I woulnd't necessarily get offended or scared by someone saying I was gorgeous, but I appreciate it much more now than I would have back then. I think most younger women now-a-days are selfish and inconsiderate. Face it, that generation has become the 'me' generation. Yes, there are exceptions to the rule, as with everything, but it is essentially true....

I find it interesting that you guys/girls are saying young woman don't want to be told they are "hot, gorgeous, sexy" etc.. because they are selfish, inconsideration and ungrateful.

This is a very complicated issue.

and it is different for different girls.

Jesus dude who pissed in your cheerios?


Anyway I agree with the original poster.. younger US girls are pretty stuck up and full of them selves. It does vary from city to city though.

If there is more competition for them, meaning less men then women then their attitude changes drastically.

Easy, you don't "date" young girls like that, you amuse yourself with them for short periods of time and get your rocks off fucking them. :thumbsup

There used to be a song, "There is a tiger in those tight fitting jeans"

"Older Women Make Good Lovers"

There used to be a song, "There is a tiger in those tight fitting jeans"

"Older Women Make Good Lovers"

When you tell a younger woman they are gorgeous it's probably the 100's time they've heard it that week. Most of the time people who haven't demonstrated any "value" will say it and it immediately comes across as approval seeking behavior which is turn-off.

So... you definitely have to do different approaches for different age groups otherwise it's blow off city.

-A

The best way to gain a younger woman's attention is to tell her she's stupid. I'm serious.

All the best pickups I've had have stemmed from telling them that they are dumbshit chicks and not worth my time. Of course you're going to have to establish some type of playful dialog to begin with, it doesn't work just walking up to some girl at the bar and telling her you think she's a stupid bimbo. You have to lead into it.

Laugh at them, playfully tell them 'there's not a woman on earth with a brain in her head', 'all girls are the same. dumb golddigging airheads', etc etc. Tell her she is lesser than you and laugh about it as you do so. They will almost surely have some smart snapback, tell them it wasn't that smart and continue to toy with them. Instantly they feel the need to prove that they're different from the other girls, and prove that you do need them. Thus proving that they are in fact dumbshit airheads. Any intelligent women will tell you you're an idiot and walk away when you start trying to cut her down, but not your average college aged girl...

Get a buddy and head out to shoot pool, find a couple girlfriends together and get going with some doubles. Joke around a bit, playfully take a couple cheap jabs at their pool ability. They'll surely take a jab back at you, reply with an "oh, so you think you're pretty smart now now huh?" you're already on your way...

Well of course that is Neanderthal psychology and you are required to use it in every day communication in order to navigate the general social scene but it is a nice treat to be able to date a person who has a brain stem. Having to use Neaderthal psychology to gain and sustain interest *can* be a turn off for me.

Then we hit 45 and we can get you to mow our grass, paint our house and cook us dinner (as long as it's on the grill ;) ). Of course, it's an even distribution of favors at that point....

10 of my HS girlfriends and I were talking the other day about how it's not even worth going out with a man under 50 these days. They're still growing up and we just don't have the time or desire to babysit :)

Hey, I am WAY under 45 and am looking to be a house husband. Fuck going to work! I would love to just hang out and make food, take care of the pets, open the gate for the yard crew and pool guy.

I am 6' 185 pounds and 6" penis (on a good day). If any of you rich ladies are up for it I am interested to talk.:pimp

Noooo - we don't want a househusband, lol. We want someone who's willing to work as hard as we do. Equality is a key word here.

Quite honestly, if you've reached the age where we'd consider you (close to 50 - some mature faster, but rarely under 40) and haven't figured out you have to work hard/smart enough to be financially successful, then you're probably not someone we want to deal with :thumbsup