Now this is crazy....
 

My g/f in NJ calls me up and tells me that her and her daughter had a fight because she hit her mom while she was on the phone. So the 6 year old tells her mom she's going to kill herself. WTF? Has anyone ever heard of a 6 year old saying that?


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dammm..no, but it has to be the fuckin TV these days...

Mr. Romance

She needs to take the 6 year old hold her down and put a pillow over her face. Not hard mind you, just enough to scare her. Then when she screams to have the pillow taken off lift the pillow and say "I though you wanted to die? Guess not. Now get your ass in your room before I spank the living shit out of you."

Uh? that?s child abuse bud. Try that shit here and you?ll go straight to jail if the kid ever tells anyone about it.

No it's not. Go ahead let a kid hit you. Then when they're older and killing people you can blame yourself.

Me and my siblings and friends use to do shit like that as play. I guess we were child abusing each other.

ahhh...television , the great american babysitter!

i use to be concerned when people would make those kinds of statements , now i just "let them be" , if your life is so bad that death would make it better than by all means...renew! , renew! - logan's run

jim

When my friend asked her how she would do it the little girl said she would cut herself up with a knife.

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Yes, it is. You?re sitting there and telling me that you can grab a six year old, HOLD HER DOWN FORCIBLY, and force a pillow onto her face for an extended period of time, depriving her of oxygen? And you?re trying to say that isn?t child abuse?

As for you your siblings and friends, as long as you?re in the same age-bracket it?s not child abuse. If an adult does it to a kid then YES, it is child abuse. Can?t believe your advocating smothering a child to teach it what death is? Jesus titty fucking Christ.

Are you serious? That is crazy. Get her a psychiatrist ASAP so he can put her on some meds to calm her down.

She has already done this after the girl killed her hamster a year or so ago.


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Something is deep rooted in her psyche, none of us here can make the call and honestly I dunno if any advice we give could of any assistance. My niece is an extremely dark kid (she?s 8) and talks about death all the time, even to the point of screaming she?ll kill herself. Then at other times she?ll be as happy as a clam, just a happy little child as she should be. Doctors really haven?t diagnosed anything, she?s seen a child shrink once or twice but they failed as well. I honestly think she?s a candidate for bi-polar disorder, but I dunno.

So your saying at 5 she was already killing hampsters too? This is starting to sound like a horror movie. Have the psychiatrist up the dosage or put her on something else instead. If that dont work.....im not sure what will :2 cents:

that family needs some help and quickly

At age 4 her dad was broke down so the mom left her with a "friend" when they came home they found out this "friend" gave the little girl a bath, (I know they guy and never liked him and told her never to leave Jess with him alone) the next week is when the hamster was killed.

She just turned 6 on Monday

And, did that "friend" ever suffer any consequences for his actions?

dont blame the TV.. the fucking parent(s) is at fault here

Sounds like she needs a good ass whooping if you ask me. Granted I'm not at all condoning child abuse to the point where you actually put the kid in the hospital, but when talking, time outs, and anyother form of dicipline seases to work WHIP THAT ASS. I think if more parents did that we wouldn't see the fucked up things that we see today. That's just my:2 cents:

No actually my g/f and I got into a big fight about it cuz I was like WTF? he gave her a bath? and you didn't say a word? I don't care who you are a man shouldn't ever give a little girl a bath unless he's the dad IMO.


One week to the date the hamster was killed. I had made a post about it and all I got was shit talked to me saying that I'm to paranoid about child molesters. Well I can't help that, another friend of mine had to take her then 11 year old to have an abortion because her father had fucked her, sick fucking bastard.:mad: If I had know I would have taken her out of there but by the time we all found out the family had made a run for it. It weighs on my heart so bad that I didn't do something.

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You win the "Never ever ever ever have kids" award. :thumbsup

No offense but wtf are you doing hanging around these kind of people anyway? If you cant help, perhaps distance yourself from this stuff.

If you hang around trash eventually you take on their likeness.. I've seen it happen to people I've known back in the day.

just some advice/2 cents

PLEASE tell me you don't have kids and don't intend to.

When we became friends Jess was 2, we now live in NC and they live in NJ so I don't hang around with them as it's over 450 miles away. I just talk to them every week or so.

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Appearantly reading is not your strong suit. I never said that dipshit.

same thing... you should cut it off or fall into the chaotic pit that is their life :2 cents:

Actually I have an 11 year old boy. I'm a single dad for the last 7 years because his mother is a meth whore. I've gotten no support from her financially or otherwise. So fuck off. Anywys my son never said at 6 "I'm going to kill myself"

So you think I shouldn't be trying to help?


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Personally, i do. But only if you feel compelled to do so. I think what he's trying to say is dont get to close and get all caught up in their lives and shit. It could become too big a burden for you. But hey, what do i know....i've never experienced this sort of thing yet. Hope i never do either.

yes I do, BUT recognize a loss cause or you will get sucked into it.

I am speaking from experience as my wife has known friends from childhood that turned into shit adults. Their problems were dumped on my wife like she was a two bit baggage handler at a Costa Rican airport.

and when her friends cleared up episode after episode it was only a matter of time before the cycle started again and they ran back to her for help.

she was so happy after this was cut off (by my doing primarily)

I'm sincerely glad that you're son isn't suicidal. Just keep the fucking pillow away from his face regardless of what he says/does. Giving a child a taste of death as you suggested is NOT a positive treatment for anything.

thats crazy I blame all the violence on tv

I blame porno...

seriously funny seeing pornographers taking the right-wing conservative stance on this.

censorship anyone?

all the perfect parents here with advice. reminds me of that murry show where they send the kids to boot camp and scream at the kids, and stick them in a jail cell etc.. all these kids would cry and change.. but this one kid laugh about it all.. he said all my life my father screamed at me and abused me and you think some dumb ass dude screaming in my face is going to make me change.

I think you would need a whole background of the kid in order to give advice, if my son said he was going to kill himself, we would sit down and explain to him about what he just said, cause obsiously he doesn't understand what death is, and that doing that would make us very sad not to have him around anymore... etc etc.

oh my... because of media, i guess...
that sounds bad...
6 year old using suicide as a threat..

Kids these days are crazy.

that kid rocks maybe shes a spoiled brat.

please skull fuck yourself with a rusty crowbar. piece of shit. They should have left you banned.

Kids don't invent these things. I see to very possible options
A/ They heard it from mom/dad (don't know the person so don't know how likely that is)
B/ TV

You are confusing him with GregB who is still banned. GatorB was not.




TurboAngel: your life sounds like a page out of the Jerry Springer Show. Hell, not a page... and entire BOOK. There is always some sort of major drama going on. Perhaps some of these stories should be emailed into ol' Jerry.

lah lah lah lah - i read this thread and all I have to say is....lah lah lah lah

I see a lot of people here blaming TV....and not the parent(s)...maybe parents should stop having the TV babysit their kids and do some parenting themselves...and every kid is different so unless someone knows the kid personally then it's very difficult to give any sort of advice :2 cents: