Most disturbing night of my life - I feel like vomiting
 

Last night, I went out with a good friend of mine, his girlfriend, and her best friend. Pretty standard night, we had dinner, saw a movie (Doodeind - if you're Dutch, avoid it at all costs, my cousin made it so I was forced to see it, but it sucks ass) and went boozing. Nothing unusual so far.

Well, to skip unnecessary details, a few hours later, my friend and his girlfriend's best friend were fucking eachother on the floor of his appartment, and his girlfriend was on her back in front of me, naked quite willing. I went down on her, but couldn't go through with it, so I left, despite her begging me to fuck her and telling she's wanted to fuck me for ages.

It may not sound all that disturbing (well, apart from me passing up the chance to have sex with two women), but for some reason, the whole thing just makes me physically sick. It's not so much having seen my friend and his pimply ass fucking some chick (although that image is quite sickening as well) - the thought of his girlfriend literally begging me to fuck her just seriously sickens me.

What the fuck? :Oh crap

some people are just kinkier than others. I would be a little put off too...

i prefer a classy chick!

To each his own,
No big deal.

At least you know your wanted lol

Thing is, I am (or at least used to be) pretty "kinky". I've done lots of stuff most people would consider sick, including threesomes, foursomes, gangbangs, dp's, etc. Hell, I even fucked some girl on a pool table in a full bar once.

It's just that I've known the guy for twelve years, he's been with this girl for three of them, and the thought of fucking her never even occurred to me.

The worst thing, though, is how the hell I'm going to deal with this. Me, the guy and his girl go out together pretty often, but I just can't see that happening anymore.

i think the "unnecessary" details are very necessary in this story.
this is like the "Yada yada yada" thing....how did happed that she was naked and ready ? just because she was drunk?

Nope. Summarized: at one point in the evening, the girls started making out with eachother, then I messed around a bit with the other girl. The girls were talking about a foursome, but neither me nor my friend took that very seriously.
I even tried to ditch them so my friend could have a threesome with both girls (there were two cute chubby dykes at the club, who seemed rather interested in me), but the girls insisted that I come along to his place. So, we ended up there, the girls started doing eachother on the floor, and next thing I knew, I was walking home with a rather strong feeling of nausea and disturbing mental images of my friend's girlfriend asking me to fuck her.

Same thing happened to me once (or twice). Completely different outcome though... :winkwink:

that is disturbing period. I would feel the same.

I've never drank piss, but I have pissed in a dozen or so girls' mouths. Does that count?

Perhaps the most disturbing part, to me, is that the guy just seemed to consider letting me fuck his girlfriend an acceptable trade-off for the chance to fuck her friend.

You just wasted an awesome opportunity dude. You'll regret it.

I'd say you should fuck her. It's your moral obligation. A friend's girlfriend in need. Sometimes you have make sacrifices (ie deal with nausea) in order to be a true friend and be there for them when they need you most.

But yeah, all that is BS, it just sounded good in my head. It would freak me out a bit too and I'm typically up for anything similar.

i thought you had a gf?

Just act like that night never happened. In other words, pick up where you left off the day before. If one of them brings up the subject, reply that you must have had too much to drink because you don't remember anything.

They'll get the hint.

I don't think I'll regret this. Truth be told, I don't even find the girls particularly attractive.

Ahhh, then you are probably just gay. Which is fine and nothing to be worried about.

Let me rephrase that.

Truth be told, I don't even find these girls particularly attractive.

Een behoorlijk dood einde dus...

Well, may be you drunk too much and the whole situation all in all made you feel vomiting.

You probably did the right thing. Even if your friend lets other guys do his girl (just speculating here) at some point (if you had fucked her) he may feel differently because his good friend did her. Did that make sense?

Also, if it bothered you, you definitly did the right thing.

In terms of seeing/going out with them again, I think you should just ignore it for now and see what happens. Try to chalk it up to a 'oh well, shit happens', and go with the flo.

Just my 2 cents. Feel good knowing you did the right thing for you.

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On the other hand she was begging. THis is a little bit cruel.

Bring them to the Amsterdam show so I can decide if they are attractive or not.

You should change your nickname - it doesn't fit you :)

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a dissolute person; usually a man who is morally unrestrained

unrestrained by convention or morality

Marked by an absence of conventional restraint in sexual behavior; sexually unrestrained

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You gotta be true to yourself. Doing stuff you honestly consider wrong will just wreck you long term. You did the right thing when you left. Seems like you have a rather strange friend with an even stranger girlfriend. :2 cents:

did his gfs pussy taste good?

You did good by walking away ....Go out with them again and you tell them the reason you were turned off is because you didn?t want the act to ruin your friendship. Tell your buddy's girl that she is attractive but you can't see past the fact that she is his girlfriend .
(This is all assuming you haven?t done ANYTHING else with either one of them before)

you should have put it to her....

Would you introduce me to your friends?

It's funny.. well, weird that you felt fine going down on her - but for some reason drew some strange imaginary line that fucking her would somehow be worse.

Whether you choose to believe it or not, you crossed the line already.

She might have begged a LOT less if you didn't have your face buried in her crotch. Had you walked away sooner, you wouldn't have this story to tell. Either you learned from it or you haven't - THAT should determine how you feel.

I know I crossed the line. That's what sickens me. I should have stopped way earlier - when I actually wanted to stop, which was before we even went to my friend's appartment.

I didn't stop because I thought "this would cross the line", I stopped because it felt wrong, disgusting and appalling.

you do what you feel is right to you, others will have to deal with how they see it on their own. thats not your problem. but i think dennisthemenace said it best about explaining it all. personally i probably would of went for it after already going down on her though i don't think i would of been so quick to do that considering how recent the friend could of had his dick down there. don't sweat it man, im sure all will be fine between all of you if you don't let it consume your mind when you're around them too much.

Does this happen to you often?

No. That is to say, not in this context. I've fucked friends' girlfriends (when I was young and stupid), I've fucked guys' girlfriends while they were doing the other hole, I've had couples ask me for threesomes, but this was a definite first.

Yeah, that's pretty low. If a boyfriend of mine were to offer me up in exchange for getting to fuck someone else, he'd get a swift kick in the nuts.

A good friend of mine recently let his girlfriend of 2+ years fuck his best friend while he fucked her best friend. I was very put off when I heard that story. Maybe I'm just old fashioned.

you have chicks begging you to fuck them? :o

hook me up :winkwink: