My girlfriend cheated on me with my ex bestfriend?
 

Should I break up with her we have a kid together she has no job and no family I feel sorry for her but at the sametime I dont love this girl anymore. What should I do?

never trust a cheater
they do it again

the kind makes me think otherwise.


if you are strong enough stay with her ro raise the kid but date other women

Yeah, best you can do is stuff condoms in her purse when she goes out for milk and cigarettes -- :2 cents:

2hp

If you don't love her anymore then leave. You can still play an active part in the kid's life. If she has cheated on top of that then why even ask for advice. Seems pretty clear to me.
There is no point staying in a relationship just for the kids.

become just friends, start dating other chicks.

Happens to pretty much everyone at some point in their life, we all survived it.

dont know...
your call :(

tell her to get off her ass and get a job, then leave her...either take the kid or be part of the kids life but not the chicks

Yes i think this must be a personal call... :|

i really agreed with that.


s2kcord you can do it i know every thing will be fine

cut her heart out with a rusty old spoon

Dump her and just support the kid

Do you think that this type of relationship is going to be healthy for your kid?

I think the board has spoken...

Dump her, take the bitch to court and get custody of your child.

as long as they are not married he got only a really small chance of getting custody of the child...

:disgust

If she has no life, no job than how is she supposed to care for the child. But you're probably right...

I love your sig

i don't know how it is where he lives...
but in germany the mother is the only one being allowed to care for the child if there is no marriage

time to move on imho

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it is not that easy...
especially when you love the person...
and he got a child..

a world is collapsing for him atm

Did you confuse GFY with the Dr. Phil Message Boards?

don't know it is yours call!

basically its like this... the fact she cheated on you is sub compared to her dishonesty and lack of trust she broke those two and the relationship is done it will NEVER get put back... just cuz you have a child doesn't mean you cannot be there I have a child by a girl who cheated on me with a guy while she was pregnant im in that childs life everyday im not overseas shooting... I talk to him and am there for him... even if the mom and I see differently...
time to move on... time heals wounds (cliche but true).... and you two need to discuss about the child

Good luck man my hearts there for you I been there
Kinkade

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Do the same thing, but with the guy. She'll be confused and might explode.

there is no need of staying together if love doesn't exist anymore. you can talk to her so that everything would be ok and you both can move on.

ya, I agree need to more on before her fuckups start becoming your own...

That's calls fucked up girlfriend and fucked up ex bestfriend. He is piece of shit he is not a real friend. It's a really bad stort when your former best friends do such things.
have no idea what you need to do with your girlfriend. I think you should speak with her at first!

dump her......

get a DNA test done on the kid. You caught her cheating. you don't know its her only time.

then get even with her by posting her nude pics in this threrad.
it will make you feel better.

bang her best friend ;) j/k...

Shitty situation, but there's no way i'd stay with her.

cut that bitch off and just worry about your kid thats what is most important she can take care of herself she's gotta grow up sometime...

drop her, cheaters will always cheat

dump the cheating whore.

put her on that Cheaters tv show

Encourage her to get a job before you leave her ass..It will save you money (child support). Whatever you do...don't walk into court with her unemployed. The judge will hit your pocket hard.

isnt there an old saying if you love something set it free, and if it dont come back hunt it down and kill it :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Cheaters should be treated like Lepyrs and put on a special island, given that in toe it would have to be a huge island...perhaps continent :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Kinda in a same dilema (not going to get into details) I believe that you should just make her get a job and take responsibility and then leave her. Take the kid if thats in the best interest of the child. A cheater never learns or stops cheating. Once a dog always a dog!

So true...

Leave her.... she will do it again...

IF you don't love her anymore...then you got your answer...
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