So my girlfriend of 3 years just left me....
 

I was taking her to mexico in three weeks and asking her to marry me.... had the ring all set, talked to her parents....and she tells me she can't do it anymore.....

:(

what?!?! why not? :(

thats a drag... try to work it out

ouch.. i'm sure you can work it out. :) good luck dude. :)

Did you want to marry her because you knew you were affraid to loose her ? or really because you loved her ?

because i really loved her....this stuff about her not being able to do it anymore just started suddenly with the last week... she said she's been thinking about it for a few months

can't do what? women need to be more specific and quit speaking in code.

maybe try to bring something fresh to the relationship, go somewhere on vacation

you haven't noticed anything?

that sucks dude

FREEDOM! Everything happens for some fuck up reason!

Some people say that it is easier to live in a relationship that is made out of fantasy then to live in reality.

Just act like your not fucked up about it (of course you are), let her get it out of her system and she will be back.:pimp

well, if there was no signs, then she may be cheating, at least you found out now, i would NEVER take her back. move on, there is more fish in the sea.

anything is possible, i try not to get to hooked to someone, never make someone your entire life.

you should always be able to live as an individual.

she is fucking another guy. trust me. girls dont just say that out of the blue. they like security, and you werent providing it for her.

they want cash and a cock. if you dont ahve one or the other you are going to lose out.

Congrats to the winners!

You're a sad, strange little man. You have my pity.

Sorry man

Dude, you live in a trailer park. Save your pity for yourself. :winkwink:

That's a good saying

My condolences, my offer stands, come visit, bring a laptop....its nothing extravagant but come chill and be humble

TRANSLATION - She's been hot for some guy and wanting to fuck him for a few months and she finally did it within the last week. Now that she has her claws firmly in the next victim you are history.

EDIT - At least you got to see her true colors before you married her and this shit happened. As painful as it may be now you got off easy.

Shes fucking someone else.

this may not be far from the truth. :)

Hate to say it, but she is prolly seeing someone else. :( Sorry, I know that hurts. Best to break it off fast, hire a hooker or fuck a friend. Don't be available. Your reponse to anything is you've got plans and aren't available..... Let her deal with the "what the fuck does that mean". Slight chance it might win her back?

GFY should start another forum just for relationship questions.

And they say guys are the ones that don't communicate well :helpme

girls just don't communicate :Oh crap

did you even read this thread man?

Go watch the movie "Swingers" it will make you feel alot better.

DH

28 ......

... pretty sure he said he was about to take her to mexico..

Best thing one guy can do for another guy under the circumstances is slap him hard in the face, drag him to a bar, point to some hot chick, and say "GO be a DAWG!" You got somebody to do that for ya, bro? If, not bump this thread when you are all dressed, cologned and ready to go out, and we'll do as best we can to get you pumped for the deed right here on GFY -- :)

2hp

LOL see #29

Okay, okay this is what you do:

Buy a 60 of Jack and an eightball of coke. Set your stereo to repeat NIN "Terrible Lie" and Eminem "Kim", get drunk and do the coke. All the answers yo seek will become clear.

move on bro, she's met another guy...

sorry to hear that man.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dagwolf You're a sad, strange little man. You have my pity.

That's a TEENSY bit funny...c'mon, ya gotta admit.

2hp

You're trying to copy my post count, aren't you?

i think you will be past me in a day or so ;)

her parents told her, she is 21 dude, what did you really expect?

She probably met someone else.

she's 21 and you asked her to marry you?

what kind of possessive phsyco are you? how old are you dissipate?