Are all women in America this fucked up?
 

I date this chick that moved to Chicago from LA. After the third date, she doesn't return my call. I figure that's a bit rude but fuck it.

Five days late, she calls me.

She: "Hi".
Me: "Hi".
She: "How's it going?"
Me: "I don't think it's going to work for us. I don't know if you're so busy it takes you five days to return a call or if you're playing hard to get, but either way doesn't sit well with me".

Now she's begging me to take her back. Stupid girl.

Fuck her then don't return her calls.....

Don't forgive her.

she was likely playing, you know, all these stupid shows teach them

tell her, fuck off supid bich!

This is why I don't want to date most america women. They think they are players and love playin the game. I was cool with that when I was 22 but at some point you need to grow up.

The majority, yep

In a word, "yes."

Fuck her in the ass and you're even

i think u were too hard on her.... :girl

All women in the western world are this fucked up. They read those dumbass "empowering" women's magazines that tell them they are the penismaster and they need to mindfuck men into submission.

Tell her if she wants you back she has to give up all 3 inputs and agree to a threesome with you and her best friend.

why answer her phone call? she's not the only human girl alive...

If she was busy its ok imho, if she thinks its cool to mindfuck and yes wait a week then id say next

I'll never understand it either. Too many women out there want to play games. That's why when you find a good one, hold on to her.

Jesus, you'd only been on three dates. It's not like you were in some kind of serious relationship. You sound needy.

shes playing hard to get dude, she wants to know just how bad you want/like her.... thus her begging after you make the phone call projecting your feelings....


Uhhhh.....Duh?!?!

fuck her last time ...then say its over :)

Tomud

the only way to be is to not let anyone get to you. be confident. be secure. be yourself. don't desire them. don't care either way. another person is an enhancement to your life and what you are and stand for, not a necessity. if you don't have a fear of being alone from time to time, you'll never be without. words to live by. too much emotion and not enough reality depletes their reason.

*disclaimer* not responsible for the actions of whacko chicks you might know. :winkwink:

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Thats what I was thinking. Then again, she is begging for you to take her back which sounds equally needy.

just because you dated your Fleshlight 3 times is no reason to believe it will develope into anything more than a once in a while physical thing.
seek other interests.
if that doesn't seem to work, join the Army.
you need a stable, structured life.
and use plenty of Lube!
you 'll get friction blisters!

:1orglaugh :thumbsup

have her make it up to u in a major way ;)

You sound like the girl of this mini 3 date relationship and she is wearing the pants. Dont be a bitch.

How are you sure she got your call?

It is possible to not actually get a message left on a machine or with someone else... :2 cents:

Sounds like shes testing the waters, probably fucking other people.

It's not about that. She called me the day after the first date to set another one. She called me the day after the second date to set another one. I call her after the third date and she waits five days. That's textbook games playing - and I don't tolerate that shit.

I left it on her cell phone - it's very rare that those get lost. Anyway she didn't deny receiving the message.

yup yup :thumbsup

ROFL!!
Had that happen to me
Was always talking with this chick
Nothing serious.. but then as it got a bit more
We go out for a drink.. with no one but us
Everythign smooth
Next day.. I call.. she doesn't return call
and so on.. after 3days. I say fuck it

She calls 1 week later.. told her same thing as you
she kept calling 2-3 times a day for about 1 week
Kept it cool.. made it clear to her.. sorry.. the train has left the station!

fun to see her try when go out for a friends bday/supper and she there :thumbsup

Send her to Duke Dollars, lol..

I blame Oprah.

LOL because there is no possible way she could have been busy...text book wha? You Dr. Phil all of a sudden? LOL Stupid girl for calling back and persisting...

I agree.. fuck her brains out then don't return her calls ever again :D

Tell her you'll accept her back on the condition that she brings a hot friend along and you engage in a steaming hot threesome.

If she does it then she's a keeper.

Also, http://www.nomarriage.com

what a bitch

I hear from so many men that the majority of women are seriously fucked up about relationships and have no idea how to behave properly. I agree that many women have been taught that because they have a pussy, they don't have to play by the rules. I think it's really sad, because you know that these women are going to have kids and teach them the same bullshit... that means there won't likely be ANY good dates in America for the next 100 years.

I'm one of those crazy weirdos who actually mean what they say, enjoy being a dirty girl in bed, and don't play fucked up mind games to gain power and control of relationships. And you know what? I'm a happy, well adjusted person who isn't an emotional cripple. Go figure!

Wait a minute..Are you saying, that she asked you out after the first date? Since, when does a girl asks the guys out after the first date? Man, I gotta go back to all of my psycho babble books because it looks like I've got all of these games wrong. :Oh crap

I would continue to date her, and let her play her games (not as effective when you are onto her antics) and continue to fuck her until another girl comes around at which point I would tell her I know what she has been doing. Slide the new girl a $50 and tell her to kick the shit out of her. She might not ever choose to play games again, but I doubt it. She will be back on the roster in a couple days for sure.

Girls are real assholes sometimes.

omg! god forbid a woman doesn't call back, it's immediately thought of as game playing.

i guess the pot and kettle have finally met for if you tell me you have never done the same, i will call bullshit.